Dear Chump Lady,
So, I was reading a single mom blog today and she was talking about how the single dads out there seem like they feel more “pressure” to have more kids. She thinks it has something to do with how they were in “long, miserable, sexless” marriages and now that they got out, they want to go and bang young chicks. But the young chicks aren’t THAT young, so they might want to have babies again so the guy kinda goes along with it… (like trying to get with younger women is a good reason to have another kid anyway! and I’m sure these awesome guys waited until they got out of their miserable, sexless marriage.)
I actually think, going by things my ex has said, that a lot of these guys in fact just want to “start over” with a “new” family and selfishly don’t want anyone that already has baggage even though they already have their own.