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2022
- September 2022
  - Sep 30 Worst Gift Ever?
  - Sep 29 UBT: Other Woman Doesn’t Want the “Mistress” Label
  - Sep 28 UBT: The Children Made Me Cheat
  - Sep 27 Why Does My Cheating-Ex Show Off Around Me?
  - Sep 26 A Puppy and a Middle-Aged Birthday
  - Sep 23 And the Saddest Sausage Goes to…
  - Sep 22 It’s Different. He’s Been to Therapy.
  - Sep 21 Adam Levine Suggests Naming His Child After His Mistress
  - Sep 20 UBT: Dr. Keith Ablow “Infidelity Is a Lousy Reason to End a Marriage”
  - Sep 19 Long Distance Relationships and Double Lives
  - Sep 16 How Did You Mentally Survive Infidelity?
  - Sep 15 How Do I Get My Cheating Wife to Reconcile with Me?
  - Sep 14 UBT: The Burger-Flipping Love That Dare Not Speak Its Name
  - Sep 13 When the Cheater Is in the Family
  - Sep 12 Camilla Queen Consort
  - Sep 9 Chump Epiphanies?
  - Sep 8 UBT: ‘I Had an Affair And Now My Kids Won’t Forgive Me’
  - Sep 7 He Claims He Just Sexts and Never Meets
  - Sep 6 He Cheated Me and His Employer
  - Sep 5 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
  - Sep 2 Stress of Staying in a Toxic Relationship
  - Sep 1 Leave a Cheater, Gain a Bradley Cooper
- August 2022
  - Aug 31 UBT: Renegade Sex Therapists
  - Aug 30 UBT: ‘I Will Return With a Fuller Love’
  - Aug 29 How Do I Help My Chumped Son?
  - Aug 26 Cringey Cheater Profundities
  - Aug 25 Why Is the Cheater Living His Best Life And I Am Not?
  - Aug 24 UBT: Sad Sausage Poetry
  - Aug 23 Chumped with a Cheating Friend
  - Aug 22 Woman Outs Cheater in Aussie Newspaper
  - Aug 19 Any Regrets Leaving a Cheater?
  - Aug 18 UBT: ‘I in no way want be looked at as a home wrecker’
  - Aug 17 She Won’t Leave Her Cheater
  - Aug 16 Only Fools Break Tiffany Glass Windows
  - Aug 15 Michelle Branch Arrested for Slapping Cheating Husband
  - Aug 12 What’s Your Ex’s Name on Your Cell Phone?
  - Aug 11 Schmoopie Dumped Him, He Blames the Kids
  - Aug 10 Olivia Newton John’s Unwavering Positivity
  - Aug 9 UBT: ‘Give Me Some Clarity’
  - Aug 8 How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist
  - Aug 5 Tell Me About Your Boundaries
  - Aug 4 The ‘I’m Sorry, We Good?’ Play
  - Aug 3 How Do They Flip So Fast?
  - Aug 2 Five Months Pregnant and He Announces He’s Getting His ‘Needs’ Met Elsewhere
  - Aug 1 Uber Driver Busts Jesus Cheater Legislators?
- July 2022
  - Jul 29 How Much Did You Spend on Reconciliation?
  - Jul 28 I Need to Know the OW’s Identity
  - Jul 27 The Elon Musk Super Douche Affair
  - Jul 26 What If He Changes for the OW?
  - Jul 25 Reconcile at a $12K Marriage Retreat
  - Jul 22 You Might Be a Cheater If…
  - Jul 21 Jennifer Lopez Marries New and Improved Ben Affleck
  - Jul 20 UBT: Don’t Give Up on Me
  - Jul 19 UBT: I Am Not In Control
  - Jul 18 UBT: I Wish You Were Still Nice
  - Jul 15 Ever Run Into an Affair Partner?
  - Jul 14 He Runs Me Down to Our Daughter
  - Jul 13 ‘My Husband Wants to Date’
  - Jul 12 UBT: Destroying Marriages to Improve Them
  - Jul 11 UBT: ‘Please Send Me the Money’
  - Jul 8 Cheating Father Gets Unvarnished Obituary
  - Jul 7 ‘She Refuses to Understand We Are Over’
  - Jul 6 Husband Uses Massage Parlors
  - Jul 5 Ex Insists Their Son Call OW ‘Mummy’
  - Jul 4 A Chump Declaration of Independence
  - Jul 1 Defending Incomprehensible Life Choices
- June 2022
  - Jun 30 Shkreli Smythe Schmoopie Karma
  - Jun 29 ‘Why Do I Miss Him?’
  - Jun 28 ‘I Hate No Contact’
  - Jun 27 Babies Are Great!
  - Jun 24 ‘Why Won’t She Get Over It?’
  - Jun 23 UBT: When Your Affair Partner Ghosts You
  - Jun 22 Beware of OW Bearing Gifts?
  - Jun 21 Franklin Graham Encourages Woman to Take Abuser Back
  - Jun 20 The Phone Records Are Shady, Is He Cheating?
  - Jun 19 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 17 Therapy Homework Fails
  - Jun 16 UBT: ‘He Hurt You, Not Me’
  - Jun 15 Confronting a Divorce-Phobic Cheater
  - Jun 14 Pick Me Dance Fail
  - Jun 13 Am I a Bad Friend for Not Supporting Friend’s Affair?
  - Jun 10 Where Do You Get Your Mighty?
  - Jun 9 Do I Unfriend My Ex’s Family on Social Media?
  - Jun 8 Shakira Got Chumped
  - Jun 7 Can I Leave for an Emotional Affair?
  - Jun 6 I’m a Civil Co-Parent. Isn’t That Enough?
  - Jun 3 Translate Some BS
  - Jun 2 Untangling Depp vs. Heard
  - Jun 1 Why Does Everyone Assume Cheating Is the Chump’s Fault?
- May 2022
  - May 31 He Says He’s a Sex Addict. Should I Keep Dating Him?
  - May 30 UBT: When Your ‘Match’ Is a Married, Motivational Speaker
  - May 27 What Did They Still Expect After They Cheated?
  - May 26 A Busy Week for Jesus Cheaters
  - May 25 Her Cheating Husband Spies on Her
  - May 24 Gain a Life Tuesday: Karma and Trading Up
  - May 23 She Keeps Acting Like We’re a ‘We’
  - May 20 Tell Me How You’re Mighty
  - May 19 Hulu’s Candy: Twu Wuv and Axe Murder
  - May 18 Is She Cheating Because She’s Bipolar?
  - May 17 How to Tolerate Ex in Close Proximity
  - May 16 The Long Arc of Sane Parenting
  - May 13 What Did You Want to Send But Didn’t?
  - May 12 My Ex Wants to Live in My Basement
  - May 11 UBT: ‘They are all deep connections with different colors’
  - May 10 Will He Commit After the Baby Is Born?
  - May 9 Would You Tell a Dying Woman She’s a Chump?
  - May 8 Happy Mother’s Day!
  - May 6 Euphemisms for Cheating?
  - May 5 Bill Gates Has a Sadz About His Divorce
  - May 4 Are You Sure It’s Not My Fault?
  - May 3 When Soul Mates Go Splat
  - May 2 The OW Left Him and I Don’t Know How I Feel
- April 2022
  - Apr 29 Stupidest Lie You Bought?
  - Apr 28 UBT: ‘Sorry I Was So Lame’
  - Apr 27 My Friend Won’t Listen to Your Advice
  - Apr 26 The Other Woman Died
  - Apr 25 What If I’m Never Meh?
  - Apr 22 4 Reasons Why Gaslighting Works
  - Apr 21 She Was Going to ‘Make It Up to Me’
  - Apr 20 How Do I Face OW at Daughter’s Graduation?
  - Apr 19 Chump Lady Turns 10!
  - Apr 18 UBT: “Just Let Me Try”
  - Apr 15 Dating Profiles You Would Never Post
  - Apr 14 I’m the Other Woman and I’m Terrified He’ll Cheat on Me
  - Apr 13 Why Is No Contact So Hard?
  - Apr 12 ‘I Think My Boyfriend Is on Dating Sites’
  - Apr 11 How Do I Explain My Divorce?
  - Apr 8 Will, Jada…. Esther?
  - Apr 7 He Cheated on Me with Prostitutes
  - Apr 6 ‘She Must’ve Made the Right Decision to Cheat’
  - Apr 5 Getting Through ‘The Slog’
  - Apr 4 He Denies He Cheated… And Our Friends Believe Him
  - Apr 3 CL Recommends: Candi Staton
  - Apr 1 Did the Affair Partner Tell You?
- March 2022
  - Mar 31 ‘I Believe the Other Woman Is Psycho’
  - Mar 30 Decoding ‘I Haven’t Been Happy For a Long Time’
  - Mar 29 Tuesday Tales from the Other Side
  - Mar 28 ‘Love Will Make You Do Crazy Things’
  - Mar 25 Closure and Other Myths
  - Mar 24 She Admitted to Cheating, Then We Had Great Sex… WTF?
  - Mar 23 UBT: ‘You Should’ve Been a Better Husband’
  - Mar 22 What If I Leave and He Really Loves Me?
  - Mar 21 UBT: ‘It Has Not Broken Me’
  - Mar 20 The New Site Is Here!
  - Mar 18 Bitch Boots and Other Talismans
  - Mar 17 UBT: ‘You Made Me Leave You’
  - Mar 16 Should I Tell the Other Chump?
  - Mar 15 Her Husband Wants an Open Marriage
  - Mar 14 The Affair Partner Is Daughter’s Coach
  - Mar 11 Shark Eyes and Dead Stares
  - Mar 10 ‘Broken’ Cheater Cheats Again
  - Mar 9 Why Can’t He Be Happy for Me?
  - Mar 8 When the OW’s Kid Insults You
  - Mar 7 4 Ways Melinda Gates Keeps Her Divorce Classy
  - Mar 4 The Moment You Knew You Were Mighty?
  - Mar 3 Left a Cheater, Gained a Few Nightmares
  - Mar 2 Ex Thinks They Must Have a ‘Relationship’ for Their Daughter
  - Mar 1 The OW Signs My Support Checks
- February 2022
  - Feb 28 Clapping Back at Switzerland Friends
  - Feb 25 Is Anyone ‘Grateful’ for the OW/OM?
  - Feb 24 How Not to Be a Chump When Dating
  - Feb 23 COVID Roommate Becomes Other Woman
  - Feb 22 How Do You Get Out of Limbo?
  - Feb 21 D-Day and The Silent Treatment
  - Feb 18 Did You File First?
  - Feb 17 The Kids Are Killing My Meh
  - Feb 16 5 Things You Need When Leaving a Cheater
  - Feb 15 And the Winner of the Infidelity Valentine’s Contest Is…
  - Feb 15 UBT: ‘I’m Trying Right Now’
  - Feb 14 The Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry Contest
  - Feb 11 I Can’t Believe I Just Said That
  - Feb 10 How to Divorce a Financially Abusive Cheater
  - Feb 9 UBT: ‘You Were So Perfect, I Had to Cheat’
  - Feb 8 Camilla Queen Consort
  - Feb 7 Joe Millionaire: The Pick-Me Dance for Fun and Profit
  - Feb 4 Gaslighting: What They Said, What It Actually Was
  - Feb 3 Jeff Zucker’s Hasty Retreat
  - Feb 2 Angry Feelings Still That She ‘Got Away with It’
  - Feb 1 Jealousy and the Leggy, Blonde Other Woman
- January 2022
  - Jan 31 4 Reasons Affair Fog Is Not a Thing
  - Jan 28 Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Pandemic Edition When-TF-Ever This Ends
  - Jan 27 Woman Donates Kidney to Cheating Boyfriend
  - Jan 26 I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You
  - Jan 25 A Leave-a-Cheater Tuesday Story
  - Jan 24 And Just Like That: Pick-Me-Dance Triumph
  - Jan 21 Stupid Sh*t the Reconciliation Industrial Complex Says
  - Jan 20 How to Deal with Taunting
  - Jan 19 Joss Whedon’s Non-Apology
  - Jan 18 UBT: Brent Sadler’s Douche Solidarity
  - Jan 17 Is She Really Just a Close Friend?
  - Jan 14 Most Creative Concealment Excuses
  - Jan 13 UBT: ‘My Ex Owes Me Money’
  - Jan 12 UBT: ‘Respect My Relationship with the OW’
  - Jan 11 Help Me Not Be a Bitch
  - Jan 10 ‘I Didn’t See Any Red Flags’
  - Jan 9 And the Winner of the Xmas Cheater Freak Contest Is…
  - Jan 7 Attempted Hoovering Fails
  - Jan 6 He Was Not As Advertised
  - Jan 5 UBT: “My Handling of Your Situation Is Beyond Fault”
  - Jan 4 How to Line Up Ducks When You Can’t Afford a Duck
  - Jan 3 Schadenfreude and the FW Whisperer
2021
- December 2021
  - Dec 31 Better Days Ahead 2022 Edition
  - Dec 30 DaVinci Code Guy’s ‘Secret Life’?
  - Dec 29 Chumped, Friendless, and Stuck
  - Dec 28 Busted by Doorbell Cam
  - Dec 27 I Love My ‘Wonderful’ Addicted Cheating Wife
  - Dec 24 When Your Kids Want You to ‘Get Over It’
  - Dec 23 He’s Cheating and Now ‘Needs My Help’
  - Dec 22 He Apologized. Now What?
  - Dec 21 UBT: ‘I May Be His Mistress, But I’m Not a Homewrecker’
  - Dec 20 How Do I Stop Feeling Guilty?
  - Dec 17 Cheater Freak Christmas Contest
  - Dec 16 Being Compared with an Affair Partner
  - Dec 15 Ben Affleck Has a Sadz
  - Dec 14 ‘I Left Him on the Side of the Road’
  - Dec 13 UBT: Will the Sex Get Boring?
  - Dec 10 Holiday D-Days Anyone?
  - Dec 9 Left Her with 4-Month Child So He Could Be ‘Happier’
  - Dec 8 Living Together Until Cheating Wife’s Affair Partner Is Free
  - Dec 7 Single at the Holidays?
  - Dec 6 ‘My Sister Is Cheating on My Brother-in-Law’
  - Dec 3 How Did You Line Up Your Ducks?
  - Dec 2 ‘My Husband Got Engaged’
  - Dec 1 Can I Break Grey Rock Just This Once, Please?
- November 2021
  - Nov 29 UBT: ‘Emotions at Many Times’
  - Nov 26 Holiday Traditions You No Longer Must Endure?
  - Nov 25 Happy Thanksgiving! Gratitude and Jello Salad
  - Nov 24 When You Don’t Want to Spend Thanksgiving with Your Ex
  - Nov 23 UBT: Narcissist Cheater Life Coach
  - Nov 22 How to Help a Chumped Parent?
  - Nov 19 Best Sad Sausage Performances
  - Nov 18 Lone Star Jesus Cheaters
  - Nov 17 Accept the Love Bombing Gifts?
  - Nov 16 Sex with the Ex WTF?
  - Nov 15 Her Husband Wishes She Were More Porn-like
  - Nov 12 Signposts to Meh?
  - Nov 11 He Says ‘It’s Not What It Looks Like’
  - Nov 10 Dumped with ‘You Deserve Better’
  - Nov 9 Cheating Ex Wants a Character Reference
  - Nov 8 A False Confession?
  - Nov 5 Telling People… How, When, Regrets?
  - Nov 4 Alice Evans Will Not Go Quietly
  - Nov 3 UBT: Investigative Questions for Couples Experiencing Infidelity
  - Nov 2 Should I Tell Grandma She Was a Chump?
  - Nov 1 ‘Hero’ Cheater Is a Deadbeat
- October 2021
  - Oct 29 Undervaluing Your Accomplishments
  - Oct 28 Is Breaking Up 4 Years After D-Day ‘Overreacting’?
  - Oct 27 UBT: ‘Accept My Truth’
  - Oct 26 UBT: The Sugar Daddy
  - Oct 25 Is Sexting Cheating?
  - Oct 22 Worst of the Flying Monkeys?
  - Oct 21 He’s Back After ‘Ending It’ with OW
  - Oct 20 What If He Changes for the Next One?
  - Oct 19 No Family and Feeling Alone
  - Oct 18 I Still Have Joy
  - Oct 15 Your Friday Challenge Is…
  - Oct 14 He Left to Join the Circus
  - Oct 13 UBT: How to Get Proof They’re Cheating
  - Oct 12 Friends Disapprove of Her Divorce
  - Oct 11 Hopium and the ‘Power of Maybe’
  - Oct 8 Cell Phone Names for FWs
  - Oct 7 I Unfriended Him
  - Oct 6 ‘I Want Him to Stay with the Other Woman’
  - Oct 5 New Boyfriend Says She’s ‘Playing the Victim’
  - Oct 4 This Is Your Brain on Hopium
  - Oct 1 ‘Weaponized Incompetence’
- September 2021
  - Sep 30 ‘I Still Have Nightmares About Her’
  - Sep 29 She Wants Me to ‘Fight For Her’
  - Sep 28 ‘I’ve Never Broken Up with Anyone’
  - Sep 27 Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year
  - Sep 24 Infidelity Is Abuse: Discuss
  - Sep 23 UBT: Brene Brown with Esther Perel
  - Sep 22 The Other Man Wants to Come to Mom’s Funeral
  - Sep 21 The Crying of Gabby Petito
  - Sep 20 UBT: ‘I Am Feeling Sad About This’
  - Sep 17 D-Day Anniversary Benchmarks?
  - Sep 16 UBT: Esther Perel on Beyonce
  - Sep 15 Love Is Not a Weakness, It’s a Gift
  - Sep 14 Mother-in-Law Says: ‘Let Girlfriend Take Over’
  - Sep 13 How the Hell Can I Live with Him Until I Can Get Him Out?
  - Sep 10 Got Jesus Cheaters?
  - Sep 9 More Snappy Answers to Chumpy Questions
  - Sep 8 Is This Hoovering?
  - Sep 7 Maybe He’ll See What He’s Missing
  - Sep 6 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
  - Sep 3 Tell Me How You’re Mighty Pandemic Edition 3.0
  - Sep 2 Ex Tells People She’s ‘Liberated from a Loveless Marriage’
  - Sep 1 Need CN’s Powerful Words of Support
- August 2021
  - Aug 31 UBT: I Know My Truth
  - Aug 30 Bitch Cookie: ‘He Doesn’t Blame Me’
  - Aug 27 ‘Bagged Salad’ and Other Excuses
  - Aug 26 UBT: My Husband’s Craigslist Ad
  - Aug 25 The ‘Dual Accountability’ Therapy Fallacy
  - Aug 24 I Just Want Her to Be Truthful
  - Aug 23 Was Anything Real?
  - Aug 20 Rituals for New Lives?
  - Aug 19 How to Be Mighty at a Wedding
  - Aug 18 UBT: ‘I Wish You Were Still Nice’
  - Aug 17 Do I Have to Forgive Him?
  - Aug 16 UBT: The Mayo Clinic
  - Aug 13 Rewrite Your Story?
  - Aug 12 His Double Life Was Revealed After Death
  - Aug 11 UBT: ‘Monogamy Is a Gift’
  - Aug 10 He Doesn’t Know If He’ll Come Home
  - Aug 9 Why Do Affair Partners Stalk Chumps?
  - Aug 6 Support in Unexpected Places?
  - Aug 5 The Other Woman Was a ‘Best Friend’
  - Aug 4 UBT: Leaving and Cleaving
  - Aug 3 Is This an Emotional Affair?
  - Aug 2 UBT: “Thank You for Always Being There”
- July 2021
  - Jul 30 Your Best Detective Skills?
  - Jul 29 How Do I Set Boundaries with My Kids About My Ex?
  - Jul 28 He Took the OW on Vacation
  - Jul 27 Financial Freedom from a FW
  - Jul 26 Is ‘Bum-Bum’ a Friend?
  - Jul 23 Rocking the No Contact
  - Jul 22 Idolized, Devalued and Dumped
  - Jul 21 UBT: “I Made a Mistake”
  - Jul 20 What Meh Feels Like
  - Jul 19 Rubberneckers and the Remarriage of an Ex
  - Jul 16 Leave a Cheater, Adopt a Dog
  - Jul 15 Am I the Jerk for Wanting to Leave?
  - Jul 14 I’m REALLY Angry. Is This Normal?
  - Jul 13 Where Are All the Single, Available Men?
  - Jul 12 Caught Him on the DoggyCam
  - Jul 9 I Need You Like A….?
  - Jul 8 UBT: “I Needed You So Much”
  - Jul 7 Debunking “Affairs Are About Opportunity”
  - Jul 6 3 Chumped Women Expose Army Lt. Col. with Double Life
  - Jul 5 A Chump Declaration of Independence
  - Jul 2 Most Psycho Reaction to Being Busted?
  - Jul 1 How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the OW?
- June 2021
  - Jun 30 He Doesn’t Hoover, He Rages
  - Jun 29 My Ex Gave Me an STD
  - Jun 28 Matt Hancock, Busted
  - Jun 24 Reframe It
  - Jun 24 Ben Zobrist, Chumped But Not Down
  - Jun 23 6 Thoughts on Character Assassination
  - Jun 22 Why Can’t I Get Them Out of My Head?
  - Jun 21 UBT: The Couple Bubble
  - Jun 20 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 18 Leave a Cheater, Change Your Surroundings
  - Jun 17 Kick Me Out of My Funk
  - Jun 16 Why Does He Keep Changing His Mind About Reconciliation?
  - Jun 15 Snappy Answers to Chumpy Questions
  - Jun 14 Jeffrey Toobin’s Non-Apology Apology
  - Jun 11 Were You Love Bombed?
  - Jun 10 Chump Lady Defends Her Potty Mouth
  - Jun 9 Ethical Non-Monogamy Was a Bust
  - Jun 8 What Makes the New Guy Better?
  - Jun 7 Years Later and No ‘Meh’
  - Jun 4 Acts of Chump Rebellion
  - Jun 3 How Do I Get Over My Envy?
  - Jun 2 Should I Send a Father’s Day Card?
  - Jun 1 UBT: We Are All Complex
- May 2021
  - May 31 Cheating on a Marine? Don’t Ask Ms. Vicki
  - May 28 How Do You Confront a Cheater?
  - May 27 Therapist Says Not to Tell Anyone Her Husband Cheated
  - May 26 I Don’t Miss Him — Is There Something Wrong with Me?
  - May 25 The ‘Only One Who Really Cares’?
  - May 24 He’s Sorry He Got Caught
  - May 21 Stupid Stuff Cake Eaters Say
  - May 20 My Best Friend Is an Affair Person
  - May 19 UBT: I Will Return With a Fuller Love
  - May 18 The Bill and Melinda Gates Divorce
  - May 17 UBT: Our Relationship Is Over, I Suppose
  - May 14 Be Your Own UBT
  - May 13 How Do I Ward Off Emotional Vampires?
  - May 12 I Keep Getting Messages He’s Having an Affair
  - May 11 I Don’t Feel Mighty. I Got Left.
  - May 10 Meeting the OW for the First Time
  - May 7 What Did You Think You Couldn’t Do That You CAN Do?
  - May 6 Enough with Divorce Shame
  - May 5 Is He a Unicorn or a Narcissist?
  - May 4 He Butt-Dialed Her from the OW’s
  - May 3 It Took Balls to Cheat on Him?
- April 2021
  - Apr 30 No Contact Fails — The Blooper Reel
  - Apr 29 Why Does He Hate Me?
  - Apr 28 Her Menopause Made Him Cheat?
  - Apr 27 UBT Me, Please
  - Apr 26 UBT: Inform Me About Your Girlfriend
  - Apr 25 Je viens de découvrir que j’ai été trompée. Je fais quoi maintenant?
  - Apr 25 Ce qu’il ne faut pas faire
  - Apr 25 ¿Es este un remordimiento real? ¿O un remordimiento de imitación de cuerina legitima?
  - Apr 25 La reconciliación y las concesiones
  - Apr 25 La riconciliazione con una Timida Creatura del Bosco
  - Apr 25 La teoria unificata della Botte Piena
  - Apr 25 Croccantini per l’Ego
  - Apr 25 L’umiliante danza dello “Scegli Me” !
  - Apr 25 Espectro de Personas Infieles
  - Apr 23 Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Pandemic Edition Whatever Day This Is
  - Apr 22 Are These Red Flags?
  - Apr 21 He’s Having a Baby with the OW
  - Apr 20 Leave a Cheater, Gain a Harley
  - Apr 19 Seconding Guessing Yourself About Leaving
  - Apr 16 How Are You Changing the Narrative?
  - Apr 15 I Want My Cheating Wife to Read Your Book
  - Apr 14 UBT: Gina Frangello, Blow Your House Down
  - Apr 13 UBT: Monogamy Is a Gift
  - Apr 12 He’s ‘Saving’ the Other Woman
  - Apr 9 Is He Winning?
  - Apr 8 20/20 Signs They Were Cheating
  - Apr 7 UBT: ‘Loving Your Husband Hurts Me Too’
  - Apr 6 Is Limerence a Thing?
  - Apr 5 It Was a ‘One-Off’ — Let It Go?
  - Apr 3 Chump Lady Audio Arrives
  - Apr 2 Infidelity Euphemisms
  - Apr 1 Boris Johnson’s Lady Friend(s)
- March 2021
  - Mar 31 Debunking Marriage Builders, Inc.
  - Mar 30 Derrick Jaxn, The Latest Unicorn
  - Mar 29 He Says He ‘Never Went Looking for It’
  - Mar 26 Ever Run Into Your Ex?
  - Mar 25 Getting a Friendly ‘Weird Vibe’ from Ex-Wife
  - Mar 24 ‘I Thought You Knew’
  - Mar 23 A ‘Fix Your Picker’ Refresher
  - Mar 22 Allen vs. Farrow
  - Mar 19 You Might Be a Chump If…
  - Mar 18 UBT: In Defense of Dating a Married Man
  - Mar 17 Jealousy and ‘Just Friends’
  - Mar 16 Ex Wants Chump to Go to Therapy with Her
  - Mar 15 Chumped by Two Chumps
  - Mar 14 Site Still to Come
  - Mar 12 No Contact, Gray Rock, and Other Kinds of Mighty
  - Mar 11 ‘I Haven’t Been Happy for a Long Time’
  - Mar 10 Why Are They So Petty?
  - Mar 9 Mighty MacKenzie
  - Mar 8 UBT: “Please Give Me Another Chance”
  - Mar 6 It’s Coming… A New and Improved Chump Lady Site
  - Mar 6 Croquettes ego-boost
  - Mar 6 Acabo de descubrir que me han puesto los cachos. ¿Y ahora qué?
  - Mar 5 Lo que NO debes hacer
  - Mar 5 Have a Bitch Cookie
  - Mar 4 Cool, Bummer, Wow
  - Mar 4 UBT: This Isn’t the Real Me
  - Mar 3 Dump ‘Scorned’ Already
  - Mar 2 UBT: A Letter from ‘The Baby’
  - Mar 1 Standing on Lies
- February 2021
  - Feb 27 New Spanish Translation Posts of CL Have Arrived
  - Feb 27 Supéralo
  - Feb 27 Las paredes de tu casa cantan otra vez
  - Feb 27 Como dejar a un traicionero
  - Feb 27 Galletillas de Ego
  - Feb 26 Chumped But Not Down, What You Did Right
  - Feb 25 5 Things NOT to Do When You Discover Cheating
  - Feb 24 Did He Cheat Because He’s Depressed?
  - Feb 23 Is He Going to Regret Choosing Her?
  - Feb 22 Reconciliation with the Timid Forest Creature
  - Feb 19 What Are You Throwing on the Virtual Bonfire?
  - Feb 18 ‘I Can’t Face Being a Single Mum’
  - Feb 17 When the Other Man Is Your Brother
  - Feb 16 We Reconciled… He Cheated Again
  - Feb 15 Don’t Send It, Three Reasons Why
  - Feb 14 And the Infidelity Valentine Poetry Contest Winners Are….
  - Feb 12 Some Changes to the Blog — All Good!
  - Feb 11 Am I Selfish for Leaving Him?
  - Feb 10 It’s Time Again for Infidelity Valentines!
  - Feb 9 UBT: Opening the Marriage to Save the Marriage?
  - Feb 8 Does Social Media Encourage Cheating?
  - Feb 5 Gain a Life, Gain Better Health?
  - Feb 4 Everyone Thinks He’s ‘Nice’
  - Feb 3 Can I Tell His Family He Cheated?
  - Feb 2 Jealous of the Other Woman
  - Feb 1 UBT: The ‘Shame’ of Being Tiger Woods’ Mistress
- January 2021
  - Jan 29 Jason Collier, Serial Douche
  - Jan 28 Help Her Be Friendly to Me
  - Jan 27 Struggling with No Contact
  - Jan 26 My Mom Sided with the Cheater
  - Jan 25 UBT: “I Made a List”
  - Jan 22 What Does Freedom Feels Like?
  - Jan 21 UBT: The Burger-Flipping Love That Dare Not Speak Its Name
  - Jan 20 UBT: I Can’t Remember
  - Jan 19 How Come I’m Not Over It Yet?
  - Jan 18 Is Pain a Choice?
  - Jan 15 Cheating Husband “Is a Predator”
  - Jan 14 The Mindfuckery of Reverse Victim Offender
  - Jan 13 Sexy Affair Utterances?
  - Jan 12 UBT: I Only Date Married Men
  - Jan 11 He Walked Out for OW But Doesn’t Want a Divorce
  - Jan 8 Why Does Everyone Want Me to Be Friends with My Ex?
  - Jan 7 Is He Just Your Average Narcissist?
  - Jan 6 But He’s Such a Nice Guy!
  - Jan 5 Does Mental Illness Make Him Less of a Cheater?
  - Jan 4 UBT: The Apology That Never Came
  - Jan 1 Gain a Life Version 2021
2020
- December 2020
  - Dec 31 Should I Send Her the Tape?
  - Dec 30 Why Is He So Mad at Me?
  - Dec 29 Fairy Dust Forgiveness
  - Dec 28 The Dying OW’s Confession
  - Dec 25 Merry Christmas!
  - Dec 24 UBT: “Don’t Define Me”
  - Dec 23 Smythe and Shkreli, Star-Crossed Schmoopies
  - Dec 22 ‘How Come All My Boyfriends Suck?’
  - Dec 21 When You Discover Your Boyfriend Has a Married Girlfriend
  - Dec 18 It’s Beginning to Look a Lot like D-Day
  - Dec 17 UBT: Affair Proofing Your Marriage
  - Dec 16 Fractured Hallmark Holiday Specials
  - Dec 15 How Do I Make It Through the Holidays?
  - Dec 14 ‘Replaced’ and Still Feels Empty
  - Dec 11 On the First Day of Christmas My Cheater Gave to Me…
  - Dec 10 Lawyer Thinks She Has an Anger Issue
  - Dec 9 She ‘Can’t Decide’ Between Us
  - Dec 8 Debunking ‘Affair Fog’
  - Dec 7 What Advice Would You Give a Serial Cheater?
  - Dec 4 Your Long, Strange Hopium Trips
  - Dec 3 What Happens to Couple Friends After Divorce?
  - Dec 2 A Gain a Life Update… and Some Schmoopie Karma
  - Dec 1 UBT: How Do I Get My Gay Cheating Husband to Reconcile?
- November 2020
  - Nov 30 ‘Why Do Reconciliation Bloggers Annoy Me?’
  - Nov 27 Old Crazy? New Tradition!
  - Nov 26 Chump Lady Gratitude Turkey Day Recipe Swap
  - Nov 25 ‘I Feel Trapped’
  - Nov 24 Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for Christmas
  - Nov 23 Controlling the Narrative
  - Nov 20 Your Snooping Sins
  - Nov 19 The Crown, The Cake
  - Nov 18 He Wants to ‘Explore His Feelings’ with Her Friend
  - Nov 17 What Made Her Special?
  - Nov 16 UBT: The Huggy Ex and the OW
  - Nov 13 Tell Me How You’re Mighty, COVID Edition 2.0
  - Nov 12 UBT: “True Love Is Never a Scandal”
  - Nov 11 UBT: Married Trader with a Sugar Baby
  - Nov 10 UBT: “I Would Like to Have a Final Conversation”
  - Nov 9 UBT: “I Forgive You”
  - Nov 6 When They Won’t Leave
  - Nov 5 When Your Kids Believe the Lies
  - Nov 4 What Is the First Step?
  - Nov 3 I’m the OW and I’m Terrified He’ll Cheat on Me
  - Nov 2 When the Other Woman Was a Frienemy
- October 2020
  - Oct 30 The Apology That Wasn’t
  - Oct 29 Why Does He Ignore My Co-Parenting Questions?
  - Oct 28 UBT: “You Might Appreciate Knowing Some of This”
  - Oct 27 Are There Cheaters Who Left No Clues?
  - Oct 26 STBX Wants to Come Over for the Holidays
  - Oct 23 Dumbest Insult Your Ex Tried?
  - Oct 22 Where’s My Justice?
  - Oct 21 Don’t Wait on That Apology
  - Oct 20 Jeffrey Toobin’s Troublesome Dick
  - Oct 19 My New Husband Is a ‘Sex Addict’
  - Oct 16 5 Things That Keep You Stuck with a Cheater
  - Oct 15 He sees prostitutes. She’s ‘stuck in a fog’.
  - Oct 14 ‘He Brought His Girlfriend And I Lost My Meh’
  - Oct 13 Returning to Caretake a Cheater Late in Life?
  - Oct 12 Is Monogamy Abuse?
  - Oct 9 Red Flags You Overlooked?
  - Oct 8 The ‘If You Aren’t Nicer’ Threat
  - Oct 7 ‘I Fail to Understand Your Hostility’
  - Oct 6 The Family Next Door
  - Oct 5 Wife Wants to ‘Renegotiate’ the Relationship
  - Oct 2 Any Karma Stories?
  - Oct 1 When It’s More Affairs Than You First Knew
- September 2020
  - Sep 30 Cheater Word Salad Attacks
  - Sep 29 Nearly Engaged…Then Busted
  - Sep 28 ‘He Had a Complete Change of Heart’
  - Sep 25 Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year
  - Sep 24 UBT: ‘Mark Is Fine’
  - Sep 23 Esther Perel’s Myth of the Good Cheater
  - Sep 22 ‘My Sister Blames Me for My Husband’s Affair’
  - Sep 21 It’s the End of the World or the Beginning. I Can’t Tell.
  - Sep 18 Sad Sausage Tales?
  - Sep 17 When Will I Feel Indifferent?
  - Sep 16 He’s Sketchy, But Is He Cheating?
  - Sep 15 ‘I Can’t Talk to My Kids About Their Father’
  - Sep 14 UBT: ‘He Played Me Too’
  - Sep 11 Confrontation Flops?
  - Sep 10 How Do You Leave a Cheater?
  - Sep 9 UBT: ‘If You Need Me, I’ll Be There’
  - Sep 8 In-House Separation, She Won’t Move Out
  - Sep 7 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
  - Sep 4 Close Encounters of the Fake Tears Kind
  - Sep 3 ‘How Could He Walk Away from His Wife and Kids?’
  - Sep 2 Woman Has D-Day After Reading Ex’s Wedding Announcement
  - Sep 1 Tiffany Glass Windows
- August 2020
  - Aug 31 Is This Jealousy?
  - Aug 28 Be Your Own UBT
  - Aug 27 UBT: Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better Mother
  - Aug 26 The ‘People Pleaser’ Excuse
  - Aug 25 Jerry Falwell Jr., Jesus Swinger?
  - Aug 24 Chump Won’t Stop Doing Her Ex Favors
  - Aug 21 Most Ridiculous Excuse After Being Busted?
  - Aug 20 UBT: ‘My Dad Sucks’
  - Aug 19 Chumped and Questioning Feminism
  - Aug 18 Discovered CN by Googling ‘I Hate Esther Perel’
  - Aug 17 My Ex-Wife Wants Me to Go to Therapy with Her
  - Aug 14 Fix Your Picker Tips
  - Aug 13 A Decade of Chump Love
  - Aug 12 Can I Leave a Suicidal Cheater?
  - Aug 11 Is an ‘Emotional Affair’ Reason Enough to Leave?
  - Aug 10 A Chump Off the Old Block
  - Aug 7 Breaking No Contact: How’d That Go?
  - Aug 6 The Pretzel Logic of the 180
  - Aug 5 Dead Bedroom? Cheater
  - Aug 4 No One Is Entitled to Reconciliation
  - Aug 3 Is Reporting Him Revenge?
- July 2020
  - Jul 31 Your Best Word Salad, Please
  - Jul 30 “Our Marriage Was Already Over”
  - Jul 29 UBT: You Will Use This to Illustrate Your Holiness
  - Jul 28 When Affair Partners Marry
  - Jul 27 One Guy Chump’s Gain a Life Story
  - Jul 24 How Are You All Self-Soothing?
  - Jul 23 Dear Chump Lady, My Wife Is Near Perfect But I See Prostitutes
  - Jul 22 UBT: ‘Shortcut to Happiness’
  - Jul 21 When Does the Pain Stop?
  - Jul 20 UBT: I Was Too Much Into My Own Lies
  - Jul 17 What Did You Do With the Photos?
  - Jul 16 UBT: Gottman’s ‘Reviving Trust After an Affair’
  - Jul 15 The Resentment Rap
  - Jul 14 The Fiction of Unconditional Love
  - Jul 13 UBT: Jada’s ‘Entanglement’
  - Jul 10 The Wrong Pickle and Other Sins
  - Jul 9 UBT: “Your Cheating Spouse Is the Victim, NOT You!”
  - Jul 8 The Kid Calls the Felon OW ‘Mama’
  - Jul 7 The Mindfuckery of Reverse Victim Offender
  - Jul 6 He Cheated… Everyone Feels Sorry for Him
  - Jul 3 A Declaration of Independence for Chumps
  - Jul 2 Am I Going to Get Over This?
  - Jul 1 How Do You Get Past the Revulsion?
- June 2020
  - Jun 30 Yeah, That’s Not an Apology
  - Jun 29 UBT: Affair Sex in the Marital Bed Is Wrong?
  - Jun 26 Chump Protagonists in TV Dramas?
  - Jun 25 Cheater Throws Them Out, OW Moves In
  - Jun 24 He Cheated on Her Daughter. She Spackled.
  - Jun 23 Escape After D-Day — ‘Should I Move?’
  - Jun 22 ‘I Trolled the Other Woman’
  - Jun 21 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 19 Your Triumph Moments
  - Jun 17 The LGBTQ+ Chump Perspective
  - Jun 17 How Come No One But Chumps Seems to Get It?
  - Jun 16 The Walls in Your House Will Sing
  - Jun 15 ‘I’m Afraid of Him’
  - Jun 12 The Stupid Things People Say to Chumps
  - Jun 11 When Is It Okay to Tell Someone STOP?
  - Jun 10 ‘I Have a Hate in My Heart Where Love Used to Be’
  - Jun 9 Why Cheaters Think You Could Be Friends with Their Affair Partner
  - Jun 8 ‘Maybe He Was Right About Me?’
  - Jun 5 Cheating Excuses and Non Sequiturs — ‘It Didn’t Take That Much Time’
  - Jun 4 He’ll Send Support If She’ll Send Naked Pictures
  - Jun 3 Do Cheaters All Work from the Same Script?
  - Jun 2 UBT: Let’s Put Aside ‘Our Differences’ for These Special Times in Our Kids’ Lives
  - Jun 1 ‘I Let Him Come Over with Pizza’
- May 2020
  - May 29 Who Filed for Divorce?
  - May 28 ‘My No Contact Stinks’
  - May 27 ‘I Just Want My Life Back’
  - May 26 ‘I Want to Blast Them on Facebook’
  - May 25 Marine Chump: This Is Worse Than Being in Iraq
  - May 22 Infidelity, Divorce, Kids — How Did You Navigate It?
  - May 21 ‘I Turned the Tables’
  - May 20 UBT: Mother’s Day Wishes from the OW?
  - May 19 Why Blame the Chump?
  - May 18 How Do I Find the Courage to Leave?
  - May 15 Tell Me How You’re COVID-Era Mighty
  - May 14 UBT: He Blew Up the Marriage to Improve It
  - May 13 UBT: ‘My Life Is Rich and Full’…. That’s Why I’m Stalking You
  - May 12 When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail
  - May 11 Mistress Is ‘Archaic’ and ‘Sexist’?
  - May 8 I’ll Be Seeing You In All the Old Familiar Places
  - May 7 UBT: “You’re the One True Love of My Life”
  - May 6 He’s Sad and I Feel Responsible
  - May 5 “I Need to Forgive the OW” WTF?
  - May 4 ‘I Lost My Meh’
  - May 1 New Words for the Chump Condition?
- April 2020
  - Apr 30 He Says ‘I Better Behave’
  - Apr 29 He Told Me He Loved Me
  - Apr 28 6 Ways to Respond (or Not) to Character Assassination
  - Apr 27 Is It Okay to Give a Cheater a Second Chance?
  - Apr 24 What Kept You Stuck with a Cheater?
  - Apr 23 Esther Wants to Help You Grieve
  - Apr 22 He Left Me. Why Won’t He Agree to a Divorce?
  - Apr 21 Love, The All-Purpose Spackle
  - Apr 20 UBT: “Will Our Affair Survive the Lockdown?”
  - Apr 17 Best No Contact Strategies?
  - Apr 16 Coronavirus Hoovering?
  - Apr 15 My Sister Is the Marriage Police
  - Apr 14 UBT: A Letter from the “Baby”
  - Apr 13 ‘Other Chumps Infuriate Me’
  - Apr 10 Biggest Whopper You Bought?
  - Apr 9 Can You Imagine Being Quarantined With Your Ex?
  - Apr 8 Lies Are Exhausting
  - Apr 7 I Thought That Meh Was a Unicorn
  - Apr 6 Is This Intense Hate Normal?
  - Apr 3 Cake Speak?
  - Apr 2 Sparkles The Magnificent Dry Drunk Unicorn
  - Apr 1 Do I Have to Be Friendly With My Ex?
- March 2020
  - Mar 31 Is This Cheating?
  - Mar 30 I’m Forced To Live with My Cheater Right Now
  - Mar 27 When This Crisis Is Over, I’m Gonna…
  - Mar 26 When You Work With Your Ex
  - Mar 25 I Still Want Her Back
  - Mar 24 Is All This Anger Normal?
  - Mar 23 ‘I Thought You Were Okay With It’
  - Mar 20 Coronavirus and Co-Parenting with Fuckwits
  - Mar 19 Is This Meh or Did I Just Give Up?
  - Mar 18 What Do I Do with the Phantom Pain of Abandonment?
  - Mar 17 New Beginning Tuesday
  - Mar 16 Did She Cheat Because She’s Bipolar?
  - Mar 13 Omens and Portents
  - Mar 12 So Why the Hell Isn’t She Happy Now?
  - Mar 11 Chumped by Dating, Still Heartbroken
  - Mar 10 Grieving the Affair Partner and Other BS
  - Mar 9 How Did You Overcome the Financial Blows AND the Cheating?
  - Mar 6 Steal This Idea
  - Mar 5 Should I Give Him a Fourth Chance?
  - Mar 4 Did You Out Them on Social Media?
  - Mar 3 How Do I Support My Friend’s Reconciliation?
  - Mar 2 ‘He’s a Different Person Than I Used to Know’
- February 2020
  - Feb 28 New Age Cheaterisms
  - Feb 27 Is He Gay? A Lost Soul? A Sex Addict?
  - Feb 26 Should I Write the OW?
  - Feb 25 Character Assassination: 6 Ways to React to a False Narrative
  - Feb 24 Cheater Doesn’t Understand Why Partner Is Reconciling with Him
  - Feb 21 How Did You Line Up Your Ducks?
  - Feb 20 My Toxic MIL Sends Her “Love”
  - Feb 19 Apologize to Your Cheater, Says RIC Quack
  - Feb 18 Is Being Alone Worse Than Being with a Cheater?
  - Feb 17 ‘Don’t Call It Snooping’
  - Feb 14 And the Infidelity Valentine’s Poetry Winners Are…
  - Feb 13 Soul Mates vs. Life Partner?
  - Feb 12 ‘I’m Trying to Show Her the Guy She Fell in Love With’
  - Feb 11 The ‘I Fail to Understand Your Hostility’ Mindfuck
  - Feb 10 The OW Recommends a Self-Help Book
  - Feb 7 Jesus Cheaters and Other Holy Horrors
  - Feb 6 My Friend Is the Marriage Police
  - Feb 5 The Benevolent Other Woman
  - Feb 4 He Thinks He’s Done ‘Nothing Wrong’
  - Feb 3 The Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry Contest
- January 2020
  - Jan 31 What Got You Unstuck?
  - Jan 30 Is This What Meh Looks Like?
  - Jan 29 ‘How Do I Handle the OW?’
  - Jan 28 Feeling Too Available
  - Jan 27 Ex-MIL Thinks I Should Get Along with OW for My Son’s Sake
  - Jan 24 Chump and Cheater Torch Songs
  - Jan 23 He Says I’m “UnChristian” for Divorcing Him
  - Jan 22 Nice versus Kind
  - Jan 21 Duped for a Quarter
  - Jan 20 ‘He Didn’t Suck’
  - Jan 17 How Cheap Is Your Cheater?
  - Jan 16 UBT: ‘It’s not all sunshine and rainbows over here’
  - Jan 15 ‘I Work with the Other Woman’
  - Jan 14 UBT: “Blowing up the Marriage to Improve the Marriage”
  - Jan 13 ‘I Fix Hearts. She Broke Mine.’
  - Jan 10 What Are You Doing to Combat Loneliness?
  - Jan 9 “People Don’t Want to be Called ‘Chump'”
  - Jan 8 UBT: ‘Don’t give up on me!’
  - Jan 7 Do I Tell Her Family Why We’re Divorced?
  - Jan 6 How Do I Get Over Feelings of Unfairness?
  - Jan 3 What Are You Throwing on the Virtual Bonfire?
  - Jan 2 And the Cheater Freak Winners are….
  - Jan 1 Get Over It
2019
- December 2019
  - Dec 31 STDs Don’t Define You
  - Dec 30 ‘Why Does My Ex Want to Be Friends?’
  - Dec 27 This Is Your Brain on Hopium
  - Dec 26 Sex After Divorce?
  - Dec 25 Cheater Freak Christmas?
  - Dec 24 Please Don’t Kill Yourself for a Fuckwit
  - Dec 23 ‘My therapist wants to know how I caused my husband to cheat’
  - Dec 20 Tell Me How You’re Mighty Holiday Edition
  - Dec 19 UBT on Guy Who Wants to Keep Both Sex Workers and His Girlfriend
  - Dec 18 Holiday Sh*t Sandwiches
  - Dec 17 ‘I Can’t Trust That She Sucks’
  - Dec 16 UBT Responds to Ex Dictating Where Kids Can Open Presents
  - Dec 13 Divorce Day Plans?
  - Dec 12 ‘I Feel Guilty for Leaving Him’
  - Dec 11 Where’s the Data on Reconciliation?
  - Dec 10 Hooker Habit Revealed, Cheater Threatens Suicide
  - Dec 9 Pick Me Dancing for Love
  - Dec 6 Redefining Intimacy
  - Dec 5 UBT: What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity
  - Dec 4 He Left 3 Kids. How Can He Be Happy?
  - Dec 3 Interview with Dr. David Ley, ‘The Myth of Sex Addiction’ author
  - Dec 2 ‘He Returned and Acts Like Nothing Happened’
- November 2019
  - Nov 28 Happy Thanksgiving!
  - Nov 27 When You Don’t Want to Spend Thanksgiving with Your Ex
  - Nov 26 ‘We Had a Good Life. Why Did He Cheat?’
  - Nov 25 ‘None of My Choices Are Acceptable’
  - Nov 22 Worst Infidelity Advice Ever?
  - Nov 21 When They Cheat in Your Home
  - Nov 20 Husband Cheated. Mother Disappointed in ‘Us’
  - Nov 19 When You Want to Leave, But Just Had a Baby
  - Nov 18 Called the Other Woman, Got ‘Vague’ Answers
  - Nov 15 Did Your Pet Get You Through Your Break-Up?
  - Nov 14 UBT: ‘It’s Not Who I Am’
  - Nov 13 His Family Says ‘I Should Be Happy for Him’
  - Nov 12 Lies Are Exhausting
  - Nov 11 ‘Should I Divorce Him?’
  - Nov 8 Help Me Build a Better Support Site
  - Nov 7 ‘How Do I Know Friends Won’t Betray Me?’
  - Nov 6 How to Save Your Marriage After Infidelity
  - Nov 5 Are ‘Emotional Friendships’ with Other Women Cheating?
  - Nov 4 Spending Holidays with Your Ex ‘For The Children’
  - Nov 1 Secret Names of Cell Phone Mystery
- October 2019
  - Oct 31 Why Gaslighting Works
  - Oct 30 ‘The Other Woman Is Taunting Me’
  - Oct 29 Dear Chump Lady, What happens to couple friends after divorce?
  - Oct 28 Dear Chump Lady, What’s my ‘role’ in the break-up?
  - Oct 27 I Draw Naked People
  - Oct 25 Hope versus Hopium
  - Oct 24 Dear Chump Lady, She left me for her boss
  - Oct 23 Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain go away?
  - Oct 22 Have a Chat with Schmoopie? Just Don’t.
  - Oct 21 The Pollyanna Blameshift
  - Oct 18 Can I Get Some Mighty Here?
  - Oct 17 Dear Chump Lady, But what if I leave him and he changes?
  - Oct 16 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope
  - Oct 15 When ‘Sex Addiction’ Turns Deadly
  - Oct 14 UBT: “How to break free from monogamy without destroying marriage”
  - Oct 11 No Contact Fails — The Blooper Reel
  - Oct 10 UBT: My Husband Stopped Cheating on Me After 35 Years
  - Oct 9 Dear Chump Lady, She won’t move out
  - Oct 8 Dear Chump Lady, How can I hurt him to the core?
  - Oct 7 Man Sues Affair Partner — And Wins
  - Oct 4 More Stupid Shit Cheaters Say
  - Oct 3 How to Leave a Cheater — Your Care Team
  - Oct 2 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t know why I still want him
  - Oct 1 Dear Chump Lady, I apologized to him for cheating on me
- September 2019
  - Sep 30 Dear Chump Lady, He wants a character reference
  - Sep 27 No Contact Wins
  - Sep 26 Dump ‘Scorned’ Already
  - Sep 25 Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year
  - Sep 24 Stupid Shit I Thought About Infidelity Until It Happened to Me
  - Sep 23 Dear Chump Lady, I went grey rock, he went nuts
  - Sep 20 Real Monkey Love, Bad Monkey Love
  - Sep 19 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to organize their video chat?
  - Sep 18 Your Very Best Spackle Please
  - Sep 17 Dear Chump Lady, Is divorcing him the right choice?
  - Sep 16 Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cheater or a muse?
  - Sep 14 Chump Lady Gets a Check
  - Sep 13 Therapy Fails?
  - Sep 12 How Do I Gain a Life Before the Divorce Is Final?
  - Sep 11 Dear Chump Lady, I built my whole life around her
  - Sep 10 UBT This Jesus Cheater
  - Sep 9 When You’re Married and ‘Fall in Love’ with Someone Else
  - Sep 6 You Might Be a Recovered Chump If…
  - Sep 5 UBT: Investigative Questions for Couples Experiencing Infidelity
  - Sep 4 How to Deflect Gaslighting
  - Sep 3 Dear Chump Lady, My husband is a marriage counselor with a double life
  - Sep 2 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
- August 2019
  - Aug 30 When Closure Is Eaten by Bears
  - Aug 29 Dear Chump Lady, I’m angry with myself for not leaving sooner
  - Aug 28 Chump Lady Answers Her Google Search Queries
  - Aug 27 No Tag Backs, OW
  - Aug 26 Cheating Wife Needs a ‘Safe Space’
  - Aug 23 The Kindness of Strangers
  - Aug 22 If It Feels Good — Don’t Do It
  - Aug 21 Gaslighting — Who’s The Crazy One Here?
  - Aug 20 The Dead-Eyed Stare
  - Aug 19 Dear Chump Lady, The OW left him and I don’t know how I feel
  - Aug 16 Where Are They Now?
  - Aug 15 Dear Chump Lady, How do I protect my son’s heart?
  - Aug 14 How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?
  - Aug 13 UBT: “We Are Teachers, Not Demigods”
  - Aug 12 You Don’t Need Closure
  - Aug 9 Meh Sightings?
  - Aug 8 Which Came First, The Dead Marriage or the Affair?
  - Aug 7 Dear Chump Lady, I feel unworthy
  - Aug 6 Dear Chump Lady, My therapist says don’t tell anyone he cheated
  - Aug 5 UBT: “I Miss the Kitties”
  - Aug 2 Where You Thought They Were, Where They Really Were
  - Aug 1 Why Can’t I Say ‘Cheater’?
- July 2019
  - Jul 31 UBT the Trust Bank
  - Jul 30 Alan Dershowitz Is Human Garbage
  - Jul 29 Dear Chump Lady, I have a young bitter heart
  - Jul 27 Forums Ending Aug. 1
  - Jul 26 Courage Fairies
  - Jul 25 Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants to date
  - Jul 24 Devastating Writing on Making Your Needs Small
  - Jul 23 Facebook Is NOT Helping You Move on
  - Jul 22 When Men Are Cheated On
  - Jul 19 New Age Cheater Goop Speak
  - Jul 18 Dear Chump Lady, How do I save my friend?
  - Jul 17 The Silent Chumps
  - Jul 16 The Ones Who Just Leave
  - Jul 15 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to invite my ex to the party?
  - Jul 13 New Forums, New Features, News
  - Jul 12 Word Salad or Word Wisdom?
  - Jul 11 UBT: ‘Dear Therapist’
  - Jul 10 Why No Contact Works
  - Jul 9 Dear Chump Lady, She changed him
  - Jul 8 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t want to make nice with my OW SIL
  - Jul 5 Rage Plumbing and Other Acts of Productive Anger
  - Jul 4 Chump Emancipation Proclamation
  - Jul 3 Dear Chump Lady, He said it was ‘just sex’
  - Jul 2 Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW and I’m terrified he’ll cheat on me
  - Jul 1 Dear Chump Lady, She has abs of steel
- June 2019
  - Jun 28 The Weirdest Things They Took or Left Behind
  - Jun 27 When Your D-Day Is After the Divorce
  - Jun 26 UBT: This Isn’t The Real Me
  - Jun 25 Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep the OW away from my kids?
  - Jun 24 UBT — He Took the Soup
  - Jun 21 Unspouse Your House?
  - Jun 20 ‘I Haven’t Been Happy for a Long Time’
  - Jun 19 Dear Chump Lady, He says I’m ‘selfish’ for leaving him
  - Jun 18 The Plan B Offer
  - Jun 17 ‘Being Frank’ versus Being Chumped
  - Jun 16 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 14 Blameshifting Jujitso
  - Jun 13 Dear Chump Lady, My wife cheated with a woman
  - Jun 12 DNA Testing Surprises
  - Jun 11 Dear Chump Lady, I’m pregnant and pick me dancing
  - Jun 10 Dear Chump Lady, I discovered my new friend is an OW
  - Jun 7 Write Your Own Clickbait
  - Jun 6 Dear Chump Lady, He claims he still loves me
  - Jun 5 UBT: The OW Wants Me to Save My Marriage
  - Jun 4 Surely You Must Have Known
  - Jun 3 UBT: The Burger-Flipping Love That Dare Not Speak Its Name
- May 2019
  - May 31 Star-Crossed Schmoopies
  - May 30 UBT: “You Were So Perfect, I Had to Cheat”
  - May 29 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t think he’s a narcissist
  - May 28 What Do You Tell Yourself?
  - May 27 Dear Chump Lady, I’m a Marine chump
  - May 24 Bad Apologies
  - May 23 Dear Chump Lady, What’s wrong with me?
  - May 22 Dear Chump Lady, She was ‘going to make it up to me’
  - May 21 The Unlikelihood of Immediate Remorse
  - May 20 Dear Chump Lady, Why do you use foul language?
  - May 17 All Those Times You Didn’t Cheat
  - May 16 Dear Chump Lady, Am I just a chump stereotype?
  - May 15 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t compete with their fabulousness
  - May 14 Dear Chump Lady, The lies are crazy
  - May 13 UBT: ProJared’s Divorce Statement
  - May 10 When Mother’s Day Sucks
  - May 9 Dear Chump Lady, Do I tell the kids about the cheating?
  - May 8 Way to Take Down a Cheater
  - May 7 Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better?
  - May 6 Rethinking the Psychologists Rethinking Monogamy
  - May 3 What’s the Right Thing to Say?
  - May 2 Dear Chump Lady, How did he turn into a douche?
  - May 1 Dear Chump Lady, Am I the toxic one?
- April 2019
  - Apr 30 The Futility of Confronting Affair Partners
  - Apr 29 Dear Chump Lady, I feel like she traded up
  - Apr 26 RIC Tag Lines?
  - Apr 25 Dear Chump Lady, Nobody gets being chumped (except chumps)
  - Apr 24 UBT: Why Happy People Cheat
  - Apr 23 Don’t Kill Yourself for a Fuckwit
  - Apr 22 Why Do You Still Do This? A Peek Behind the Scenes at Chump Central
  - Apr 19 Snark and Dance Tunes
  - Apr 18 Is Betrayal ‘The Best Thing That Ever Happened to You’?
  - Apr 17 UBT: “The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life”
  - Apr 16 David Brooks Can Bite Me
  - Apr 15 Dear Chump Lady, Is this weird?
  - Apr 12 What Are You Taking Back?
  - Apr 11 Dear Chump Lady, I’ve got a Bunny Boiler
  - Apr 10 Dear Chump Lady, How do I forgive myself?
  - Apr 9 Stupid Requests Cheaters Make?
  - Apr 8 Dear Chump Lady, Do I owe him an explanation?
  - Apr 5 Serenade the Universal Bullshit Translator
  - Apr 4 UBT: “People sometimes lie or ‘forget’ to keep their promises”
  - Apr 3 UBT: When the OW Doesn’t Trust Her Boyfriend
  - Apr 2 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop comparing myself to the OW?
  - Apr 1 Dear Chump Lady, He told me not to tell
- March 2019
  - Mar 29 Bitter Bunny Dating?
  - Mar 28 When You Piss Off the Unicorns
  - Mar 27 Dear Chump Lady, Where are all the single, available men?
  - Mar 26 UBT: Eat, Pray, Happy Day?
  - Mar 25 Dear Chump Lady, Please be mean
  - Mar 22 Mightiness Update
  - Mar 21 UBT: “I should be nice to you”
  - Mar 20 Soul Blazing and Navel Gazing
  - Mar 19 Beware the Timid Forest Creatures
  - Mar 18 Dear Chump Lady, The OW is the ‘Girl Next Door’
  - Mar 15 Be the UBT
  - Mar 14 UBT: “People Grow Apart”
  - Mar 13 Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain stop?
  - Mar 12 Forgiving the ‘Sex Addict’
  - Mar 11 Dear Chump Lady, I want closure
  - Mar 10 Yes, That’s Chump Lady in Español
  - Mar 8 Imagine Justice
  - Mar 7 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop being so mad at my ex?
  - Mar 6 Dear Chump Lady, I want him to stay with the OW
  - Mar 5 UBT: “Loving Your Husband Hurts Me Too”
  - Mar 4 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t get my ex’s voice out of my head
  - Mar 1 Your Heart and Your Wallet
- February 2019
  - Feb 28 “I Didn’t Mean To” Debunked
  - Feb 27 Dear Chump Lady, He moved down the street
  - Feb 26 Esther Perel Can Bite Me
  - Feb 25 Dear Chump Lady, He puts the OW phone to say ‘goodnight’ to our child
  - Feb 22 Got a Pep Talk?
  - Feb 21 The Fog Comes Softly on Little Cheater Feet
  - Feb 20 Dear Chump Lady, Why do I feel a new man is the answer?
  - Feb 19 ‘Is it my fault my ex ran off with our nanny?’
  - Feb 18 Dear Chump Lady, Can I leave for an emotional affair?
  - Feb 15 When your ‘match’ is a married motivational speaker
  - Feb 14 And the Valentine’s Day Winners Are…
  - Feb 13 The ‘Bitch Be Crazy’ Red Flag
  - Feb 12 Playing the Victim?
  - Feb 11 Is Cake Better Than Abandonment?
  - Feb 8 What’s Your Patronus?
  - Feb 7 Dear Chump Lady, I work with the OW and my ex
  - Feb 6 Dear Chump Lady, He sees me as the Fixer
  - Feb 5 A Masterclass in Boundaries
  - Feb 4 Dear Chump Lady, My ex has cancer
  - Feb 1 Infidelity Valentines
- January 2019
  - Jan 31 How Do I Fix My Picker?
  - Jan 30 Don’t Send It
  - Jan 29 Dear Chump Lady, The OW gave me a brownie plate
  - Jan 28 Dear Chump Lady, My husband prefers porn to me
  - Jan 25 Glimpses of Meh?
  - Jan 24 UBT: “Neither of us are perfect”
  - Jan 23 Dear Chump Lady, Why can’t I accept that he sucks?
  - Jan 22 Dear Chump Lady, He’s dating a mom at our kid’s school
  - Jan 21 Dear Chump Lady, Why does my pink hair make me feel better?
  - Jan 20 Get the F*ck Out Now
  - Jan 18 Best No Contact Strategies
  - Jan 17 Pain Shopping, Anyone?
  - Jan 16 Dear Chump Lady, He shoveled my snow, so he cares?
  - Jan 15 “Do Cheaters All Work from the Same Script?”
  - Jan 14 Dear Chump Lady, I’d divorce her, but she wants that
  - Jan 11 Got Jesus Cheaters?
  - Jan 10 Don’t Date This Person
  - Jan 9 Dear Chump Lady, Was I THAT bad?
  - Jan 8 “Why do cheaters need to punish the chump?”
  - Jan 7 Dear Chump Lady, He says he cheated to protect me
  - Jan 4 What’s In. What’s Out
  - Jan 3 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop comparing myself to the OW?
  - Jan 2 UBT: ‘A Letter to My Lover’s Wife’
  - Jan 1 Gain a Life
2018
- December 2018
  - Dec 31 ‘He sent me a poem on Christmas’
  - Dec 28 Stupid Shit Said in Therapy
  - Dec 27 Join the International Academy for the Advancement of Chump Studies
  - Dec 26 Dear Chump Lady, He butt-dialed me from the OW’s
  - Dec 25 UBT: “I wish I could take it back”
  - Dec 24 The Promise Land of Meh
  - Dec 21 Jingle Meh?
  - Dec 20 Dear Chump Lady, Where do I go with this anger?
  - Dec 19 Trickle Truth Is Neither Trickle Nor Truth
  - Dec 18 UBT: “There Are No Right Answers”
  - Dec 17 Chaos — The Fourth Channel?
  - Dec 14 Most Spectacularly Callous Christmas Dump?
  - Dec 13 Dear Chump Lady, I’m still broken hearted
  - Dec 12 UBT: “I Want to Dive Into You”
  - Dec 11 Dear Chump Lady, He wants a character reference
  - Dec 10 Dear Chump Lady, I just want to watch it burn
  - Dec 7 You Might Be a Chump If..
  - Dec 6 Dear Chump Lady, Is all this pain worth it?
  - Dec 5 Dear Chump Lady, I have no Seasons Greetings
  - Dec 4 ‘I Cheated And Now She Won’t Be My Friend’
  - Dec 3 The Cheater Who Stole Christmas
- November 2018
  - Nov 30 Schadenfreude Snark
  - Nov 29 Dear Chump Lady, Please kick my ass
  - Nov 28 Out of Sight, Out of Mind
  - Nov 27 Dear Chump Lady, Why do people assume cheating is the chump’s fault?
  - Nov 26 UBT: “I Don’t Mean to Worry You, But…”
  - Nov 23 Holiday Hoovering
  - Nov 22 Dear Chump Lady, How do I make it through the holidays?
  - Nov 21 Bye-Bye, Cheater
  - Nov 20 Dear Chump Lady, Why does he want to stay ‘friends’?
  - Nov 19 Dear Chump Lady, My wife kissed a coworker
  - Nov 16 Chump Nation Gives Thanks
  - Nov 15 Cool. Bummer. Wow.
  - Nov 14 The Pick Me Dance and Polyamory
  - Nov 13 Dear Chump Lady, Where do I put his stuff?
  - Nov 12 Dear Chump Lady, I drunk dialed
  - Nov 9 What Advice Would You Give an Earlier You?
  - Nov 8 Managing Divorce Expectations
  - Nov 7 Your Time on the Marriage Police Force
  - Nov 6 Dear Chump Lady, “I still wish I could call him”
  - Nov 5 How to Deal with Adult Child After D-Day?
  - Nov 2 Your Mightiest Moment?
  - Nov 1 The “What If They’re Really The One” Fear
- October 2018
  - Oct 31 Dear Chump Lady, Please kill my hope
  - Oct 30 Dear Chump Lady, Is this apology total baloney?
  - Oct 29 Love, The All-Purpose Spackle
  - Oct 26 The Pick Me Dance for Fun and Profit
  - Oct 25 Respond to Mindfuckery with Ridicule
  - Oct 24 ‘I Found the OW’s Goodbye Letter in My Safe’
  - Oct 23 I Don’t Write for You
  - Oct 22 UBT: “You Represent Christmastime”
  - Oct 19 Twu Wuv Vows?
  - Oct 18 Reject the Plan B Offer
  - Oct 17 Dear Chump Lady, He’s stuck on his ‘intentions’
  - Oct 16 Dear Chump Lady, I have nightmares
  - Oct 15 The I-Know-What-I-Did-Was-Wrong-But-I-Did-It-Anyway Mindfuck
  - Oct 13 The First Chump Podcast!
  - Oct 12 Good Advice, Bad Advice?
  - Oct 11 Who’s Hoovering Who?
  - Oct 10 UBT: “I’m in a Good Place Now”
  - Oct 9 What Do We See in Narcissists Anyway?
  - Oct 8 Dear Chump Lady, He left me to BLOG with the OW?
  - Oct 5 Radical Kindness
  - Oct 4 UBT: “I Don’t Understand”
  - Oct 3 UBT: “Loving Your Husband Hurts Me Too”
  - Oct 2 Dear Chump Lady, How did I not know?
  - Oct 1 When Entitlement Meets Vulnerability
- September 2018
  - Sep 28 Worst Gift Ever?
  - Sep 27 Owning Your Chumpiness
  - Sep 26 Tiffany Glass Windows
  - Sep 25 Chump Lady Descends Into Middle Age
  - Sep 24 UBT: “I Found Myself and Had an Affair”
  - Sep 21 What It Looked Like, What It Was
  - Sep 20 Science Vindicates ‘Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life’
  - Sep 19 Dear Chump Lady, Did my being controlling make him gay?
  - Sep 18 The Ones Who Just Leave
  - Sep 17 Let’s blame the children?
  - Sep 14 Stupid Shit Affair Partners Say?
  - Sep 13 UBT: ‘I hold no animosity for you’
  - Sep 12 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t have any good memories of him
  - Sep 11 Situational Truth
  - Sep 10 UBT: ‘Our Marriage Was Already Over’
  - Sep 7 Problem? Adulting vs. Escapism
  - Sep 6 Character Assassination? Probably.
  - Sep 5 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t give up
  - Sep 4 Dear Chump Lady, So why the hell isn’t she HAPPY now?
  - Sep 3 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
- August 2018
  - Aug 31 So, What Are You Taking Back?
  - Aug 30 Dear Chump Lady, Can I go NC with my step-daughter?
  - Aug 29 Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump, my brother is a cheater
  - Aug 28 UBT: Chump Lady’s ‘attitude’
  - Aug 27 The ‘Otherness’ of the OW
  - Aug 24 Biggest lie you bought?
  - Aug 23 Dear Chump Lady, He got a ring tattoo for the OW
  - Aug 22 Dear Chump Lady, Is pain a choice?
  - Aug 21 New Narc Strategy? Be Boring
  - Aug 20 UBT: “I’m sorry you feel that way”
  - Aug 17 God Rest Her Soul
  - Aug 16 “Our children deserved…”
  - Aug 15 Why blame the chump?
  - Aug 14 Dear Chump Lady, We’re divorcing… and still living in the same house
  - Aug 13 Dear Chump Lady, I’m obsessed with the OW
  - Aug 10 How Did You Get Rid of Their Crap?
  - Aug 9 Dear Chump Lady, He keeps calling me “Babe”
  - Aug 8 “Closure,” Don’t Do It.
  - Aug 7 Nice vs. Kind
  - Aug 6 Dear Chump Lady, Am I normal?
  - Aug 3 Ever Run into Your Ex?
  - Aug 2 How Do I Fix My Picker?
  - Aug 1 Cheater Exceptionalism
- July 2018
  - Jul 31 Dear Chump Lady, I want out, but I can’t afford it
  - Jul 30 The Case of the Dangling Former Spouse
  - Jul 27 What’s Your Post-Infidelity Super Power?
  - Jul 26 Be the Support You Wish You Had
  - Jul 25 Why Is No Contact So Hard?
  - Jul 24 Entitlement Reinforcement
  - Jul 23 Dear Chump Lady, I shouldn’t have looked…
  - Jul 20 The Selfies, OMG the Selfies
  - Jul 19 UBT: “I was just going to ride it out”
  - Jul 18 Dear Chump Lady, Ethical non-monogamy was a bust
  - Jul 17 The Walls in Your House Will Sing
  - Jul 16 When You Perform the Pick Me Dance Wrong
  - Jul 13 Connecting with Other Chumps?
  - Jul 12 “Does divorcing her make me the Bad Guy?”
  - Jul 11 Chump Nation Subject of ‘Curious’ Podcast!
  - Jul 11 Dear Chump Lady, What if there was no sex?
  - Jul 10 Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?
  - Jul 9 Dear Chump Lady, He wants me back
  - Jul 6 Tell Me How You Suck
  - Jul 5 Fairy Dust Forgiveness
  - Jul 4 Happy Independence Day!
  - Jul 3 Emotional Affairs, Exit Affairs, and Ghosts
  - Jul 2 Dear Chump Lady, The OW dresses my children in her clothes
- June 2018
  - Jun 29 How to Find a Lawyer and Other Chump Survival Tips
  - Jun 28 When You Can’t Leave Because You Still “Love” Them
  - Jun 27 Dear Chump Lady, Why must cheaters add insult to injury?
  - Jun 26 How to Confront a Cheater
  - Jun 25 “What do I tell my crying children?”
  - Jun 22 Fear, You Don’t Own Me
  - Jun 21 Keeping Secrets
  - Jun 20 Dear Chump Lady, I feel trapped
  - Jun 19 Dear Chump Lady, No contact is killing me!
  - Jun 18 UBT: The OW apologizes…. 2.5 years later
  - Jun 17 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 15 Recidivism?
  - Jun 14 Shocker. Rudy Giuliani Still a Cheater.
  - Jun 13 Dear Chump Lady, I’m suddenly a single mom
  - Jun 12 A “Trust That They Suck” Reminder
  - Jun 11 The Dead Cheater Dilemma
  - Jun 8 Apology Fails
  - Jun 7 Dear Chump Lady, My husband got engaged
  - Jun 6 Dear Chump Lady, He’s promising to better himself… for her
  - Jun 5 Dear Chump Lady, She knew in her heart he was a cheater
  - Jun 4 Chump Nation Takes Australia!
  - Jun 1 Tales from the “Gain a Life” Side?
- May 2018
  - May 31 Living with Uncertainty After Infidelity
  - May 30 UBT: “I just want to help you!”
  - May 29 You Don’t Need It THAT Bad
  - May 28 Stupid Shit That People Say to Chumps
  - May 25 So what else didn’t you know about?
  - May 24 Gwyneth Paltrow Can Bite Me
  - May 23 UXWorld UBTs a Letter from KK
  - May 22 Cheaters Never Trade Up — The Lola Doctrine
  - May 21 How did you spackle over the incompatibility?
  - May 19 Chump Lady Heads to Australia!
  - May 18 Where Is Their SHAME?
  - May 17 When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail
  - May 16 Are Cheaters Timid Forest Creatures?
  - May 15 Dear Chump Lady, Why is he copying me?
  - May 14 Dear Chump Lady, Do cheaters blameshift?
  - May 12 Happy Mother’s Day! Take a Single Mom to Brunch
  - May 11 Monica Lewinsky Isn’t Going to the Ball
  - May 10 UBT: “You’re the one who still has my heart”
  - May 9 “I’ve changed!” — The Chump Response
  - May 8 UBT: Thanks to your book, my husband wants to leave me
  - May 7 Dear Chump Lady, Why does the OW want to meet me?
  - May 4 What You Thought It Was… What It Really Was
  - May 3 Dear Josh
  - May 2 Dear Chump Lady, He sexted his AUNT
  - May 1 Dear Chump Lady, The Hallmark Channel Is Fucking with My Head
- April 2018
  - Apr 30 Dear Chump Lady, I’m too old to start over
  - Apr 27 Sunshine, Lollipops, Middle Fingers
  - Apr 26 When the Pick Me Dance Turns Deadly
  - Apr 25 Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t he admit cheating?
  - Apr 24 I Haven’t Been Happy for a Long Time
  - Apr 23 Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters all do the same stupid shit?
  - Apr 20 Time for Another Mightiness Check In
  - Apr 19 Happy Blog Birthday, Chump Nation! Viva la Revolution!
  - Apr 18 When Affair Partners Marry
  - Apr 17 UBT: 7 Reasons Your Husband Left You For His Emotional Affair Partner
  - Apr 16 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop the smear campaign?
  - Apr 13 Time for Another Round of Bitch Cookie!
  - Apr 12 Dear Chump Lady, What happens to couple friends after divorce?
  - Apr 11 The Perils of Flunking No Contact
  - Apr 10 Dear Chump Lady, Is he a narcissist?
  - Apr 9 UBT: What Sleeping with Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity
  - Apr 6 You Picked a Fine Time To Leave Me, Lucille
  - Apr 5 Dear Chump Lady, The Other Woman — Who does that?!
  - Apr 4 Dear Chump Lady, I’m REALLY angry. Is this normal?
  - Apr 3 UBT: I Will Return with a Fuller Love
  - Apr 2 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t want him, but she can’t have him
  - Apr 1 A Chump in a Land Down Under
- March 2018
  - Mar 30 Most Audacious Lie?
  - Mar 29 UBT: I Didn’t Know How to Express My Unhappiness
  - Mar 28 Dear Chump Lady, Am I an insensitive jerk because my husband wants to date?
  - Mar 27 Dear Chump Lady, Better the Cheater I know, right?
  - Mar 26 Making the Marriage ‘A Good Place to Be’
  - Mar 25 My Gun Story… Or That Time I Found a Loaded Handgun Under My Bed
  - Mar 23 Stupid Cheater Life Plans
  - Mar 22 Dear Chump Lady, The OW wants $25,000
  - Mar 21 Dear Chump Lady, He wants to move to New Zealand
  - Mar 20 You’d Like Them If You Really Knew Them
  - Mar 19 UBT: I cheated because you’re stale
  - Mar 16 Your Days on the Marriage Police Force?
  - Mar 15 Dear Chump Lady, The cheater doesn’t know I’m pregnant
  - Mar 14 UBT: Affair Proof Your Marriage
  - Mar 13 Please Don’t Kill Yourself for a Fuckwit
  - Mar 12 Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cheater because of her dad?
  - Mar 9 Hopium Translations
  - Mar 8 Where Did Chump Lady Come From?
  - Mar 7 The Mindfuckery of Reverse Victim Offender
  - Mar 6 But He’s a Really Nice Guy
  - Mar 5 Dear Chump Lady, He keeps returning and crying
  - Mar 2 How Is Your Life Better Without a Cheater?
  - Mar 1 Dear Chump Lady, He lies about everything… and why won’t he watch our dogs?
- February 2018
  - Feb 28 UBTing the Sugar Daddy
  - Feb 27 Dear Chump Lady, The OW must be really great for my wife to give up everything
  - Feb 26 Chump Lady on Orgies
  - Feb 25 Chump Lady Tweaks Her Site
  - Feb 23 Infidelity… It’s So Much More
  - Feb 22 How to Save Your Marriage After Infidelity
  - Feb 21 Dear Chump Lady, Can’t quite shake the rejection…
  - Feb 20 Australia, You Need to Up Your Scandal Game
  - Feb 19 The Fear They’re Going to Be Better for Somebody Else
  - Feb 16 Dear Chump Lady, Why does he get to look like a Good Person?
  - Feb 15 Dear Chump Lady, What’s in the minds of OW?
  - Feb 13 And the Infidelity Valentine’s Day Winners Are…
  - Feb 13 A Valentine’s Day Reset
  - Feb 12 Dead Cheaters and Terrible Discoveries
  - Feb 9 Check Your Bills for Boob Jobs and Other Great Advice
  - Feb 8 I Love You, But I’m Not In Love With You
  - Feb 7 Dear Chump Lady, He cheated on me through fertility treatments
  - Feb 6 Financial Abuse and Your D-Day
  - Feb 5 Poor Nigel
  - Feb 2 Time Again for Infidelity Valentines!
  - Feb 1 Mayor of Nashville Feels Really Sad About Her Taxpayer-Funded Affair
- January 2018
  - Jan 31 Affairs Improve Marriage?
  - Jan 30 How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist
  - Jan 29 Dear Chump Lady, He says I’m not “the one”
  - Jan 26 If You Could Go Back in Time…
  - Jan 25 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the unfairness?
  - Jan 24 UBT: “I’m Not a Terrible Person”
  - Jan 23 Dear Chump Lady, Why can’t I pull the trigger on the divorce?
  - Jan 22 Don’t Need It THAT Bad
  - Jan 21 And The Cheater Freak Winner Is…
  - Jan 19 Profiles in Mightiness
  - Jan 18 Dear Chump Lady, Should I confront the affair partner?
  - Jan 17 Tuesday Is Coming
  - Jan 16 UBT: I’m a Real Silly Bunny
  - Jan 15 How Can We Challenge Blameshifting Therapists?
  - Jan 14 Chump Lady Is Coming to Australia!
  - Jan 12 New Script for Betrayed Political Wives?
  - Jan 11 UBT: In Defense of Dating a Married Man
  - Jan 10 Dear Chump Lady, I discovered a Switzerland Sister
  - Jan 9 Narcissists Be Crazy!
  - Jan 8 Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t he get a life?!
  - Jan 5 Dreams, Signs, and Cosmic Portents You’re a Chump
  - Jan 4 Snooping in the Modern Age
  - Jan 3 Dear Chump Lady, What are OW thinking?
  - Jan 2 Dear Chump Lady, Is this my fault?
  - Jan 1 Dear Chump Lady, Why meh? Why not screaming?
2017
- December 2017
  - Dec 29 New Year’s Friday Challenge!
  - Dec 28 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t compete with their Fabulousness
  - Dec 27 Dear Chump Lady, Is it okay to fuck with his head?
  - Dec 26 Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants to date
  - Dec 25 Dear Chump Lady, WTF Merry X-mas?!
  - Dec 22 Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Holiday Edition
  - Dec 21 Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone ever love me with stretchmarks?
  - Dec 20 UBT: “My dog loves Mark.”
  - Dec 19 Esther Perel in the #MeToo Era
  - Dec 18 You Could Be Friends!
  - Dec 15 Cheater Freak Christmas Countdown!
  - Dec 14 UBT: “We tried to stop so many times, but we couldn’t”
  - Dec 13 It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like D-Day
  - Dec 12 Dear Chump Lady, I miss being a full-time parent
  - Dec 11 Yeah, That’s Not an Apology
  - Dec 10 Some Holiday Uplift
  - Dec 8 What to Say to Sanctimonious Rubberneckers?
  - Dec 7 Dear Chump Lady, The cheater wants to take family photos
  - Dec 6 UBT: “No One Is Perfect”
  - Dec 5 Dear Chump Lady, Do I believe him or the proof?
  - Dec 4 “Feeling desperate, fearful, rage”
  - Dec 1 Sorry Not Sorry
- November 2017
  - Nov 30 There’s the Door, Matt Lauer
  - Nov 29 Dear Chump Lady, I need confirmation that he cheated
  - Nov 28 No, We Bitter, Hopeless Chumps Will Not Come to Your Dinner Party
  - Nov 27 UBT: “An Optimist’s Guide to Divorce”
  - Nov 24 Your Stupid Cheater Moments
  - Nov 23 UBT: “I just wanted to reach out to help you”
  - Nov 22 Dear Chump Lady, How do I make it through the holidays?
  - Nov 21 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop feeling sorry for him?
  - Nov 20 Dear Chump Lady, My ex-wife has some weird requests
  - Nov 17 Fix Your Picker Tips
  - Nov 16 Dear Chump Lady, Where’s the data on reconciliation?
  - Nov 15 The Smugness of Friendly Divorce
  - Nov 14 Dear Chump Lady, What do I say to the people who knew?
  - Nov 13 The Silent Chumps
  - Nov 10 Narcissist Mixtapes?
  - Nov 9 The Bullshit That Is the ‘Trust Bank’
  - Nov 8 Monogamy Is Not the Problem
  - Nov 7 UBT: I’m a broken empty person searching for meaning and happiness before I die
  - Nov 6 The Futility in Confronting Affair Partners
  - Nov 3 Bitch Cookie, Anyone?
  - Nov 2 Fairy Dust Forgiveness
  - Nov 1 Dear Chump Lady, I left my perfect husband
- October 2017
  - Oct 31 What Married Men Tell Other Women
  - Oct 30 Dear Chump Lady, Help! I keep breaking no contact
  - Oct 29 Chump Lady Is Coming to Australia!
  - Oct 27 Mr./Ms. Sparkles Is Ready to Date You!
  - Oct 26 “Our Marriage Was Already Over”
  - Oct 25 Dear Chump Lady, What if I leave and he really loves me?
  - Oct 24 Weinstein Does Outpatient Quackery
  - Oct 23 A Shout Out to All You Stalking Cheaters
  - Oct 20 The “Redeemable Cheater” Fallacy
  - Oct 19 When They Look Good on Paper
  - Oct 18 Un-Chumping Post-Infidelity, A Primer
  - Oct 17 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t feel mighty. I got left.
  - Oct 16 Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with my cheater dad?
  - Oct 13 Divorce Hacks
  - Oct 12 Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW and I’m terrified he will cheat on me
  - Oct 11 Dear Chump Lady, Why is he suddenly nice?
  - Oct 10 Want to spot a narcissist? Just ask one.
  - Oct 9 Dear Chump Lady, She says it was “just kissing”
  - Oct 7 Chump Lady Takes Back Paris
  - Oct 6 Every Piece of Crappy Reconciliation Advice You Got
  - Oct 5 Who Was Your Infidelity Angel?
  - Oct 4 Problem? Adult solution vs. Cheater solution
  - Oct 3 Cheater Freak of the Week?
  - Oct 2 You might be a chump if…
  - Oct 1 A Week of Fridays!
- September 2017
  - Sep 29 I Want What She’s Having
  - Sep 28 Dear Chump Lady, Help, I slept with my ex!
  - Sep 27 Anthony Weiner Gets Sent to the Clink
  - Sep 26 Dear Chump Lady, I wish I would’ve pressed charges
  - Sep 25 Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year
  - Sep 22 What Got You Unstuck?
  - Sep 21 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to be friendly with my ex?
  - Sep 20 Situational Truth
  - Sep 19 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t miss him at all. Is there something wrong with me?
  - Sep 18 Dear Chump Lady, My therapist thinks I’m responsible for my husband’s cheating
  - Sep 15 Rituals for New Lives?
  - Sep 14 Dear Chump Lady, He loves me, he’s worried about me… he left?
  - Sep 13 One Off Cheaters versus Serial Cheaters?
  - Sep 12 The Mindfuck Only Has Three Channels
  - Sep 11 UBT: Esther Perel’s “Happy People Cheat”
  - Sep 8 Who You Thought You Were, Who You Really Are
  - Sep 7 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t seem to do No Contact
  - Sep 6 “I Haven’t Been Happy for a Long Time”
  - Sep 5 Dear Chump Lady, We divorced… and now she wants to reconcile
  - Sep 4 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
  - Sep 1 What You Thought It Was, What It Really Was
- August 2017
  - Aug 31 Soul Blazing and Navel Gazing
  - Aug 30 Dear Chump Lady, Why is the OW calling our house?
  - Aug 29 Dear Chump Lady, He proposed… and then he cheated
  - Aug 28 UBT: You aren’t alone… you have the kids
  - Aug 25 How Did You Thwart Their Greatness?
  - Aug 24 Dear Chump Lady, She wants me to fight for her?
  - Aug 23 Dear Chump Lady, In our bed? WTF?
  - Aug 22 All Hail Joss Whedon the Conquering Douchebag
  - Aug 21 Dear Chump Lady, My husband died. Then I discovered his double life.
  - Aug 18 New Life Tattoos Anyone?
  - Aug 17 Dear Chump Lady, Why does my pink hair make me feel better?
  - Aug 16 Dear Chump Lady, Do they turn bad or were they always bad?
  - Aug 15 Cheaters Suffer from “Low Self-Esteem”?
  - Aug 14 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t get over being replaced
  - Aug 13 Chump Lady’s Book Now on AUDIO!
  - Aug 11 The Health Costs of Staying?
  - Aug 10 Dear Chump Lady, He won’t stop texting the OW in front of me
  - Aug 9 Dear Chump Lady, He exults in my parenting “mistakes”
  - Aug 8 Character Assassination? Expect It.
  - Aug 7 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t think my cheater is like the other cheaters…
  - Aug 4 It’s Taking Up Another’s Place
  - Aug 3 Chump Shaming as Competitive Sport
  - Aug 2 Dear Chump Lady. My husband cheated. My mother is disappointed in US.
  - Aug 1 Dear Chump Lady, I’m jealous of the Other Woman
- July 2017
  - Jul 31 UBT: I Wish You Were Still Nice
  - Jul 29 RIP Julie Gomoll
  - Jul 28 Cheater Warning Signs?
  - Jul 27 Dear Chump Lady, I’m a cheater and my wife is such a chump
  - Jul 26 UBT: Will Telling the Truth Hurt Your Relationship?
  - Jul 25 Dear Chump Lady, He’s doesn’t feel sorry, he just feels bad
  - Jul 24 Dear Chump Lady, I didn’t just discover cheating — he’s a criminal too
  - Jul 21 Your Best No Contact Strategies
  - Jul 20 Dear Chump Lady, How can I hurt him to the core?
  - Jul 19 The Trickle Truth is Neither Trickle Nor Truth
  - Jul 18 UBT: You’ll regret it
  - Jul 17 Do You Have to Forgive a Cheater?
  - Jul 14 Going No Contact with Stuff
  - Jul 13 Miracles Happen on Tuesdays
  - Jul 12 UBT: Joseph’s Letter
  - Jul 11 An Interview with Jen Waite, Author of “A Beautiful, Terrible Thing”
  - Jul 10 Dear Chump Lady, The OW gave me a brownie plate
  - Jul 7 What makes you resilient?
  - Jul 6 Dear Chump Lady, Do I stay for the kids?
  - Jul 4 Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants to date
  - Jul 4 A Chump Independence Proclamation
  - Jul 3 UBT: “I don’t handle rejection well”
- June 2017
  - Jun 30 Merit Badges for Cheaters
  - Jun 29 Closure Does Not Exist
  - Jun 28 Dear Chump Lady, He brought his girlfriend and I lost my meh
  - Jun 27 When Affair Partners Marry
  - Jun 26 UBT: Cheaters and “Grace”
  - Jun 23 Flip the Script — The Un-Letter
  - Jun 22 The Unlikelihood of True Remorse
  - Jun 21 This Is Your Brain on Hopium
  - Jun 20 Dear Chump Lady, I’m obsessed with the tall, blonde Other Woman
  - Jun 19 UBT: “I can’t remember”
  - Jun 17 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 16 Strange Bedfellows
  - Jun 15 UBT: Esther Perel on Beyonce’s Lemonade
  - Jun 14 UBT: Let’s just forget and forgive
  - Jun 13 Dear Chump Lady, Why does he hate me?
  - Jun 12 Get Mighty, Retrain in a Tech Career
  - Jun 9 Rage Plumbing and Other Acts of Productive Anger
  - Jun 8 Dear Chump Lady, I’m still angry as hell
  - Jun 7 Dear Chump Lady, The OW exposed the affair on Facebook
  - Jun 6 Dear Chump Lady, My husband is having an emotional affair with his HS girlfriend
  - Jun 5 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the pick-me dance?
  - Jun 2 The Sentence That Changed Your Life?
  - Jun 1 Dear Chump Lady, Please kill my hope
- May 2017
  - May 31 The Decline of Tiger Woods
  - May 30 Dear Chump Lady, How do I know when I’m done?
  - May 29 Dear Chump Lady, I smell a generous settlement…
  - May 26 If Cheaters Wrote Children’s Book Titles…
  - May 25 Jesus Cheaters
  - May 24 Dear Chump Lady, We had a good life. Why did he cheat?
  - May 23 Dear Chump Lady, Why blame the chump?
  - May 22 Huma Finally Leaves
  - May 19 Stupid Shit Schmoopies Say
  - May 18 The Bitch-Be-Crazy Red Flag
  - May 17 UBT: “You’re nobody’s muse.”
  - May 16 Dear Chump Lady, Where’s the Karma?
  - May 15 Open Marriage Skepticism
  - May 12 Happy Mother’s Day to Single Moms
  - May 11 Emotional Vomiting and the Kindness of Strangers
  - May 10 Dear Chump Lady, I’ve got a problem with self-worth
  - May 9 Dear Chump Lady, The court wants me to say she is a “good parent.” I can’t.
  - May 8 UBT: Leaving and Cleaving
  - May 5 Gift Registries for Cheaters?
  - May 4 Might Want to Rethink that “Character” Thing
  - May 3 5 Things That Keep You Stuck with a Cheater
  - May 2 Dear Chump Lady, He divorced me because we don’t have “chemistry”
  - May 1 You Want to Date a Chump? Here’s Where to Find Them
- April 2017
  - Apr 28 Not Your Job Anymore
  - Apr 27 Kids and Affair Partner(s). The Unavoidable Shit Sandwich.
  - Apr 26 The Fallacy of “Unmet Needs”
  - Apr 25 Dear Chump Lady, Should I take back Sparkles The Magnificent Personality Changing Dry Drunk Unicorn?
  - Apr 24 Dear Chump Lady, Why do I have to pay her when she cheated?
  - Apr 23 Abuse Goes with Substance Abuse
  - Apr 21 Best Sassy Chump Retorts?
  - Apr 20 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t stand a chance dating
  - Apr 19 5 Years of Chump Lady? 5 Lessons Learned
  - Apr 18 Paltering — Another Kind of Mindfuckery
  - Apr 17 Dear Chump Lady, I’m afraid he’ll turn the kids against me
  - Apr 14 Your Nominees for the Mighty Award
  - Apr 13 The Ones Who Just Leave
  - Apr 12 And the Mighty Award Goes to Dianne Bentley!
  - Apr 11 Dear Chump Lady, Should I reconcile with a sex addict?
  - Apr 10 Dear Chump Lady, I feel like I betrayed the OW
  - Apr 7 Your Most Ridiculous RIC Nuggets
  - Apr 6 Dear Chump Lady, He “can’t remember”
  - Apr 5 Dear Chump Lady, Tell those wives to maintain their dignity
  - Apr 4 Dear Chump Lady, Can I leave if he has cancer?
  - Apr 3 Why No Contact Works
- March 2017
  - Mar 31 Therapy with Cheaters
  - Mar 30 Dear Chump Lady, I’ll leave him after I lose 20 lbs
  - Mar 29 UBT: “You’re incapable of forgiveness”
  - Mar 28 Facebook Is NOT Helping You Move On
  - Mar 27 Is Huma Abedin Really Working It Out with Anthony Weiner?
  - Mar 27 Dear Chump Lady, He won’t admit to cheating
  - Mar 24 What’s the Dumbest Lie You Ever Fell For?
  - Mar 23 Forgiveness Trolls
  - Mar 22 Dear Chump Lady, Should I fight for her?
  - Mar 21 You Get Over It – A Chump Story
  - Mar 20 A Chump Minstrel Show
  - Mar 17 New Infidelity Euphemisms
  - Mar 16 Dear Chump Lady, Do you think my married boyfriend loves me?
  - Mar 15 Dear Chump Lady, When does this get easier?
  - Mar 14 Other Women and the Universal Sisterhood
  - Mar 13 Dear Chump Lady, Why am I thinking “If only…”?
  - Mar 10 Your Imaginary Chump-Cheater Biopics
  - Mar 9 Dear Chump Lady, My husband ran off with the nanny and it’s my fault?
  - Mar 8 You Might Actually Suck, But You’re Still a Chump
  - Mar 7 UBT: “You don’t need the specifics”
  - Mar 6 UBT: “This Isn’t the Real Me”
  - Mar 3 Tell Me How You’re Mighty!
  - Mar 2 UBT: “I was just experimenting”
  - Mar 1 Dear Chump Lady, Help! I regret posting OW on expose-a-homewrecker sites
- February 2017
  - Feb 28 Close Encounters with Affair Partners
  - Feb 27 Dear Chump Lady, Am I responsible for the kids’ relationship with their dad?
  - Feb 24 I Am a Rock. I Am an Island.
  - Feb 23 Dear Chump Lady, Did she leave because I’m not good enough?
  - Feb 22 Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in affair fog?
  - Feb 21 Dear Chump Lady, My heart hasn’t caught up to my divorce
  - Feb 20 Dear Chump Lady, My mother doesn’t support my divorce
  - Feb 17 Nice versus Kind
  - Feb 16 UBT: There Is No Right or Wrong in the World
  - Feb 15 What Lessons Did You Learn From Cheating?
  - Feb 14 And the Valentine’s Day Poetry Winners Are…
  - Feb 13 UBT: 12 Lessons I Learned From Cheating
  - Feb 10 UBT: “My heart is now open and the feelings are felt.”
  - Feb 9 Dear Chump Lady, He’s in the closet. How do I tell his wife?
  - Feb 8 Unconditional Love
  - Feb 7 Dear Chump Lady, Do I miss the mindfuck?
  - Feb 6 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over my envy?
  - Feb 5 The Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry Contest
  - Feb 3 What a Good Friend Looks Like
  - Feb 2 Why Is No Contact So Hard?
  - Feb 1 Dear Chump Lady, My wife is near perfect, but I see prostitutes
- January 2017
  - Jan 31 How Do I Divorce a Narcissist?
  - Jan 30 What Did Your Sad Sausage Want Sympathy For?
  - Jan 27 Your Best No Contact Strategies
  - Jan 26 Sorry Is as Sorry Does
  - Jan 25 Dear Chump Lady, How do I tell my pregnant SIL her husband is cheating?
  - Jan 24 Lies Are Exhausting
  - Jan 23 Dear Chump Lady, Cheater’s mom enables him in his affair
  - Jan 20 What’s Your Patronus?
  - Jan 19 The Power of Ridicule
  - Jan 18 The “I Fail to Understand Your Hostility” Mindfuck
  - Jan 17 Dear Chump Lady, My husband says the children should not be told of his affair
  - Jan 16 When You’re the Parent in the Relationship
  - Jan 13 Biggest Empowerment Jolt after D-Day?
  - Jan 12 Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants an open marriage
  - Jan 11 The Cheater Was Going to Stop… Really
  - Jan 10 Got Anger?
  - Jan 9 The Fallacy of Blissful Ignorance
  - Jan 6 Overcoming Awkward Firsts
  - Jan 5 Dear Chump Lady, He’s just flawed, he’s not bad?
  - Jan 4 Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?
  - Jan 3 UBT: Chump Lady’s Attitude
  - Jan 2 Get Over It
2016
- December 2016
  - Dec 30 Stupid Shit Said in Therapy
  - Dec 29 Dear Chump Lady, He butt-dialed me from the OW’s
  - Dec 28 Dear Chump Lady, Why do I keep handing out chances?
  - Dec 27 Stupid Shit Other People Say
  - Dec 26 Dear Chump Lady, Is PTSD a reason for cheating?
  - Dec 23 Tis the Season for New Traditions
  - Dec 22 UBT: He blew up the marriage to improve it
  - Dec 21 Where Did Chump Lady Come From?
  - Dec 20 Compartmentalization
  - Dec 19 Divorcing the Disordered — An Interview with Dr. George Simon
  - Dec 16 Moments of Meh
  - Dec 15 Quit Waiting for an Apology
  - Dec 14 Dear Chump Lady, How do I co-parent with an addict?
  - Dec 13 Dear Chump Lady, Should my cheater be in the delivery room?
  - Dec 12 How Did You Get Rid of Their Crap?
  - Dec 9 Tips for Starting a New Life?
  - Dec 8 Cool. Bummer. Wow.
  - Dec 7 UBT: A Letter from “the Baby”
  - Dec 6 UBT: The OW told me to jump off a bridge
  - Dec 5 Dear Chump Lady, Just divorced and my ex is introducing her affair partner to the kids
  - Dec 2 The Annual Christmas Freak Countdown
  - Dec 1 Making a Vow to Yourself
- November 2016
  - Nov 30 It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like D-Day…
  - Nov 29 UBT: “Monogamy Is a Gift”
  - Nov 28 Dear Chump Lady, Don’t confess an affair?
  - Nov 25 Dear Chump Lady, How do I make it through the holidays?
  - Nov 24 Things We Are Grateful For
  - Nov 23 Things We Are Not Grateful For
  - Nov 22 Dear Chump Lady, Husband said OW’s name during sex
  - Nov 21 Dear Chump Lady, When dating, how do I know if someone is a cheater?
  - Nov 18 Co-Parenting With Fuckwits, Your Thoughts…
  - Nov 17 The Walls In Your House Will Sing
  - Nov 16 UBT: Ask Your Spouse Directly If They’ve Been Cheating
  - Nov 15 UBT: “Don’t Define Me”
  - Nov 14 Cheating Is a Very “Individual” Thing
  - Nov 11 Tell Me Something Good
  - Nov 10 Dear Chump Lady, I just got HPV, but I’ve been monogamous for 30 years
  - Nov 9 Dear America, You’re in an abusive relationship
  - Nov 8 UBT: If You Accuse Me of Cheating, I Will Cheat
  - Nov 7 Anthony Weiner Does Sex Rehab
  - Nov 4 I Don’t Need Your Permission
  - Nov 3 Flip the Script, Chumps
  - Nov 2 UBT: It Has Nothing To Do With You
  - Nov 1 What Did You Lose By Reconciling?
- October 2016
  - Oct 31 Dear Chump Lady, My cheating wife wants to come back
  - Oct 28 The Pep Talk You Would Give Yourself at D-Day
  - Oct 27 Dear Chump Lady, My ex doesn’t want me to date
  - Oct 26 Men Cheat Because They Love Us? WTF?
  - Oct 25 Dear Chump Lady, My “friend” is an OW
  - Oct 24 Dear Chump Lady, How do you ask for a divorce?
  - Oct 21 Have a Bitch Cookie
  - Oct 20 The Stranger
  - Oct 19 Dear Chump Lady, He apologized. Now what?
  - Oct 18 UBT: “You Were So Perfect, I Had to Cheat”
  - Oct 17 Dear Chump Lady, Please help un-chump my mom
  - Oct 14 Ghoulies and Ghosties and Long-Legged Beasties and Things That Cheat in the Night
  - Oct 13 Chump Lady Answers Her Google Queries
  - Oct 12 The “Children Are Resilient” Argument
  - Oct 11 Dear Chump Lady, He says he thought he’d never get caught
  - Oct 10 Yeah, That’s Not An Apology
  - Oct 7 The Day of the Deadbeat
  - Oct 6 Tori’s Marriage-Saving Pregnancy
  - Oct 5 Dear Chump Lady, I need some karma stories STAT!
  - Oct 4 Dear Chump Lady, He’s not a bad person, he’s just a sex addict
  - Oct 3 Everyone Cheats?
- September 2016
  - Sep 30 Hashtags for #Cheaters
  - Sep 29 UBT: Joseph’s Letter
  - Sep 28 WTF Trivago Guy?
  - Sep 27 Dear Chump Lady, How long do you think this affair was going on?
  - Sep 26 Happy Birthday Chump Lady
  - Sep 23 Dear Chump Lady, Apparently I am “spiteful”
  - Sep 22 Dear Chump Lady, Should I divorce his cheating, Mormon ass?
  - Sep 21 Your Obligatory Brangelina Post
  - Sep 20 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t have any proof but…
  - Sep 19 UBT: How do I find that next married man?
  - Sep 16 That Moment of Chump Rebellion
  - Sep 15 Dear Chump Lady, My ex sent me a goodbye letter
  - Sep 14 Dear Chump Lady, Why am I second guessing my decision to break up?
  - Sep 13 The Condescension of Other Women
  - Sep 12 Dear Chump Lady, Why does he suck at remorse?
  - Sep 9 Eat, Pray, Gay?
  - Sep 8 Dear Chump Lady, Why do people help cheaters cheat?
  - Sep 7 Do-It-Yourself Mediation Is For Suckers
  - Sep 6 Dear Chump Lady, I neglected him and this is all my fault
  - Sep 4 Be a Hell Raiser, Not a Chump
  - Sep 2 Meh Sightings
  - Sep 1 UBT: “Respect my relationship with the OW”
- August 2016
  - Aug 31 When Your Cheater Is Also a Sicko
  - Aug 30 Huma Frees Herself
  - Aug 29 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t seem to block him
  - Aug 26 Your Most Un-Meh Moment
  - Aug 25 Dear Chump Lady, Sex with the STBX just to mess with him?
  - Aug 24 Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain go away?
  - Aug 23 Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters work from the same script?
  - Aug 22 Dear Chump Lady, I lost the moral high ground when I told people my wife was cheating
  - Aug 19 Time Again for a Mightiness Check
  - Aug 18 Dear Chump Lady, How can I save my friend?
  - Aug 17 Dear Chump Lady, What if he changes for the next woman?
  - Aug 15 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t trust women
  - Aug 15 Anthony Weiner Gets Catfished
  - Aug 12 Snappy “I’d Rather” Cheater Comebacks
  - Aug 11 Dear Chump Lady, Are affairs addictions?
  - Aug 10 The Pick Me Dance… After Death?
  - Aug 9 Living with Your Ex… For The Children?
  - Aug 8 Dear Chump Lady, My ex wants to live in my basement
  - Aug 5 You Might Be a Cheater If…
  - Aug 4 UBT: “We Aren’t All Homewreckers”
  - Aug 3 Dear Chump Lady, Why does everyone assume cheating is the chump’s fault?
  - Aug 2 Dear Chump Lady, Can I please destroy the OW?
  - Aug 1 China’s Mistress Dispelling Services
- July 2016
  - Jul 29 A Chump Coming Out Party?
  - Jul 28 Dear Chump Lady, I stay to protect my son from the Other Woman
  - Jul 27 Finding a Friend You Can Confide In
  - Jul 26 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the devaluing?
  - Jul 25 Dear Chump Lady, I’m struggling with no contact and kids
  - Jul 22 Ashley Madison Wants You to “Find Your Moment”
  - Jul 21 Dear Chump Lady, Is Affair Fog real?
  - Jul 20 I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You
  - Jul 19 Dear Chump Lady, I have a Switzerland cousin
  - Jul 18 Dear Chump Lady, I’m a serial cheater and I want to change
  - Jul 17 A Chump Emancipation Proclamation
  - Jul 15 Dear Chump Lady, Why are cheaters so brazen?
  - Jul 14 Eat, Pray, Kibble, Divorce
  - Jul 13 The Ready Chump Response to “I’ve Changed!”
  - Jul 12 Being the Marriage Police
  - Jul 11 Dear Chump Lady, I’m obsessed with the tall, blonde Other Woman
  - Jul 8 Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep myself from rewriting history?
  - Jul 7 Dear Chump Lady, When do I tell him I’m dumping him?
  - Jul 6 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over losing the dream?
  - Jul 5 Don’t Be Bitter!
  - Jul 4 But I Always Come Back to You
  - Jul 1 The Museum of Broken Relationships
- June 2016
  - Jun 30 A Plea for Civility
  - Jun 29 Dear Chump Lady, Can I let people know he’s a fraud?
  - Jun 28 Affair Enablers
  - Jun 27 But I Love Her (Him)
  - Jun 24 What Inspirational Quote Helped You Through?
  - Jun 23 Dear Chump Lady, She’s pregnant by the Other Man
  - Jun 22 Knowing When a Marriage Is Over
  - Jun 21 Embrace the Chaos
  - Jun 20 Dear Chump Lady, How do I handle the OW?
  - Jun 19 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 17 Dating Disaster Stories, Anyone?
  - Jun 16 Dear Chump Lady, How come he waited 20 years to blow up my life?
  - Jun 15 Dear Chump Lady, I feel like I’m too available
  - Jun 14 The Blog Odometer Rolled Over 10 Million
  - Jun 13 Ask Me Anything Tonight
  - Jun 13 UBT: “I will return with a fuller love for you”
  - Jun 10 Dear Chump Lady, Please kill my hope
  - Jun 9 An Imperfect Beginning
  - Jun 8 Do Cheaters Have Low Self Esteem?
  - Jun 7 Ask Me Anything!
  - Jun 7 Tom Jones Eulogizes His Chump
  - Jun 6 Dear Chump Lady, When I threaten to leave, he says he’ll change
  - Jun 3 New Age Cheaterisms
  - Jun 2 A Trust That They Suck Refresher Course
  - Jun 1 UBT: “Why My Affair Will Turn Into a Healthy Relationship!”
- May 2016
  - May 30 Dear Chump Lady, Why does he ignore my questions?
  - May 30 Paula Broadwell Wants Us to Stop Saying “Mistress”
  - May 27 No Contact Fails — The Outtakes
  - May 26 UBT: “You have to set me free within the marriage.”
  - May 25 UBT This Jesus Cheater Please
  - May 24 UBT: “I lied to you because you can’t accept the truth”
  - May 23 Dear Chump Lady, My cheating husband wants me to sponsor his citizenship
  - May 20 Time for a Mightiness Check In!
  - May 19 You Need a Lawyer
  - May 18 How to Suffer — A Chump Manual
  - May 17 Dear Chump Lady, I’m 9 months pregnant and he’s introducing his girlfriend
  - May 16 Dear Chump Lady, I was completely duped. How do I ever trust again?
  - May 15 A Feast of Mightiness!
  - May 13 Cheater or Child? Who Said It Best?
  - May 12 Dear Chump Lady, I’m considering just giving up
  - May 11 Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with cheating ex at my daughter’s graduation?
  - May 10 Official Book Day!
  - May 9 UBT: Esther Perel on Beyonce’s ‘Lemonade’
  - May 8 Happy Mothers’ Day!
  - May 6 The Fuckwit Pride Parade
  - May 5 Dear Chump Lady, My insecurity made him cheat?
  - May 4 Dear Chump Lady, The OW is taunting me
  - May 3 UBT: “Please Don’t Give Up On Me!”
  - May 2 Science Vindicates “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life”
- April 2016
  - Apr 29 UBT: “Infidelity is a lousy reason to end a marriage”
  - Apr 28 Dear Chump Lady, Which came first — the death of the marriage or the affair?
  - Apr 27 Let Me Tell You All About Them!
  - Apr 26 If You Think I’m THAT Sort of Person…
  - Apr 25 UBT: Beyonce’s ‘Lemonade’
  - Apr 22 UBT: “I Made a Terrible Mistake”
  - Apr 21 Dear Chump Lady, My world has crashed around me
  - Apr 20 Dear Chump Lady, Is he just your average narcissist?
  - Apr 19 The Blog Turns 4 Today!
  - Apr 18 Dear Chump Lady, I chased my cheater through a mall…
  - Apr 15 How Pretty Did You “Pick Me” Dance?
  - Apr 14 Cream of Mindfuck Soup
  - Apr 13 Dear Chump Lady, What’s age-appropriate disclosure with kids?
  - Apr 12 Cool, Bummer, Wow
  - Apr 11 Dear Chump Lady, How do I say goodbye?
  - Apr 8 Oh the Places You’ll Go!
  - Apr 7 UBT: “I’m in a Good Place Now”
  - Apr 6 UBT: Fred Armisen: Cheating “Is Just Something That Happens”
  - Apr 5 50 Shades of Subtle Nuance
  - Apr 4 Dear Chump Lady, I feel stupid for outing my cheater in an email blast
  - Apr 3 New Book! Book Launch Party!
  - Apr 1 UBT: “A letter to my husband from his cheating wife”
- March 2016
  - Mar 31 When Your Cheater Is Also a Predator
  - Mar 30 Dear Chump Lady, Anyone else experience Switzerland friends?
  - Mar 29 Sweet Spackle Alabama
  - Mar 28 Dear Chump Lady, My daughter considers ex’s affair partner “family”
  - Mar 25 Make Your Own Cheater Memes!
  - Mar 24 Apologize to Your Cheating Husband, Says Quack
  - Mar 23 Dear Chump Lady, My cheating husband won’t move out
  - Mar 22 UBT: “Cheating is a symptom, not the disease”
  - Mar 21 Dear Chump Lady, How do you confront a cheater?
  - Mar 18 UBT Me, Please
  - Mar 17 Dear Chump Lady, Is she prettier?
  - Mar 16 Dear Chump Lady, My friend doesn’t listen to your advice
  - Mar 15 UBT: You cheated for the excitement!
  - Mar 14 Surely You Must’ve Known
  - Mar 11 The 3 Douchiest Things You Don’t Miss
  - Mar 10 Dear Chump Lady, Are these red flags?
  - Mar 9 Dear Chump Lady, I’m an ex-Marine chump
  - Mar 8 UBT: “I wish I could take it all back”
  - Mar 7 Remarry Your Ex?
  - Mar 6 How Do You Ask Chump Lady a Question?
  - Mar 4 Dear Chump Lady, He’s gone. Now how do I get him out of my head?
  - Mar 3 UBT: Our Marriage Was Already Over
  - Mar 2 Dear Chump Lady, He wants the OW so he can “live a little”
  - Mar 1 The Dead-Eyed Stare
- February 2016
  - Feb 29 UBT: Jennifer Garner’s Shit Sandwich
  - Feb 26 Dear Chump Lady, Do OW hate women?
  - Feb 25 50 Shades of Moral Ambiguity
  - Feb 24 Where Did Chump Lady Come From?
  - Feb 23 Dear Chump Lady, Is the cheating my fault?
  - Feb 22 UBT: “My husband has stopped cheating on me after 35 years.”
  - Feb 19 Dear Chump Lady, Why does my pink hair make me feel better?
  - Feb 18 UBT: “I Didn’t Mean To”
  - Feb 17 Dear Chump Lady, Maybe the OW is “The One”?
  - Feb 16 And the winner is….!
  - Feb 16 Dear Chump Lady, Where are all the single available men?
  - Feb 15 Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with kids, social media, and inappropriate ex?
  - Feb 12 Dear Chump Lady, Do we have to do things “as a family”?
  - Feb 11 Social Media Shame for Deadbeats
  - Feb 10 Tiffany Glass Windows
  - Feb 9 Fourth Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Contest
  - Feb 8 Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t want to unfriend the OW
  - Feb 5 Time Again for a Mightiness Check
  - Feb 4 Dear Chump Lady, She ghosted me
  - Feb 3 Co-parenting Cake
  - Feb 2 Dear Chump Lady, He has a “seasonal disorder”
  - Feb 1 The Mindfuck Only Has Three Channels
- January 2016
  - Jan 29 Join the International Academy for the Advancement of Chump Studies
  - Jan 28 UBT: “In Defense of Dating a Married Man”
  - Jan 27 Should You Warn the Next One?
  - Jan 26 Coming From a “Place of Rage” — or Lucidity?
  - Jan 25 Dear Chump Lady, He’s come out of the “fog” and wants us back
  - Jan 22 Chump Lady Answers Her Google Search Term Queries
  - Jan 21 A Public Service Announcement for Remorseless Cheaters
  - Jan 20 Dear Chump Lady, “I need to forgive the OW” — WTF?
  - Jan 19 UBT: “Found Myself and Had an Affair”
  - Jan 18 Dear Chump Lady, I need to be needed
  - Jan 15 Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in “Affair Fog”?
  - Jan 14 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t deal with her mindfuckery
  - Jan 13 Dear Chump Lady, He “can’t cope with the guilt” of who he is
  - Jan 12 UBT: Married Trader with a Sugar Baby
  - Jan 11 Dear Chump Lady, Divorce and then date? Is this a good idea?
  - Jan 8 Potty-Mouthed Infidelity Speak
  - Jan 6 Don’t Date This Person
  - Jan 6 And the Winner Is… Cheater Takes OW to Disneyland Instead of Kids
  - Jan 5 Dear Chump Lady, I let the OW get to me. Help.
  - Jan 4 Dear Chump Lady, Can you please stop me begging for my marriage?
  - Jan 1 Chump Resolutions 2016
2015
- December 2015
  - Dec 31 Family Therapy with Your Abuser — WTF?
  - Dec 30 The Compassion Trap
  - Dec 29 Dear Chump Lady, How do I fix my picker?
  - Dec 28 Dear Chump Lady, He apologized to the OW for not leaving me
  - Dec 25 Merry Meh-Mas
  - Dec 24 Nice Vs. Kind
  - Dec 23 We Could Be Friends!
  - Dec 22 Situational Truth
  - Dec 21 Reconsider? Let’s not
  - Dec 18 Cheater Freak Christmas!
  - Dec 17 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to date for dull to find decent?
  - Dec 16 Dear Chump Lady, She hated my poem
  - Dec 15 Single at the Holidays
  - Dec 14 The “Anyone Could Cheat” Defense
  - Dec 11 Leave a Cheater, Give a Refugee Kid a Christmas
  - Dec 10 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop being so angry with my ex?
  - Dec 9 UBT: Adele’s “Hello”
  - Dec 8 The Promise Land of Meh Town
  - Dec 7 Dear Chump Lady, I’m the Other Woman and I feel a lot of guilt
  - Dec 4 Chump Revolution? Buy This Book
  - Dec 3 Dear Chump Lady, How can we challenge blameshifting therapists?
  - Dec 2 UBT: “Other Men” Explain Their Affairs
  - Dec 1 Dear Chump Lady, The “Other Woman” wrote me a letter…
- November 2015
  - Nov 30 UBT: 7 Reasons Why Cheating Was Your Fault
  - Nov 27 Why Is No Contact So Hard?
  - Nov 26 Happy Thanksgiving!
  - Nov 25 Old crazy? New tradition!
  - Nov 24 Dear Chump Lady, How do I make it through the holidays?
  - Nov 22 Dear Chump Lady, The Other Woman told me to read your blog…
  - Nov 20 UBT: Mo’Nique’s Give Men a Pass for Cheating
  - Nov 19 Dear Chump Lady, My mom is a serial cheater
  - Nov 18 The Myth of the 50-50 Marriage
  - Nov 17 UBT: “The Ethicist”
  - Nov 16 Dear Chump Lady, Did he cheat because I confided my fears?
  - Nov 16 Thoughts on Nihilism
  - Nov 13 Debunking Monogamish
  - Nov 12 The Cheater Work Ethic
  - Nov 11 Dear Chump Lady, “We never had sex anymore…”
  - Nov 10 The Pick Me Dance for Fun and Profit
  - Nov 9 UBT OW: I Just Want to Reach Out and Help You!
  - Nov 6 Meaningless Flings and the Myth of the Good Cheater
  - Nov 5 Cheater Mad Libs: How I Met My True Love Derrick
  - Nov 4 Dear Chump Lady, I have a back-stabbing mother-in-law
  - Nov 3 UBT: “I’m Not Trying to Be Dramatic.”
  - Nov 2 How to Save Your Marriage After Infidelity
- October 2015
  - Oct 30 Deconstructing Frumpiness (and Chumpiness)
  - Oct 29 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t compete with their Fabulousness
  - Oct 28 A New Chump Credo
  - Oct 27 Dear Chump Lady, Why do I keep handing out chances?
  - Oct 26 Do-It-Yourself Mediation Is for Suckers
  - Oct 23 That Unicorn Ran Off with Your Cash
  - Oct 22 Write Your Own Cheater Click Bait
  - Oct 21 The Pretzel Logic of the 180
  - Oct 20 UBT: “Loving Your Husband Hurts ME Too!”
  - Oct 19 The Rock Bottom Remainders
  - Oct 16 What Made You Leave a Cheater?
  - Oct 15 Living with Uncertainty After Infidelity
  - Oct 14 UBT: Michelle Duggar’s Marriage Advice
  - Oct 13 The “People Pleaser” Excuse
  - Oct 12 Divorce? Hey, You’re Doing It All Wrong
  - Oct 9 Dear Chump Lady, My ex denies that he cheated. Others believe it.
  - Oct 8 Where Does “Meh” Go When the OW Moves In Next Door?
  - Oct 7 UBT: “How Having an Affair Saved My Life.”
  - Oct 6 Dear Chump Lady, How can I help my mom forgive herself for being a chump?
  - Oct 5 Dear Chump Lady, I want them to know I know
  - Oct 2 Dear Chump Lady, What’s an exit affair?
  - Oct 1 Potential Addiction
- September 2015
  - Sep 30 UBT: “I’m unable to remain faithful to my perfect husband.”
  - Sep 29 UBT: “It happened and it’s not my fault.”
  - Sep 28 Leave a Cheater, Gain a Dog?
  - Sep 26 And the Arts & Crafts winner is…
  - Sep 25 Chump Lady Ages Into Another Birthday
  - Sep 24 Early Wingnut Warning Signs
  - Sep 23 Dear Chump Lady, How do they flip so fast?
  - Sep 21 Dear Josh, You’re a Chump
  - Sep 20 Naming Abuse
  - Sep 18 Arts and Crafts for Cheaters
  - Sep 17 UBT: Cheaters didn’t know “what else” to do!
  - Sep 16 Give Up on “Closure”
  - Sep 15 A Guy Chump’s Tale from the Other Side
  - Sep 14 UBT: “You don’t love me the way I need to be loved”
  - Sep 11 Dump “Scorned” Already
  - Sep 10 Dear Chump Lady, My ex-wife wants me to go to therapy with her
  - Sep 9 Etiquette for Mistresses?
  - Sep 8 Character Assassination? Don’t Let the Bastards Grind You Down
  - Sep 6 Be a Hellraiser, Not a Chump
  - Sep 4 UBT: “Sometimes You Need to Betray the Social Order”
  - Sep 3 UBT: “I Wasn’t Trying to Manipulate You”
  - Sep 2 Fairy Dust Forgiveness
  - Sep 1 Where’s Esther?
- August 2015
  - Aug 31 UBT: “I Don’t Even Like Him”
  - Aug 28 Time again for Jesus Cheaters
  - Aug 27 Ashley Madison, You Saucy Minx
  - Aug 26 UBT: “You Were So Perfect, I Had to Cheat.”
  - Aug 25 Your Life Version 2.0
  - Aug 24 The Good Advice Chumps Won’t Take… Now
  - Aug 21 Infidelity Advice for the Newly Chumped?
  - Aug 20 AM Genie Out of the Bottle
  - Aug 19 The Data Hits the Fan
  - Aug 18 Technology and Divorce: What you don’t know can hurt you financially
  - Aug 17 Why Is It So Hard to Remember They Suck?
  - Aug 16 What is the difference between cheaters and chumps?
  - Aug 14 Worst Infidelity Advice?
  - Aug 13 Is the Mid-Life Crisis Real?
  - Aug 12 When Escape Is Your Best Option
  - Aug 11 Welcome to the Dating Jungle
  - Aug 10 How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Not Fall in Love with the Bomb
  - Aug 8 State Rep Invents Gay Affair to Hide Real Affair
  - Aug 7 Your Very Best Spackle, Please
  - Aug 6 UBT: “Affairs are about opportunity.”
  - Aug 5 What Is It With the Nannies?
  - Aug 4 Honor Among Cheaters
  - Aug 3 Dear Chump Lady, My husband is trying to pimp me out to strangers
- July 2015
  - Jul 31 Time for a Mightiness Check In
  - Jul 30 Your “It’s Not Okay” List
  - Jul 29 A Trust That They Suck Refresher Course
  - Jul 28 Dear Chump Lady, Divorce is more than I can deal with
  - Jul 27 Take Back Your Power
  - Jul 24 The Compassion Trap
  - Jul 23 The Dead-Eyed Stare
  - Jul 22 Dear Chump Lady, What do I do when my kids are with OW?
  - Jul 21 The Helpless Other Woman
  - Jul 20 Ashley Madison’s Data Held Hostage
  - Jul 17 The Trickle Truth Is Neither Trickle Nor Truth
  - Jul 16 Dear Chump Lady, Is this meh or did I just give up?
  - Jul 14 Problem, Adult Solution, Cheater Solution
  - Jul 14 Dear Chump Lady, How do I support my friend’s reconciliation?
  - Jul 13 Dear Chump Lady, I’m a serial cheater
  - Jul 10 Dear Chump Lady, Why is she sorry NOW?
  - Jul 9 Dear Chump Lady, What made her so special?
  - Jul 8 Dear Chump Lady, My therapist wants to know how I caused my husband to cheat
  - Jul 7 Reconciliation Stories
  - Jul 6 UBT: Renegade Sex Therapists
  - Jul 3 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t evict him from my head
  - Jul 2 UBT: “The Most Common Mistakes Made By Betrayed Spouses in Recovering from an Affair”
  - Jul 1 Dear Chump Lady, How do I forgive myself?
- June 2015
  - Jun 30 Affair Enablers
  - Jun 29 The Narcissist Checklist
  - Jun 26 Aspiring to Marriage
  - Jun 26 Eat, Pray, Kibble
  - Jun 25 You Don’t Need it THAT Bad
  - Jun 24 Lyle Mitchell, Chump
  - Jun 23 Dear Chump Lady, How do I heal my “kindness flaw”?
  - Jun 22 Dear Chump Lady, Make nice with the OW… or else
  - Jun 21 Happy Father’s Day!
  - Jun 19 UBT: “Should I ask you for a handout?”
  - Jun 18 Dear Chump Lady, The OW says she will “destroy” me
  - Jun 17 Unconditional What?
  - Jun 16 Parents Who Abandon
  - Jun 15 Dear Chump Lady, Why is he suddenly being nice?
  - Jun 12 UBT: “I’m sorry you don’t love me.”
  - Jun 11 Dear Chump Lady, I’m wondering if I did the right thing divorcing him?
  - Jun 10 Most Pathetic Play for Kibbles?
  - Jun 9 Why No Contact Works
  - Jun 7 UBT: “My handling of your situation is beyond fault.”
  - Jun 6 The Chump and the Psychic
  - Jun 5 A Bad Day to Be Bobby Flay
  - Jun 4 Dear Chump Lady, How come my boyfriends suck?
  - Jun 3 So How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?
  - Jun 2 Interview with Dr. David Ley, author of “The Myth of Sex Addiction”
- May 2015
  - May 31 Dear Chump Lady, My therapist says I shouldn’t tell people he cheated
  - May 31 Denny, We Hardly Knew You
  - May 29 Leave a Cheater, Gain a Cat?
  - May 28 UBT: “How to break free from monogamy without destroying marriage”
  - May 27 Adult Friend Finder Is Hacked
  - May 26 The Dreaded Fear They’re Going to Be Better for Someone Else
  - May 25 Happy Memorial Day
  - May 23 Duggar Family Dysfunction
  - May 22 The Full Life Circle of an OW
  - May 21 UBT: “Affair Proofing” Your Marriage
  - May 20 Dear Chump Lady, How do you get through the middle of leaving?
  - May 19 Dear Chump Lady, What is it with cheaters and ennui?
  - May 18 Kids and Affair Partners — The Unavoidable Shit Sandwich
  - May 17 Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain stop?
  - May 15 What Dreams Did You Crush?
  - May 14 Dear Chump Lady, Is It Okay to Fuck with His Head?
  - May 13 Tiger Woods Cheated Again, Surprise!
  - May 12 Announcing My New Book
  - May 11 UBT: “I have the best sex with married men.”
  - May 9 Happy Mother’s Day — Take a Single Mom to Lunch
  - May 8 If You Don’t Take Her to Brunch, She’ll Have an Affair?
  - May 7 UBT: “The explanations were never good enough.”
  - May 6 UBT: “You’re not capable of forgiveness.”
  - May 5 UBT: “Monogamy Is a Gift”
  - May 3 Every Piece of Crappy Reconciliation Advice
  - May 1 Cheater Compares Herself to Martin Luther King, Jr.
- April 2015
  - Apr 30 Craziest Thing They Asked for in the Divorce?
  - Apr 29 Dear Chump Lady, He “can’t decide”
  - Apr 28 UBT: “There Are No Right Answers in the Aftermath of Infidelity”
  - Apr 27 It’s “Complicated”
  - Apr 26 Troll Compendium
  - Apr 24 Bobby Betray
  - Apr 23 Dear Chump Lady, I just discovered that my mom cheated
  - Apr 22 UBT: Joseph’s Letter
  - Apr 21 Forgive $38K in Back Child Support?
  - Apr 20 You Might Be a Recovered Chump If…
  - Apr 19 Happy Blog Birthday!
  - Apr 17 You Might Be a Chump If…
  - Apr 16 Surely You Must’ve Known
  - Apr 15 Why Sleeping With Dean McDermott Is a Very Bad Idea
  - Apr 14 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to host the OW’s kid?
  - Apr 13 Dear Chump Lady, He doesn’t feel sorry, he just feels bad. WTF?
  - Apr 11 Seriously, Shayanna, Really?
  - Apr 10 What’s Your Patronus?
  - Apr 9 In Defense of Anger
  - Apr 8 Dear Chump Lady, My ex wants us to be “One Big Happy Family”
  - Apr 7 Nice vs. Kind
  - Apr 6 Dear Chump Lady, How do I help my friend move on?
  - Apr 3 Financial Infidelity
  - Apr 2 I Haven’t Been Happy for a Long Time
  - Apr 1 My Cheater, My House
- March 2015
  - Mar 31 HGTV’s Hilary Farr, Queen of the Boundaries
  - Mar 30 Dear Chump Lady, Do you think stress made him cheat?
  - Mar 27 Dear Chump Lady, How do I manage weekly contact?
  - Mar 26 The UBT Takes on Aimee
  - Mar 25 Cheaters Are Timid Forest Creatures
  - Mar 24 The OW Were Not Amused
  - Mar 21 Red Flags You Were With a Cheater?
  - Mar 20 Monica Lewinsky, The Poorest of Sausages
  - Mar 19 Affairs Save Marriages
  - Mar 18 Australian Ad Board Finds Ashley Madison Ad Discriminatory to Women
  - Mar 16 When Affair Partners Marry
  - Mar 15 Why Did You Leave?
  - Mar 13 Why Did You Stay?
  - Mar 12 Dear Beyonce
  - Mar 11 Is “Sex Addiction” Real?
  - Mar 10 Dear Chump Lady, My teenagers blame me
  - Mar 9 Pain Shopping?
  - Mar 6 Cheaters Who’ve Got Game
  - Mar 5 Toxic Shame — Or Just Being a Jerk?
  - Mar 4 Enough with Divorce Shame
  - Mar 3 Dissolving the Ego
  - Mar 2 Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word
  - Mar 1 Dear Chump Lady, How can I stay the course?
- February 2015
  - Feb 28 Some Good News in a Wicked World
  - Feb 27 UBT My Husband’s Craigslist Ad
  - Feb 26 Dear Chump Lady, The Zoloft Isn’t Helping
  - Feb 25 How To Leave Someone, How to Be Left
  - Feb 24 Please Don’t Take Their Word for It
  - Feb 23 The UBT Takes On Mother-In-Laws
  - Feb 20 80 Rosebushes and Other Chump Manias
  - Feb 19 Dear Chump Lady, Do I believe him or the proof?
  - Feb 18 UBT: I Wish You Were Still Nice
  - Feb 17 Being the Marriage Police
  - Feb 16 Dear Chump Lady, How could he turn into a completely different person?
  - Feb 14 And the Winners of the Infidelity Valentine’s Day Contest Are…
  - Feb 13 Help Annabel Go to School
  - Feb 12 UBT: Maybe Our Problem Is We Work Too Well Together
  - Feb 11 Stupid Shit Cake Eaters Say
  - Feb 10 Dear Chump Lady, Do I just like drama?
  - Feb 9 Don’t Need It That Bad
  - Feb 8 Dear Chump Lady, I wish I didn’t care
  - Feb 6 Tiffany Glass Windows
  - Feb 5 Cheater Goggles
  - Feb 4 Dear Chump Lady, How do I break through to her?
  - Feb 3 Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters all work from the same script?
  - Feb 1 The Third Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Contest!
- January 2015
  - Jan 30 The “Plan B” Offer
  - Jan 29 Dear Chump Lady, I’m due to give birth and found him sexting…
  - Jan 28 Don’t Ask Amy
  - Jan 27 What Did You Do That You’ve Never Done Before?
  - Jan 26 Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better?
  - Jan 23 What Would You Tell Yourself at D-Day?
  - Jan 22 Don’t Judge Me
  - Jan 21 Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants a polyamorist marriage
  - Jan 20 Dear Chump Lady, I found my cheating dad’s homemade porn
  - Jan 19 Dear Chump Lady, My ex is trying to bully me into 50/50 custody
  - Jan 17 Sparkly Shoes and Orphan Update
  - Jan 16 Chumpfetti, or How Did You Get Rid of Their Crap?
  - Jan 15 Dear Chump Lady, What do I make of this “goodbye letter” from my ex?
  - Jan 14 Dear Chump Lady, “I couldn’t forgive a mistake.”
  - Jan 13 Chump Lady Talks to Her Trolls Today
  - Jan 12 Can Affair Relationships Last? Are You Super, Duper Special?
  - Jan 10 Twelve Days of Cheater Freakiness
  - Jan 9 “Eat Your Pudding” and Other Sexy Affair Utterances
  - Jan 8 You Might Actually Suck, But You’re Still a Chump
  - Jan 7 How Not to Be a Cheater?
  - Jan 6 Leveling the Financial Playing Field on Your Way Out the Door
  - Jan 5 More Mightiness!
  - Jan 3 Dear Chump Lady, My wife is a serial cheater.
  - Jan 2 Dear Chump Lady, Where do you find the strength?
  - Jan 1 Roto-Rooter and the Dawn of a New Year
2014
- December 2014
  - Dec 31 Dear Chump Lady, How do I leave without him getting violent?
  - Dec 30 Dear Chump Lady, 2×4 me. I slept with my ex.
  - Dec 29 Dear Chump Lady, Why should I agree to divorce him?
  - Dec 27 Chump Encouragement from the Other Side
  - Dec 26 Dear Chump Lady, Still kind of stuck…
  - Dec 25 Merry Christmas!
  - Dec 24 Dear Chump Lady, What happens to couple friends after divorce?
  - Dec 23 It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like… Infidelity
  - Dec 21 Searching for Meaning in Ambiguity
  - Dec 21 Operation Sparkly Shoes
  - Dec 19 Dear Chump Lady, What did you do on the anniversary of your D-Day?
  - Dec 18 Don’t Let Them Steal Another Day
  - Dec 17 Dear Chump Lady, Is there a statute of limitations on this chump thing?
  - Dec 16 How Pretty Did You Dance?
  - Dec 15 Being Anti-Cheating Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Sex Positive
  - Dec 14 Dear Chump Lady, Lack of melatonin made him cheat
  - Dec 12 Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my chumpy friend to wise up?
  - Dec 11 Double-Decker Holiday Shit Sandwiches
  - Dec 10 When Cheaters Do Therapy… Some Precautions
  - Dec 9 Man Busts Cheating Woman at Detroit Lions Game
  - Dec 8 Cheater Freak Christmas Contest!
  - Dec 6 Dear Chump Lady, He’s moved on. I haven’t.
  - Dec 5 Come Back to Us, Dean!
  - Dec 5 At Last! New Serverdom!
  - Dec 4 Dear Chump Lady, Seeing prostitutes makes for good parenting? WTF?
  - Dec 3 Jesus Cheaters
  - Dec 2 Don’t Date This Person
  - Dec 1 Dear Chump Lady, I put her through med school. She put me through hell.
- November 2014
  - Nov 29 Dear Chump Lady, “31 and can’t start my life over”
  - Nov 28 Dear Chump Lady, I just need to hear her say she’s sorry
  - Nov 27 Happy Thanksgiving!
  - Nov 26 The New I Do WTFever Makes Me Happy
  - Nov 25 Dear Chump Lady, The cheaters live next door…
  - Nov 24 Dear Chump Lady, My daughter wants to show me pictures of the OW
  - Nov 24 Chump Lady Video!
  - Nov 22 Dear Chump Lady, Am I looking at this the wrong way?
  - Nov 21 Dear Chump Lady, My dad is a narcissist
  - Nov 20 Designated Server Doom!
  - Nov 19 Dear Chump Lady, My sister blames me for my husband’s affair
  - Nov 18 Best Chump Retorts?
  - Nov 16 Esther Perel Should STFU
  - Nov 15 And the Cake Winners Are…
  - Nov 14 Sugar Babies Saving Marriages?
  - Nov 13 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t want to spend the holidays with my cheating ex
  - Nov 12 Talk Cake to Me
  - Nov 11 But I Always Come Back to You
  - Nov 10 Dear Chump Lady, What do you think of spontaneous “confessions”?
  - Nov 9 Buy an Orphan a Book or Some Sparkly Shoes
  - Nov 8 Dear Chump Lady, My wife had an affair with her therapist
  - Nov 7 Dear Chump Lady, Am I an insensitive jerk because my husband wants to date?
  - Nov 6 Life Post-Cheater — What Did You Change?
  - Nov 5 The Cure for Cheating — Plastic Surgery? WTF?
  - Nov 4 Blame a Chump, Save a Unicorn
  - Nov 3 Dear Chump Lady, Do you think my married boyfriend loves me?
  - Nov 2 Christie Brinkley vindicated?
  - Nov 2 And the winner is….!
- October 2014
  - Oct 31 Cheater Halloween Contest!
  - Oct 30 Dear Chump Lady, Santa isn’t visiting his crappy apartment
  - Oct 29 Dear Chump Lady, Why Does He Keep Changing His Mind?
  - Oct 28 What Would You Do If You Got This Letter?
  - Oct 27 Still Tweaking the Site, Bear with Me
  - Oct 26 Dear Chump Lady, He fooled me, he fooled my daughter
  - Oct 25 Dean McDermott “I’m Not the First Person to Ever Cheat”
  - Oct 23 Dear Chump Lady, Why does he want to remain friends?
  - Oct 22 Bear With the Site Wigginess
  - Oct 22 Eat, Pray, Forgive? WTF?
  - Oct 21 Trickle Truth, It’s Neither Trickle Nor Truth
  - Oct 19 Dear Chump Lady, My dad is cheating on his girlfriend
  - Oct 18 Dear Chump Lady, I’m working with the OW
  - Oct 17 There’s Going to Be Some Changes Around Here…
  - Oct 16 Dear Chump Lady, He “can’t remember”
  - Oct 15 Dear Chump Lady, Is “True Tori” a Good Thing?
  - Oct 14 Dear Chump Lady, I cheated on my husband
  - Oct 13 Worst Infidelity Advice Ever
  - Oct 11 Dear Chump Lady, Why does my pink hair make me feel better?
  - Oct 10 Season 2 of True Tori… Why?
  - Oct 9 Are There Circumstances When an Affair Is Not Immoral?
  - Oct 7 How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist
  - Oct 6 Don’t Send It. Three Reasons Why.
  - Oct 6 Spackle & Spackle Associates
  - Oct 5 Dear Chump Lady, Am I selfish for wanting a divorce?
  - Oct 3 The Benevolent OW
  - Oct 2 Chump Kids
  - Oct 1 Dear Chump Lady, How badly will this screw up my kids?
- September 2014
  - Sep 29 The Ones Who Just Leave
  - Sep 28 Dear Chump Lady, He started cheating the first month we dated
  - Sep 26 Debunking “Monogamish”
  - Sep 25 Happy Birthday Chump Lady
  - Sep 24 Dear Chump Lady, The OW calls me for advice!
  - Sep 23 There’s No Excuse for Cheating… But Here Are 7 Reasons Why It’s Your Fault
  - Sep 22 Dear Chump Lady, I wish I was strong like you guys
  - Sep 20 Even Honey Boo Boo’s Mom Can Leave a Cheater
  - Sep 19 Dear Chump Lady, I was okay… until he got a new boyfriend
  - Sep 18 So What Do You Call Them?
  - Sep 17 Dear Chump Lady, The OW signs my child support checks
  - Sep 16 Dear Chump Lady, She’s having an affair with her boss
  - Sep 15 Dreadful Cheater Holidays
  - Sep 13 Poor Mark Sanford
  - Sep 12 Don’t Need It That Bad
  - Sep 11 Who Was Your Infidelity Angel?
  - Sep 10 Dear Chump Lady, How did you experience the stages of grief?
  - Sep 9 Dear Chump Lady, Am I “bitter” if I tell people she cheated?
  - Sep 8 Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?
  - Sep 6 Dear Chump Lady, I’m trying to divorce in India. What should I do?
  - Sep 5 Chump Lady Gets a Letter
  - Sep 4 Dear Chump Lady, Who gets the friends?
  - Sep 3 50 Shades of Subtle Nuance
  - Sep 1 The Mindfuck Channel Only Has Three Stations
  - Sep 1 Dear Chump Lady, Should I divorce his cheating, Mormon ass?
- August 2014
  - Aug 30 Dear Chump Lady, My fiancé is friends with a nest of cheaters
  - Aug 29 Dear Chump Lady, Got close to meh, and then… boom.
  - Aug 28 Dear Chump Lady, I’m meeting his bitch-ass lawyer
  - Aug 27 Create Some Fake Credentials for Chump Lady!
  - Aug 26 Meaningless Flings and the Myth of the Good Cheater
  - Aug 25 It’s not an affair! It’s an act of “exuberant defiance.”
  - Aug 23 Mistress Greeting Cards… Really.
  - Aug 22 They’re Not “Wayward”
  - Aug 21 Confessions of a Better Sort of Cheater
  - Aug 20 Dear Chump Lady, Did you take the drugs? Did they help?
  - Aug 19 Dear Chump Lady, Is a “morality clause” insane?
  - Aug 18 This Monogamist’s Take on Orgies
  - Aug 16 Cheater Word Salad
  - Aug 15 Dear Chump Lady, She wants to apologize for cheating on me
  - Aug 13 Dear Chump Lady, Where’s the Karma?
  - Aug 13 Dear Chump Lady, Is sex addiction a myth?
  - Aug 11 Why Is No Contact So Hard?
  - Aug 10 A Public Service Announcement for Chumps?
  - Aug 8 A Serial Cheater’s Relationship “Advice”
  - Aug 7 Dear Chump Lady, What can I do about her smear campaign?
  - Aug 6 Chump Lady Answers Her Search Term Questions
  - Aug 5 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get through today?
  - Aug 4 Cheaters Are Timid Forest Creatures
  - Aug 2 Dear Chump Lady, I want the satisfaction of a confrontation
- July 2014
  - Jul 31 Time for More MIGHTINESS
  - Jul 30 Why Did Daddy Leave Us? Because Daddy Is an Asshole
  - Jul 29 Dear Chump Lady, Why did he come back if only to hurt me?
  - Jul 28 Fairy Dust Forgiveness
  - Jul 27 Forgiveness Troll Says Take a Survey
  - Jul 25 An Imperfect Beginning?
  - Jul 23 Dear Chump Lady, The hope still gets me
  - Jul 22 And the Bitch Cookie Goes to…!
  - Jul 21 Better the Devil You Know?
  - Jul 19 Dear Chump Lady, He never told his adult kids their mom cheated
  - Jul 17 Dear Chump Lady, He’d have never met her — if I’d only been better?
  - Jul 16 Beware Jesus Cheaters… There’s a New Blog in Town
  - Jul 15 Making Character Cool?
  - Jul 14 When Your Cheater Is a Sicko
  - Jul 13 Dear Chump Lady, Is there any way back from an emotional affair?
  - Jul 11 The Kindle Version of the CL Survival Guide to Infidelity is Available
  - Jul 11 Dear Chump Lady, Am I divorcing too soon?
  - Jul 11 Dr. George Simon Interviews Chump Lady
  - Jul 10 If You Thought I Was That Sort of Person, You Shouldn’t Be With Me
  - Jul 9 Dear Chump Lady, My husband was using prostitutes
  - Jul 8 Dear Chump Lady, My cheater wants to live in my basement
  - Jul 6 The Pretzel Logic of the 180
  - Jul 5 Trapped in a Cabin with Tori
  - Jul 4 Happy Independence Day! Let Reason Be Your Oracle
  - Jul 2 What Gift Do You Give a Cheater?
  - Jul 1 Dear Chump Lady, I have to paternity check my kids
- June 2014
  - Jun 29 Reconciliation — What did you try? What did you buy?
  - Jun 29 Dear Chump Lady, I’m dating a ‘cheater apologist’
  - Jun 28 Chump Nation Number One!
  - Jun 27 The Chump Cloak of Invisibility
  - Jun 27 Ta-DA! It’s for sale!
  - Jun 26 Dear Chump Lady, What kind of person DOES this?
  - Jun 25 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over my envy?
  - Jun 24 The Fog Comes Softly on Little Cheater Feet
  - Jun 23 My Cheater Is an Eagle Scout
  - Jun 22 Dear Chump Lady, He wants an open marriage
  - Jun 20 Yes I Am a Chump
  - Jun 18 Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband and my father are both cheaters
  - Jun 17 Real Love. The Antidote to Douchieness.
  - Jun 17 Woe! “Marriage is a bed sheet that can never be straightened.”
  - Jun 16 The “School of Life” Can Bite Me. Part 1
  - Jun 15 Who Did You Become While Married to a Cheater?
  - Jun 13 Dear Chump Lady, Abandoned while pregnant, should he pay support?
  - Jun 12 Joseph’s Letter? Return to Sender
  - Jun 11 Dear Chump Lady, Reconciling from his emotional affair is not working
  - Jun 10 Men Cheat Because They Love Us? WTF?
  - Jun 9 Problem, Adult Solution, Cheater Solution
  - Jun 8 Dear Chump Lady, I suspect an affair
  - Jun 6 The Exceedingly Un-special Tori Spelling
  - Jun 5 Men Cheat Because Women ‘Feminize’ Them… Says Idiot
  - Jun 4 Did the Tree of Karma Fall on Your Cheater?
  - Jun 3 Dear Chump Lady, He doesn’t want me, so why hold up the divorce?
  - Jun 2 Why Do We Over Share?
- May 2014
  - May 31 Over Sharing and Chumpdom
  - May 30 When Tattooing His Penis Just Isn’t Enough
  - May 29 Owning Your Chumpiness
  - May 28 Dear Chump Lady, Should I trust him again?
  - May 26 Cheaters, You’re Not Entitled to Reconciliation
  - May 25 A Different Kind of Memorial Day
  - May 24 Potty Mouth Day
  - May 23 Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain stop?
  - May 22 When Splendid People Cheat
  - May 21 “How Affairs Make My Marriage Stronger”
  - May 20 Dear Chump Lady, Are these red flags?
  - May 18 How Do You Trust Again?
  - May 17 I Don’t Feel the Need to Give It Away
  - May 16 How Did You Find Out?
  - May 15 When You’re the Parent in the Relationship
  - May 14 Why Women Cheat?
  - May 13 Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t she give up?
  - May 12 Dear Chump Lady, Why am I stuck?
  - May 11 Happy Mother’s Day!
  - May 10 Dear Chump Lady, What’s your take on religious OW?
  - May 9 Soul Blazing and Navel Gazing
  - May 9 And the Golden Sleeping Bag Goes to…
  - May 8 Imitation is the highest form of flattery…
  - May 8 And the Cheater Affliction Award Goes to…
  - May 7 Shame! It’s Like an Icepick through Your Head!
  - May 6 All the Good Ones Are Gone
  - May 4 Dear Chump Lady, How do you get out of limbo?
  - May 3 Dear Chump Lady, Why do I think my marriage still has a shot… when it doesn’t?
  - May 2 What Are You Taking Back?
  - May 1 Dear Chump Lady, Should I take back Sparkles the Magnificent Personality-Changing Dry-Drunk Unicorn?
- April 2014
  - Apr 30 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to tolerate the OM around my kids?
  - Apr 29 Nice vs. Kind
  - Apr 28 Dear Chump Lady, Is it wrong to have feelings for my friend’s wife?
  - Apr 27 Dear Chump Lady, Is every cheater mentally ill?
  - Apr 24 Dear Chump Lady, Sympathy for the OW?
  - Apr 23 Lillias White Will Cure What Ails You
  - Apr 23 Cyberstalking, Bullies, and Censorship
  - Apr 22 Dear Chump Lady, My kids have never met the OW
  - Apr 20 When Unicorns Meet Ashley Madison…
  - Apr 19 Bitter Bunnies for Easter…
  - Apr 18 The Forgiveness Trolls
  - Apr 18 Dear Chump Lady, I wish I’d filed
  - Apr 17 Translating Other Woman-ese
  - Apr 16 So Sad When Cheater Loves Goes Bad
  - Apr 15 Stupidest Blameshifting You Got?
  - Apr 14 Why You Can’t “Nice” People Out of Affairs
  - Apr 13 Dear Chump Lady, The OW is cyberstalking me
  - Apr 12 Dear Chump Lady, Is he a cheater?
  - Apr 11 Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t know the OW ratted him out
  - Apr 10 Apologize to Your Cheating Husband, Says Quack
  - Apr 9 Whore My Blog Around Please
  - Apr 9 “You Create Your Own Pain.” Yeah, right…
  - Apr 8 Jesus Cheaters in the News
  - Apr 7 Translating Cheater-ese
  - Apr 6 Chump-to-Chump Get Togethers, Anyone?
  - Apr 4 Dear Chump Lady, I need to hear her say she was wrong
  - Apr 3 Dear Chump Lady, So what does a good relationship look like?
  - Apr 2 ‘Chump Son’ Passes Away
  - Apr 2 Good Shrink, Bad Shrink
  - Apr 1 Sing Like a Bird?
- March 2014
  - Mar 31 Dear Chump Lady, I’m jealous of the OW
  - Mar 30 Dear Chump Lady, I have cancer. But the OW “suffers.”
  - Mar 29 How Did You Get Unstuck?
  - Mar 28 Dear Chump Lady, Do I get revenge through the media?
  - Mar 27 Gwyneth Paltrow Can Bite Me
  - Mar 26 Dear Chump Lady, Son wants me to be friends with my ex
  - Mar 25 Dear Chump Lady, I still want to call him
  - Mar 24 Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep them from picking me?
  - Mar 23 Dear Chump Lady, He says my insecurity made him cheat
  - Mar 22 Prayers Needed for Chump Son
  - Mar 21 Dear Chump Lady, Maybe I was a bad wife?
  - Mar 20 Cheap Shit Cheaters Do
  - Mar 19 “But He’s Really A Nice Guy”
  - Mar 18 Cosmic Signs You’re a Chump
  - Mar 17 Dear Chump Lady, I feel guilty for divorcing her
  - Mar 15 Dear Chump Lady, I discovered my boyfriend was a cheater after he died
  - Mar 14 Some Language on Language
  - Mar 13 Visiting Unicorns
  - Mar 12 Dear Chump Lady, I think my story is unique…
  - Mar 10 Dear Chump Lady, Unicorns are real
  - Mar 9 Dear Chump Lady, I’m afraid I’m going to grow old alone with cats
  - Mar 7 You Might Be a Chump If…
  - Mar 6 The Hail Mary Play for Kibbles
  - Mar 5 Dear Chump Lady, He left to go “find himself”
  - Mar 4 Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW and I’m pregnant
  - Mar 3 Please Don’t Ask Ms. Vicki
  - Mar 2 Dear Chump Lady, How do I ever trust again?
  - Mar 1 Dear Chump Lady, Should I reach out to his ex-wife?
- February 2014
- January 2014
  - Jan 31 The Second Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Contest
  - Jan 30 Dear Chump Lady, Please explain the paralysis
  - Jan 29 Dear Chump Lady, My ex gave me an STD
  - Jan 28 A New Interview with Dr. George Simon
  - Jan 28 Narcissist Dads
  - Jan 27 Narkles
  - Jan 26 Dear Chump Lady, What did I do to make her leave me?
  - Jan 24 Dear Chump Lady, How do I survive day to day?
  - Jan 24 Chump Lady’s Conspiracy Theory on Divorce Shame
  - Jan 23 Dear Chump Lady, I’m confused, well sorta
  - Jan 22 A Word about Reconciliation
  - Jan 22 Dear Chump Lady, I’m just the dog sitter
  - Jan 21 The Affliction of Being Single
  - Jan 20 Dear Chump Lady, I’m not a lesbian
  - Jan 19 Why I Can’t Care About Philandering French Presidents
  - Jan 18 Dear Chump Lady, My son keeps confronting his cheating father
  - Jan 17 Dear Chump Lady, He’s threatening me with defamation of character
  - Jan 16 FaceBook Is Not Helping You Move On
  - Jan 14 Tell Me How You’re Mighty
  - Jan 14 Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump in the making
  - Jan 13 Escape Tips
  - Jan 12 Dear Chump Lady, How do I forgive myself?
  - Jan 10 Going No Contact. And Staying No Contact.
  - Jan 9 Dear Chump Lady, She’s a cake eater. And gay.
  - Jan 8 Dear Chump Lady, Is the OW a Dominatrix?
  - Jan 7 When Cheaters Give Infidelity Advice
  - Jan 5 Dear Chump Lady, I made a fool out of myself
  - Jan 3 Dear Chump Lady, He says the cheating had ‘nothing to do with me’
  - Jan 1 Get Over It
2013
- December 2013
  - Dec 31 Dear Chump Lady, Is he a decent man with a series of unfortunate events?
  - Dec 30 Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with the folks who believe the disordered person?
  - Dec 28 Dear Chump Lady, I don’t want to be a bitter misogynist, but…
  - Dec 26 How to Quit Things
  - Dec 21 On the First Day of Christmas My Cheater Freak Gave to Me…
  - Dec 20 Dear Chump Lady, He has a problem with women… but he’s working on it
  - Dec 19 Dear Chump Lady, What do I do with the presents?
  - Dec 18 I Demand an Apology
  - Dec 17 Reconsider Me? No, Please Don’t
  - Dec 16 Where Did Chump Lady Come From?
  - Dec 15 Dear Chump Lady, I’m so mad at myself
  - Dec 13 Dear Chump Lady, Is there a middle path?
  - Dec 12 Dear Chump Lady, How do I make it through the holidays?
  - Dec 11 Freak of the Week
  - Dec 10 Naming It
  - Dec 9 Dear Chump Lady, It’s my D-Day Anniversary
  - Dec 9 Dear Chump Lady, Am I a chump for believing they were “just friends”?
  - Dec 7 When Good People Have Affairs — a Smackdown
  - Dec 6 Don’t Hate. It’s Bad Strategy.
  - Dec 5 Dear Chump Lady, Sex after divorce?
  - Dec 4 Dear Chump Lady, I’m not finding peace
  - Dec 3 A ‘Trust That They Suck’ Refresher Course
  - Dec 2 Dear Chump Lady, Explain “poofing”
- November 2013
  - Nov 30 Dear Chump Lady, Is it okay to fuck with his head?
  - Nov 29 Dear Chump Lady, Should I confront him about his emotional affair?
  - Nov 28 Happy Thanksgiving!
  - Nov 27 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope
  - Nov 26 Dear Chump Lady, Bye Bye Cheater
  - Nov 25 Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW. Do I give his wife the details?
  - Nov 24 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the Other Woman?
  - Nov 22 A Better Class of Cheater?
  - Nov 21 Grieving the Affair Partner… And Other Indignities
  - Nov 20 Dear Chump Lady, I feel like a sell out
  - Nov 19 Dear Chump Lady, She knew cheating was a deal breaker…
  - Nov 18 What NOT to Say to a Friend Who’s Been Cheated on
  - Nov 17 Dear Chump Lady, Gifts for my cheating ex from the kids?
  - Nov 15 I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You
  - Nov 14 Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters feel the need to punish?
  - Nov 13 Dear Chump Lady, Is there a deeper reason behind cheating?
  - Nov 12 The Holiday Season and Chumpdom
  - Nov 11 Dear Chump Lady, Hysterical bonding… WTF?!
  - Nov 10 Dear Chump Lady, When does it get better?
  - Nov 8 Cheater Stories
  - Nov 7 Enough with the Divorce Shame
  - Nov 6 The “Upside” of Infidelity
  - Nov 5 Dear Chump Lady, I never exposed his affair
  - Nov 3 Dear Chump Lady, I know exactly what to do. I can’t seem to do it.
  - Nov 2 Lost Unicorn
  - Nov 2 Dear Chump Lady, Do I tell his wife I was cheating with her husband?
  - Nov 1 She’s a Home Wrecker
- October 2013
  - Oct 31 Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone get it?
  - Oct 30 Why? Why? Why? Closure!
  - Oct 29 What Is This ‘Meh’ You Speak of?
  - Oct 28 Dear Chump Lady, Should I give him another chance?
  - Oct 26 Chump Dating Questionnaire
  - Oct 25 Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in romantic love?
  - Oct 24 Spiffy new site improvements…
  - Oct 24 This Is What You Missed, You Idiot
  - Oct 23 Dear Chump Lady, Is it possible to be too meh?
  - Oct 22 Dear Chump Lady, Did I do a bad thing?
  - Oct 21 Situational Truth
  - Oct 19 A Million Hits!
  - Oct 18 In Praise of Good Men
  - Oct 17 Dear Chump Lady, How can I trust my cheater again?
  - Oct 15 7 Reasons I Don’t Accept Rielle Hunter’s Apology
  - Oct 15 Dear Chump Lady, What do I say?
  - Oct 14 A Polyamorist Speaks Out
  - Oct 14 Five Life Lessons from New Orleans
  - Oct 10 Rock Throwers vs.Tiffany Glass Windows
  - Oct 10 Dear Chump Lady, Did you have a defining moment?
  - Oct 9 Monogamy Is Not the Problem
  - Oct 7 It Takes Three?
  - Oct 7 Standing on Lies
  - Oct 5 Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for a new chump?
  - Oct 3 Dear Chump Lady, Can “meh” exist for a unicorn?
  - Oct 3 Dear Chump Lady, Am I guilty of splitting too?
  - Oct 2 Love, the All-Purpose Spackle
  - Oct 1 Dear Chump Lady, I’m ready to date. Now what?
- September 2013
  - Sep 29 How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?
  - Sep 27 Dear Chump Lady, My friend is an OW
  - Sep 27 And the winner of the Meh mug is…
  - Sep 26 Dear Chump Lady, Why does it feel like he’s better than me?
  - Sep 25 A Message of Hope from a Fellow Chump
  - Sep 24 Cheating Is a Lot Like Obesity? WTF?
  - Sep 23 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t leave the cake eater
  - Sep 22 Dear Chump Lady, OW gives my kid ‘Grand Theft Auto’
  - Sep 20 Best Curses Contest
  - Sep 19 Dear Chump Lady, What do you tell a 2-year old?
  - Sep 18 Dear Chump Lady, But He’s Such a Nice Guy!
  - Sep 17 Divorce Party, What Do You Think?
  - Sep 16 Dear Chump Lady, Should I tell his wife?
  - Sep 13 What’s the Stupidest Lie You Bought?
  - Sep 12 Early Wing Nut Warning Signs
  - Sep 11 Dear Chump Lady, No one seems to know we’ve broken up
  - Sep 10 Dear Chump Lady, Should I push for full custody?
  - Sep 9 How to Escape a Narcissist
  - Sep 7 Dear Chump Lady, Should I hold out for more money?
  - Sep 6 And the winner of the Meh mug is….
  - Sep 5 Dear Chump Lady, When can I tell my in-laws the truth?
  - Sep 3 So What Have You Done for YOU Lately?
  - Sep 1 Your Best Resentments
- August 2013
  - Aug 31 Dear Chump Lady, May I sext?
  - Aug 30 Technology and Cheating
  - Aug 29 Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just a “game”
  - Aug 28 Oops, I Slept With Your Boyfriend
  - Aug 27 Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop comparing myself with the OW?
  - Aug 26 Dear Chump Lady, How can I keep the homewrecker away from my kids?
  - Aug 25 The ‘Anti-Cheating Ring’
  - Aug 24 Dear Chump Lady, Can you cheat a cheater?
  - Aug 23 Dear Chump Lady, Can I date yet?
  - Aug 22 Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband is on Match.com
  - Aug 21 We Both Love You
  - Aug 20 Hurt People Hurt People and Other Bullshit
  - Aug 19 Dear Chump Lady, I can’t meet him halfway…. literally
  - Aug 17 Dear Chump Lady, The AP wants my friends
  - Aug 16 The Futility of Confronting Affair Partners
  - Aug 16 Chump Lady Has Computer Woes
  - Aug 14 Dear Chump Lady, I Live in Limbo
  - Aug 13 Dear Chump Lady, He wants to be FRIENDS?
  - Aug 12 Dear Chump Lady, The OW is Chinese
  - Aug 11 Don’t Be a Chump, Be a Hell Raiser
  - Aug 9 Dear Chump Lady, Are they all this way?
  - Aug 7 Narcissists Be Crazy!
  - Aug 7 A comment on the comments
  - Aug 6 Dear Chump Lady, Should I give him time to change?
  - Aug 5 Cheaters and Misogyny/Misandry
  - Aug 4 Remedial Chumpdom
  - Aug 3 A Chump’s Cautionary Tale
  - Aug 2 Dear Chump Lady, My cheating wife is a SAHM
- July 2013
  - Jul 31 An Inspiring Chump Letter
  - Jul 30 Weiner Word Salad
  - Jul 30 Dear Chump Lady, I’m second guessing myself
  - Jul 29 The Unending Punishment of Breeding with a Fucktard
  - Jul 29 Dear Chump Lady, I want to rescue my friend
  - Jul 28 Dear Chump Lady, A home security system? WTF?
  - Jul 26 Dear Chump Lady, I’m trapped financially
  - Jul 26 Oh hey! I know that mindfuck!
  - Jul 25 Dear Chump Lady, What’s an exit affair?
  - Jul 23 A Letter to Huma
  - Jul 23 Dear Chump Lady, Should we call cheaters out?
  - Jul 22 On second thought
  - Jul 21 Dear Chump Lady, What do I say to my cheater?
  - Jul 19 Reconciliation and Entitlement
  - Jul 18 Dear Chump Lady, I’m obsessed with the other woman
  - Jul 17 Dear Chump Lady, My wife won’t go to counseling
  - Jul 16 Dear Chump Lady, Parental alienation and teenagers?
  - Jul 15 Dear Chump Lady, Help me get my bad ass back
  - Jul 14 Dear Chump Lady, Got any happy stories?
  - Jul 12 Real Remorse? Or Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse?
  - Jul 11 Musings on Giving a Shit
  - Jul 10 Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in affair fog?
  - Jul 9 Chump Lady Asks a Favor
  - Jul 7 Dear Chump Lady, He coulda been a contender
  - Jul 7 A Master Mindfucker
  - Jul 5 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to co-parent with a man-child?
  - Jul 4 Dear Chump Lady, Do I tell what she’s done?
  - Jul 3 Close Encounters of the Affair Partner Kind
  - Jul 2 Dear Chump Lady, My mom is friends with my cheating ex
  - Jul 1 You Are Not the Boss of Me
- June 2013
  - Jun 29 Dear Chump Lady, He won’t move out
  - Jun 28 The Doctor Is a Quack!
  - Jun 27 Dear Chump Lady, The OW means nothing to him. The OW means everything to him.
  - Jun 26 Dear Chump Lady, Sex with the STBX?
  - Jun 25 Don’t Be Bitter
  - Jun 24 Got a Revenge Story?
  - Jun 23 Your Beautiful, Beautiful Brokenness
  - Jun 20 Warning Signals
  - Jun 19 The Fear That They’re Going to Be Better for Someone Else
  - Jun 18 Kissing Your Abuser
  - Jun 18 Three Marriages, One Name Change
  - Jun 17 Dear Chump Lady, Please decode the cake
  - Jun 15 Dear Chump Lady, Happy Father’s Day. Or else.
  - Jun 13 Dear Chump Lady, Where’s my Meh?
  - Jun 11 Write a Dating Profile for Your Ex
  - Jun 10 Dear Chump Lady, She cheated 49 days into our marriage. WTF?
  - Jun 9 Psychotic Individualism and the Amish
  - Jun 7 Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my mom to leave my cheater dad?
  - Jun 6 The Flip Side of Resilience
  - Jun 4 ‘Kids Are Resilient!’ and Other Things Cheaters Should Never Say
  - Jun 3 Dear Chump Lady, Is No Contact the Only Way?
- May 2013
  - May 31 How to Go No Contact
  - May 30 Why Is No Contact So Hard?
  - May 28 Kick Fear in the Ass and Laugh at Its Haircut
  - May 24 What Do We See in Narcissists Anyway?
  - May 22 The Unlikelihood of Immediate Remorse
  - May 21 Stupid Shit Pat Robertson Says
  - May 20 Dear Chump Lady, The dreaded unicorns are trying to pull me back
  - May 17 Are All Cheaters Created Equal?
  - May 15 How To Leave a Scary Person
  - May 14 A Public Service Announcement for Chumps
  - May 13 Dear Chump Lady, How do I know what kind of person he is?
  - May 13 Asshole Songs!
  - May 10 This Mother’s Day? Take a Single Mom to Brunch
  - May 9 Dear Chump Lady, Now she forgets?
  - May 8 Other Women and the Universal Sisterhood
  - May 7 Escaping Monsters
  - May 7 Types of Affair Partners
  - May 5 New TV Series “Mistresses”
  - May 4 Stupid Shit the Affair Partner Says
  - May 3 Dear Chump Lady, He was my *best friend* — Now what?
  - May 2 When Cheaters Forgive Themselves
  - May 1 Stay Married to a Cheater… by Law
- April 2013
  - Apr 30 Brushes with Sociopaths
  - Apr 29 More Inspiration Monday
  - Apr 28 Some Inspiration!
  - Apr 26 Sex Addiction Is a “Blessing”
  - Apr 25 Dear Chump Lady, *Now* he wants to be an involved parent? WTF?
  - Apr 24 Showcase a Narcissist! Mark Sanford
  - Apr 23 Dear Chump Lady, Are there cheaters who left no clues?
  - Apr 22 Stupid Shit I Thought About Infidelity Until It Happened to Me
  - Apr 21 Dear Chump Lady, Are all chumps created equal?
  - Apr 19 Happy Anniversary ChumpLady.com!
  - Apr 18 Dear Chump Lady, What do I tell my 3-year old?
  - Apr 17 A Good Day for Love
  - Apr 17 Stupid Shit Other People Say
  - Apr 16 Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t he admit it?
  - Apr 15 We Out Number You
  - Apr 15 Being Thankful for Your Cheater
  - Apr 13 Dear Chump Lady, How do open up again emotionally?
  - Apr 12 Rethinking Infidelity
  - Apr 11 Chump Bait
  - Apr 10 Sure Doesn’t Look Like Love…
  - Apr 9 Dear Chump Lady, Is “Meh” forgiveness?
  - Apr 7 The Compassion Trap
  - Apr 5 Dear Chump Lady, Complicated love rhombus…
  - Apr 3 Divorcing the Disordered — An Interview with Dr. George Simon
  - Apr 1 Cheating on the Pregnant, and Other Acts of Abandonment
- March 2013
  - Mar 30 Dear Chump Lady, How come he waited 20 years to blow up my life?
  - Mar 28 Dear Chump Lady, What if they never really had sex?
  - Mar 28 Get a Life
  - Mar 27 Dear Chump Lady, Is the sexless marriage a myth?
  - Mar 26 Carolyn Hax Gives Dreadful Infidelity Advice… Again
  - Mar 25 Dear Chump Lady, Why blame the chump?
  - Mar 23 Grieving the Affair Partner, Don’t Make Any Decisions! and Other Nonsense
  - Mar 22 Introducing — Chump Chat!
  - Mar 21 Dear Chump Lady, Does he really love the OW?
  - Mar 20 Dear Chump Lady, What do I do about the RAGE?
  - Mar 19 Dear Chump Lady, Am I an asshole for wanting to leave?
  - Mar 18 Kids and the Affair Partner(s). The Unavoidable Shit Sandwich.
  - Mar 15 Dear Chump Lady, How come I don’t feel like a success story?
  - Mar 12 When Narcissists Get Chumped
  - Mar 12 Ugly Artifact Discovered in Innocent Shed
  - Mar 11 The Last Good Deed of Ed Murphy
  - Mar 9 Dear Chump Lady, Explain this guy…
  - Mar 7 Living with Uncertainty
  - Mar 6 Dear Chump Lady, How long must I be paranoid?
  - Mar 6 Chump Lady Gets Hip to Social Media
  - Mar 5 Dear Chump Lady, Is She Just a Fuck Up?
  - Mar 4 Don’t Reason with a Narcissist
  - Mar 3 Boundaries. Does anyone have them?
  - Mar 1 Dear Chump Lady, Not everyone who reconciles is pathetic
- February 2013
  - Feb 28 Infidelity *Is* Abuse
  - Feb 27 Dear Chump Lady, My cheater promises to live like a “dog in a cage”
  - Feb 26 Dear Chump Lady, What about the one-time cheater?
  - Feb 25 Dear Chump Lady, I’m angry at the people who knew
  - Feb 23 Dear Chump Lady, Any perspective for the other person?
  - Feb 22 Dear Chump Lady, How do I get past approval seeking?
  - Feb 21 Stupid Cheater Moments
  - Feb 20 Republican Senator Kept Son Secret for 35 Years… WTF Cheaters…
  - Feb 20 Dear Chump Lady, Please catalog icky cheater lyrics
  - Feb 19 More craptacular advice, Part 2
  - Feb 18 The very bad, no good infidelity advice you should reject… spit on… then set alight… and stomp on
  - Feb 17 Dear Chump Lady, I am jealous!
  - Feb 15 Homewrecker and Proud?
  - Feb 14 And the winners are….
  - Feb 14 Happy Valentine’s Day!
  - Feb 13 Dear Chump Lady, Why be friends with cheaters?
  - Feb 12 The Futility of ‘Affair-Proofing’
  - Feb 11 Need some tunes to get you through?
  - Feb 10 Dear Chump Lady, He’s been two-timing me… and her
  - Feb 8 Bill + Shelley
  - Feb 7 Infidelity Valentine’s Contest
  - Feb 7 If You’re Really Sorry, Cheaters? Let Me Help You
  - Feb 6 One Hell of a Work Ethic
  - Feb 5 Dear Chump Lady, I’m afraid to tell him I want a divorce
  - Feb 4 Part Four, Not Everything Is Pathological
  - Feb 3 Don’t Throw Stones at Tiffany Glass Windows
  - Feb 1 Dear Chump Lady, Arrrgh! No Contact!
- January 2013
  - Jan 31 Part Three, Your Mother Was Right
  - Jan 30 Part Two, When They Look Good on Paper
  - Jan 29 Don’t Get Chumped Again, Part One
  - Jan 28 A Reminder About the Chump Lady Manifesto
  - Jan 26 Nugget O’ Insight
  - Jan 25 Dear Chump Lady, What do I tell the kids?
  - Jan 24 Got Anger?
  - Jan 22 The Canard That Cheaters Have Low Self Esteem
  - Jan 22 Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to co-parent with the OW?
  - Jan 21 Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for the spineless?
  - Jan 19 Lance, A Cheater’s Cheater
  - Jan 18 Dear Chump Lady, Why are cheaters so brazen?
  - Jan 16 Owning Your Chumpiness
  - Jan 15 Dear Chump Lady, How do you define cheating?
  - Jan 13 Healing from Infidelity as Competitive Sport
  - Jan 13 Dear Chump Lady, Should I go after child support?
  - Jan 11 Dear Chump Lady, The OW wants to “be me”
  - Jan 10 A New Monogamy?
  - Jan 10 Shameless merchandising comes to Chump Lady
  - Jan 9 A letter from a child of a cheater — Don’t stay together
  - Jan 8 Dear Chump Lady, What’s inside the mind of the OW?
  - Jan 7 Financial Infidelity
  - Jan 6 Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters cry? And why do we fall for it?
  - Jan 4 The Forgiveness Imperative
  - Jan 4 Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cake eater?
  - Jan 3 Dear Chump Lady, How long do I wait this out?
  - Jan 2 On Saying “Fuck”
  - Jan 1 Dear Chump Lady, Do I tell his parents he is a cheater?
2012
- December 2012
  - Dec 31 Dear Chump Lady, In our bed? WTF?
  - Dec 29 You Could Be Friends!
  - Dec 27 Dear Chump Lady, What part of her withering assessment of me should I own?
  - Dec 26 When the Holidays Suck
  - Dec 23 Dear Chump Lady, When does it stop hurting?
  - Dec 22 Dear Chump Lady, More on how I got chumped as an OW…
  - Dec 20 Was Gonna Come Around… Really
  - Dec 19 Dear Chump Lady, How could I have avoided being the OW?
  - Dec 18 Trust That They Suck
  - Dec 16 A moment out from our regularly scheduled programming…
  - Dec 16 Near Beginnings
  - Dec 14 The “B” Word
  - Dec 13 When the Cheater Has a Personal Epiphany
  - Dec 12 Do It for the Children
  - Dec 10 Dear Chump Lady, I’m sending myself an apology
  - Dec 7 Dear Chump Lady, What else can I do?
  - Dec 6 A Spectrum of Chumps
  - Dec 4 And Then the Cage Comes Down!
  - Dec 2 The Psychopath Test
  - Dec 1 Very Evolved People Who Stay Friends
- November 2012
  - Nov 30 “Chump Chat” anyone?
  - Nov 29 My Useless Masters Degree in African History Explains Infidelity
  - Nov 27 Dear Chump Lady, Revenge is a bad idea, right?
  - Nov 26 Chump Lady FAQ
  - Nov 23 Cheating and High Fructose Corn Syrup
  - Nov 22 Things I’m Thankful for After Infidelity
  - Nov 19 Deconstructing Frumpiness
  - Nov 16 Dear Chump Lady, Please decode this
  - Nov 15 A Public Service Announcement to Remorseless Cheaters
  - Nov 13 Thank You Hater!
  - Nov 11 Dear Chump Lady, I’m still having sex with my STBX. What gives?
  - Nov 10 Batshit Crazy OW Brings Down CIA Director
  - Nov 9 Cheating in the Age of Technology
  - Nov 7 Trust in the Good Times
  - Nov 6 I Am Not a “Hippy Chick”
  - Nov 5 Unpredictable Love
  - Nov 3 Bridges of Bullshit
  - Nov 2 The Power of Spackle
- October 2012
  - Oct 31 Situational Truths
  - Oct 30 Surely You Must Have Known
  - Oct 28 Dear Chump Lady, Is following your heart ever justified?
  - Oct 27 Dear Chump Lady, I still love the stupid fuck. Help.
  - Oct 26 But what if the BS truly sucks?
  - Oct 19 “We Grew Apart”
  - Oct 18 Sux in the City
  - Oct 18 A Dinesh of a Mess
  - Oct 16 Dear Chump Lady, To Tell or Not to Tell
  - Oct 15 Dear Chump Lady, My boyfriend had an EA
  - Oct 12 They’re Not “Wayward”
  - Oct 10 Marriage Counseling Quackery
  - Oct 9 A Reluctant Cheerleader for Divorce
  - Oct 3 Arnold Being Arnold
  - Oct 2 Who’s Your Friend?
  - Oct 1 Chump Lady Appears on Huffington Post Live
- September 2012
  - Sep 28 “I, Cake Eater”
  - Sep 26 Cheater Word Salad
  - Sep 25 Happy Birthday Chump Lady
  - Sep 24 Do You Have to Forgive a Cheater?
  - Sep 23 Soft Vengeance
  - Sep 21 How to Get Revenge on a Cheater
  - Sep 20 Dear Chump Lady, What do you think about revenge affairs?
  - Sep 18 Tinker, Tailor, Soldier… Oh just forget it
  - Sep 17 “The Walls in Your House Sing Again”
  - Sep 14 Dear Chump Lady, What if my cheating wife comes back?
  - Sep 13 Hate On Me, Hater
  - Sep 10 Dear Chump Lady, How do I set boundaries with my kids about my ex?
  - Sep 8 More Good Cheating Songs
  - Sep 7 Dear Chump Lady, Should I waste any more time in limbo?
  - Sep 4 It’s All Very Complicated… You Wouldn’t Understand
  - Sep 2 Dear Chump Lady, Is Sex Addiction a Myth?
  - Sep 1 Sorry Is As Sorry Does
- August 2012
  - Aug 31 “Not the Only Fool In Town”
  - Aug 30 “It Wasn’t About You”
  - Aug 27 Dear Chump Lady, I’m the Other Man…
  - Aug 24 Dear Chump Lady, How Do I Move On?
  - Aug 20 Dear Chump Lady, Can I Keep the OW Away from My Kids?
  - Aug 8 How to Get Over a Broken Heart… Go to New Orleans
  - Aug 2 Dear Chump Lady, But I Took a VOW…
  - Aug 1 Dear Abby Kicks Infidelity Ass
- July 2012
  - Jul 29 The Trap of the False Equivalency
  - Jul 27 Dear Chump Lady, As a unicorn, I am offended
  - Jul 25 Five Things That Keep You Stuck With a Cheater
  - Jul 19 Dear Chump Lady, Why are you a hater?
  - Jul 16 The Mid-Life Crisis Made Me Do It. Really?
  - Jul 12 Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters get married?
- June 2012
- May 2012
  - May 31 An open letter to Dan Savage
  - May 30 Dear Chump Lady, He’s worried about his girlfriend, WTF?
  - May 30 How to Leave a Cheater
  - May 28 Dear Chump Lady, She says she’s sorry…
  - May 28 Dear Chump Lady, Is she prettier?
  - May 22 I just discovered I was cheated on. Now what?
  - May 22 What NOT to do
  - May 3 A Spectrum of Cheaters
- April 2012
  - Apr 28 Ego Kibbles
  - Apr 23 The Humiliating Dance of ‘Pick Me’!
  - Apr 19 The Unified Theory of Cake

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