It’s not your imagination that chumps are portrayed as bitter, controlling and deserve to be cheated on. Anyone catch last Sunday’s Carolyn Hax column pillorying a woman …
Dear Chump Lady, When I was in the middle of severe trauma after D-Day, I was filled with so much rage I didn’t know what …
Well, I don’t feel like doing much writing today, CN. I heard the news Friday, got in my car and drove an hour into DC …
Dear Chump Lady, I know that meh is the prize at the end of the rainbow for us chumps, but what if you’re not the …
So, you all woke up to the news that actor Will Smith walloped comedian Chris Rock for making a joke about Jada Pinkett-Smith’s hair? The …
Hey Chump Lady, Thank you so much for your site. Once I found it and discovered that I had my own agency and that my …
Dear Chump Lady, Hi. I’m hoping you’ll be able to provide some guidance because my therapist is at a loss. My husband cheated, we’ve been …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband walked in on Christmas Eve to break the news that he had fallen out of love with me and was …
Hi Chump Lady, I’m 2.5 years out from D-Day (3-year affair with his assistant), divorce final a month ago, 20 year marriage, 2 great kids, …
Dear Chump Lady, Please help me sort through this mess. Help me get angry! My husband and I were together for 6 years and married …
Dear Chump Lady, It seems if people aren’t on the Esther Perel train when it comes to their relationship ideologies, they talk about the Gottman’s. …
There must be a bazillion “How To Tell If He/She’s Cheating” articles on the interwebs. You know, the usual — new cologne, sudden penchant for …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband walked in on Christmas Eve to break the news that he had fallen out of love with me and was …
Hi Chump Lady, So I chucked out my ex after D-Day 2 a couple of months ago (although D-Day 1 was technically affairs…. I also …
Chump Lady is feeling a little stabby lately. This is what comes from following the news cycle. I won’t get into it. I try to …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop being so angry at my cheating ex? I get flashes of it and it makes me tired. He’s …
Dear Chump Lady, During my shock of learning and trying to understand why he cheated on me, when I thought we had a great relationship …
Dear Chump Lady, After a year of being told lies about an affair I finally found the truth on the laptop. So he’s 50 and …
We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater …
If you’re a woman, you’ve probably had a stranger tell you to smile. I remember the first time it happened to me, I was 19 …