Category: Children and infidelity

Ex Thinks They Must Have a ‘Relationship’ for Their Daughter

Hi Chump Lady, Stress chump here. So for anyone who doesn’t know my story – I’m in the Armed Forces and my wife of 6 …

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meh

The Kids Are Killing My Meh

Dear Chump Lady, I swear I would be at meh if not for my adult kids. Please help; I need advice (and I thank you …

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broken heart

How to Help a Chumped Parent?

Dear Chump Lady, I would be truly grateful for some advice here and don’t know where else to turn. I have always known my father …

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broken heart

The Other Man Wants to Come to Mom’s Funeral

Dear Chump Lady, My mother died suddenly last Friday. I’d started grieving her when out of the blue this bloke called her phone and asked …

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meh

How Do I Set Boundaries with My Kids About My Ex?

Dear Chump Lady, My cheating ex-wife avoids me. We don’t speak on the phone. And she does not go to events with our kids if …

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Cool, Bummer, Wow

Dear Chump Lady, Please help! I do not know how to navigate this entire divorce mess with my two teenage daughters. My youngest sees her …

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bitter

Lawyer Thinks She Has an Anger Issue

Hello Chump Lady, My D-day was October 2019, I found you early and you have helped me keep sane. I have three children. At D-Day …

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ego kibbles

Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for Christmas

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 4 years now after going through an ugly divorce complete with 2 years of doing the pick …

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When Your Kids Believe the Lies

Dear Chump Lady, What can you say to your adult children to make them understand that the gaslighting, lying, cheating, stealing, abusive break up and …

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broken heart

‘I Can’t Talk to My Kids About Their Father’

Dear Chump Lady, I am having a problem. I was chumped 5 years ago this month. I am in a good place now, remarried, etc. …

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UBT: Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better Mother

Who’s ready for another personal testimonial to the wonders of cheating? It brightens! It whitens! It dices! It slices! And it’s good for stubborn stains. …

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UBT: ‘My Dad Sucks’

How children feel about their cheating parents is a topic the Universal Bullshit Translator has rightly shied away from. My standard advice to chumps here …

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Infidelity, Divorce, Kids — How Did You Navigate It?

Hi Chump Lady, I wish I would have found your site a decade ago.. alas spilled milk… I’m in a 19 year marriage to a …

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baby

UBT: A Letter from the “Baby”

Dear Chump Lady, I have one that I would LOVE to go through the Universal Bullshit Translator. As a chump I so want to believe he is truly …

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Ex-MIL Thinks I Should Get Along with OW for My Son’s Sake

Dear Chump Lady, I have unresolved in-law issues it seems, and can’t make sense of how I react to them more than my ex-husband and …

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Jesus cheaters

He Says I’m “UnChristian” for Divorcing Him

Dear Chump Lady – I’m 6.5 months since D-day and filed for divorce 2.5 months ago. My daughters are 17 and 20. The 20 year-old …

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‘Why Does My Ex Want to Be Friends?’

Dear Chump Lady, Can you please tell me why cheaters so badly want to remain friends? A little background information — my ex-husband and I …

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Husband Cheated. Mother Disappointed in ‘Us’

Dear Chump Lady, I am about to embark on a separation, which most of the time I feel is leading to divorce (I live in …

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Spending Holidays with Your Ex ‘For The Children’

Chump Lady, Can you do a post about having to spend holidays with the ex or not see your kids? I’m in another chat room …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep the OW away from my kids?

Dear Chump Lady, I tried to take the high road regarding my cheating ex-husband having my kids around the OW (who he had a long-term …

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