Category: Character disorder

Dr. George Simon Interviews Chump Lady

Hi guys, just a notice to let you know this Sunday I will be appearing on Dr. Simon’s podcast show Character Matters. I’ll be discussing …

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Dear Chump Lady, I have to paternity check my kids

Dear Chump Lady, I am military. I have deployed 3 times in the past 5 years. During this time I have been married and I have 2 …

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My Cheater Is an Eagle Scout

Any frauds out there? Cheaters lead double lives, we know this. But some wing nuts, I’ve noticed, take hypocrisy to new levels. The Jesus cheaters …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is every cheater mentally ill?

Dear Chump Lady, I have a question: In my case there is no question; the soon ex is a megalomaniac, socio-psycho-pathic compulsive liar. He lacks …

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Cyberstalking, Bullies, and Censorship

Hi chumps, I’ve had a bit of a problem here lately with cyberbullies. I’m not talking about trolls, although of course, they’re delightful too. I’m …

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Translating Cheater-ese

Some days I like to fire up the ol’ Universal Bullshit Translator I keep here at Chump Headquarters. So often the crap cheaters feed us …

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“But He’s Really A Nice Guy”

I’d probably make a terrible lawyer. It’s not that I don’t like to argue (clearly, I do… at least on the page.) It’s that I …

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A New Interview with Dr. George Simon

The original has just been posted over at Huffington Post here. If you would all do me the favor of lavishing social media upon it, …

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Situational Truth

Stephen Colbert coined the awesome word “truthiness” — when referring to politicians who spin their own versions of reality. They seem so sure of themselves, …

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Dear Chump Lady, Am I guilty of splitting too?

Dear Chump Lady, This letter was spurred by your post about Love, The All Purpose Spackle. My problem is kind of the opposite. I’ve been …

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How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?

Dear Chump Lady, Although he fits the readings, although the therapists tell you he is a narcissist, you don’t quite believe it. It isn’t quite …

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Dear Chump Lady, My friend is an OW

Dear Chump Lady: I first heard about your blog through a very close friend. Let’s call her “OWX3.” She is married and miserable. Has been, …

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Dear Chump Lady, Why does it feel like he’s better than me?

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve written enough about my story, so you know my ex is a cheater, narcissist, nut job and creep of the highest …

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A Master Mindfucker

Charles Saatchi is in the news again. He’s the millionaire art collector who was seen publicly fighting with his wife, celebrity chef Nigella Lawson — …

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Divorcing the Disordered — An Interview with Dr. George Simon

From an upcoming article for HuffPo Divorce… Many of us might be inclined to describe our exes as “crazy.” After all, divorce doesn’t normally bring …

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Infidelity *Is* Abuse

And a big hairy pox on those who think otherwise. Yes, the unicorns are at it again. Leading the sparkly unicorn brigade on HuffPo today …

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Nugget O’ Insight

Reading all the Stupid Shit Cheaters Say submissions (and huge apologies, I’m so back logged on my cartooning, but I’m getting to it, promise) — …

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Dear Chump Lady, Why are cheaters so brazen?

Dear Chumplady, Why are cheaters so brazen? Lori Dear Lori Because we are such chumps. Really, can you imagine anyone cheating on Vladimir Putin? Couldn’t …

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Dear Chump Lady, Why do cheaters get married?

Dear Chump Lady, Why do serial cheaters get married? I really don’t understand this. I’ve been married four years and recently found out that my …

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An interview with Dr. George Simon on “Character Disturbance”

Chump Lady is very honored to interview Dr. George Simon, author of “In Sheep’s Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People” and his new book …

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