Segment tomorrow — Wednesday 1 p.m Eastern Time on physical and emotional affairs. Looking for a personal story you don’t mind sharing on a video panel. The discussion is levels of cheating. (IMO, it all sucks.)
If you’re interested, email me by tomorrow morning at info@chumplady.com
Thanks!
Tracy
sorry–would love to,have done TV, but am tied up just at that time. You have brilliant commenters — I know you’ll get a great group.
“Levels” of cheating.
Question is, “Are you with me, or are you against me?”
I don’t want to be anyone’s domestic servant. If your partner wants out, or doesn’t want to be in, then show them the door.
That would be the ultimate reveal. . . But no.
Good luck to the chumps that do participate!
I would love to, but in UK. The hardest thing is to get people to understand just how hurtful and destructive it is.
They don’t get it. Even your friends. That it shatters everything.
One of my friends had a cheating partner, when I told him about it I think he was the only one who truly understood what I was feeling.
Shame I’m in Oz, my husband had both types of affairs…funnily enough out of the different affairs the emotional affair hurt even more…
As with Renee – in multiples.
But with a PA Divorce Masters Conference coming up (you may know that one CL…) I’m gonna keep mum for a bit.
Hey one of the chumps here who responded was chosen for the panel, so tune in!
Here’s the link
http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/segment/the-worst-way-to-cheat-on-someone/537f784202a760f76f000389
“Chief Science Officer” at AshleyMadison.com? OMG!
Watched it…well done ChumpNation!! Lucid, convincing, accurate. Excellent, thank you for representing.
Who the bloody hell decided women aren’t also VISUAL CREATURES? How does this particular sense inherently allow for cheating more than another? By that logic all of our pheromones would have us in one Paleolithic orgy–according to Relatively New Monogamy Dude.
Did anyone notice that the OW ‘Jill’ did not say one damn thing that made any sense? Good grief, this is journalism? And the happy crappy excuses why men cheat. Give me a break.
Although applause for Chump Nation and our chump! Well done.
Well, yeah…Dr. “I like to cheat and get paid by Ashley Madison”. They oughta revoke his degree. Probably a matchbook school.
Or, as Upton Sinclair said, ““It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends upon his not understanding it!” No Kidding…
Why the fuck is it so difficult for some folks to understand that if you pledge mo otaku and then cheat, you’ e defrauded your partner.
Say it is true that after a period of time folks tire of sex with their spouses. Well, did it ever dawn on these folks that maybe their partner would like some strange, as well? But, if they lie to their partner the partner forgoes similar opportunities, in reliance on the contract.
That is fraud. It is theft of a person’ s time.
As CL, repeatedly points out when dealing with the “monogamy is unnatural ” argument, so what? Then tell your spouse so he or she can have some variety, as well.
But, here is the real crux of this, IMO: cheaters really believe that they are more deserving of this variety/spice of life deal than their partners. They really believe their partners are lesser beings. The PhD from Ashley Madison completely ignores this aspect of cheating.
WTF mako oktu or whatever auto correct did to “monogamy”
Ha! “Mo otaku” — that’s the cheaters’ form of “monogamy” — incomprehensible and meaningless.
Did I miss this????? Next time, count me in!