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Anyone want to be on a HuffPo video panel?

May 27, 2014 by Chump Lady

Segment tomorrow — Wednesday 1 p.m Eastern Time on physical and emotional affairs. Looking for a personal story you don’t mind sharing on a video panel. The discussion is levels of cheating. (IMO, it all sucks.)

If you’re interested, email me by tomorrow morning at info@chumplady.com

Thanks!

 

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Comments

  1. namedforvera says

    May 27, 2014 at 9:14 pm

    sorry–would love to,have done TV, but am tied up just at that time. You have brilliant commenters — I know you’ll get a great group.

  2. Miss Sunshine says

    May 27, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    “Levels” of cheating.

    Question is, “Are you with me, or are you against me?”

    I don’t want to be anyone’s domestic servant. If your partner wants out, or doesn’t want to be in, then show them the door.

  3. Dr. I Can't Believe I'm a Chump says

    May 27, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    That would be the ultimate reveal. . . But no.

    Good luck to the chumps that do participate!

  4. Patsy says

    May 28, 2014 at 3:41 am

    I would love to, but in UK. The hardest thing is to get people to understand just how hurtful and destructive it is.

    They don’t get it. Even your friends. That it shatters everything.

    • Reyn says

      May 28, 2014 at 7:22 am

      One of my friends had a cheating partner, when I told him about it I think he was the only one who truly understood what I was feeling.

  5. Renee says

    May 28, 2014 at 4:45 am

    Shame I’m in Oz, my husband had both types of affairs…funnily enough out of the different affairs the emotional affair hurt even more…

  6. MMBurned says

    May 28, 2014 at 9:33 am

    As with Renee – in multiples.
    But with a PA Divorce Masters Conference coming up (you may know that one CL…) I’m gonna keep mum for a bit.

  7. Chump Lady says

    May 28, 2014 at 12:02 pm

    Hey one of the chumps here who responded was chosen for the panel, so tune in!

    Here’s the link

    http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/segment/the-worst-way-to-cheat-on-someone/537f784202a760f76f000389

  8. ANR says

    May 28, 2014 at 2:56 pm

    “Chief Science Officer” at AshleyMadison.com? OMG!

  9. namedforvera says

    May 28, 2014 at 5:02 pm

    Watched it…well done ChumpNation!! Lucid, convincing, accurate. Excellent, thank you for representing.

  10. Sara says

    May 28, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    Who the bloody hell decided women aren’t also VISUAL CREATURES? How does this particular sense inherently allow for cheating more than another? By that logic all of our pheromones would have us in one Paleolithic orgy–according to Relatively New Monogamy Dude.

  11. Tess says

    May 28, 2014 at 9:55 pm

    Did anyone notice that the OW ‘Jill’ did not say one damn thing that made any sense? Good grief, this is journalism? And the happy crappy excuses why men cheat. Give me a break.

    Although applause for Chump Nation and our chump! Well done.

  12. namedforvera says

    May 28, 2014 at 10:22 pm

    Well, yeah…Dr. “I like to cheat and get paid by Ashley Madison”. They oughta revoke his degree. Probably a matchbook school.

    Or, as Upton Sinclair said, ““It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends upon his not understanding it!” No Kidding…

    • Arnold says

      May 28, 2014 at 11:20 pm

      Why the fuck is it so difficult for some folks to understand that if you pledge mo otaku and then cheat, you’ e defrauded your partner.
      Say it is true that after a period of time folks tire of sex with their spouses. Well, did it ever dawn on these folks that maybe their partner would like some strange, as well? But, if they lie to their partner the partner forgoes similar opportunities, in reliance on the contract.
      That is fraud. It is theft of a person’ s time.
      As CL, repeatedly points out when dealing with the “monogamy is unnatural ” argument, so what? Then tell your spouse so he or she can have some variety, as well.
      But, here is the real crux of this, IMO: cheaters really believe that they are more deserving of this variety/spice of life deal than their partners. They really believe their partners are lesser beings. The PhD from Ashley Madison completely ignores this aspect of cheating.

      • Arnold says

        May 28, 2014 at 11:22 pm

        WTF mako oktu or whatever auto correct did to “monogamy”

        • mamayo says

          June 1, 2014 at 4:35 pm

          Ha! “Mo otaku” — that’s the cheaters’ form of “monogamy” — incomprehensible and meaningless.

  13. Susan Regan says

    May 28, 2014 at 11:13 pm

    Did I miss this????? Next time, count me in!

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