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Tell Me How You’re Mighty

January 14, 2014 by Chump Lady

  This post idea came to me from Ghana. I got an email from a wonderful chump there who wrote to say she reads the blog. In telling me her story, she related that her D-Day happened just as she was taking her bar exams to be a lawyer. She said it in passing, as […]

Filed Under: Best of Inspire Me, Uplifting stories

Get Over It

January 1, 2014 by Chump Lady

Get over it. The three words chumps hate to hear. “Get over it” says your remorseless cheater after a half-assed attempt at reconciliation. “Get over it” says the friend who cannot conceive of your pain, and wishes you would just go back to your pleasant, ignorant self again. “Get over it” says your boss, because […]

Filed Under: Best of Inspire Me, Uplifting stories

Standing on Lies

October 7, 2013 by Chump Lady

deception

Thank you Dr. Anna Fels! I urge every chump to read yesterday’s opinion piece in the New York Times “Great Betrayals” by Dr. Fels. It’s the rare article on infidelity that recognizes the traumatic injury of deception — especially the sort we encounter here at Chump Lady — making sense of the double life. Fels […]

Filed Under: Best of Inspire Me, Deception, Uplifting stories

“The Walls in Your House Sing Again”

September 17, 2012 by Chump Lady

This is a true story submitted to Chump Lady by her Aunt J. Ladies and Gentlemen (because men have cheating wives), life does get better after you get through the horrors of a cheating spouse. My second husband and I both had cheating first spouses though our stories are not exactly similar. My first husband […]

Filed Under: Best of Inspire Me, Better on the other side, Uplifting stories

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