Category: Children and infidelity

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The Perils of Flunking No Contact

There’s nothing sadder than watching a chump pick up the hopium habit again. I can sit here on the sidelines and frantically wave my arms …

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Dear Chump Lady, He wants to move to New Zealand

Dear Chump Lady, We’ve been separated almost 10 months. He has a girlfriend and is still seeing her, as far as I know. He is …

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How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist

Once upon a time I got a call for a post on how to co-parent with a narcissist. So, here’s your article. If I were …

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Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone ever love me with stretchmarks?

Dear Chump Lady, I am two weeks post partum. I was left by my husband when I was 6 months pregnant. He had been cheating …

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Dear Chump Lady, I miss being a full-time parent

Hello Chump Lady, So I live in a part of the country that never snows. My ex and and his soon-to-be Ho-Wife took my kids …

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Dear Chump Lady, The cheater wants to take family photos

Dear Chump Lady, We have a newborn. He left and filed divorce when I was 5 months pregnant after I caught him on a hook-up …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with my cheater dad?

Dear Chump Lady, I am a college student who watched her parent’s marriage implode four years ago due to my father’s infidelity. My mom, without …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to be friendly with my ex?

Hi Chump Lady, My question is about whether I’m supposed to be friendly to my cheating ex-husband when around the children (14-year-old twin girls). We …

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Dear Chump Lady, He exults in my parenting “mistakes”

Dear Chump Lady, Here is where I am at —overall, happy. I managed to get my divorce finally finalized more than a year ago. I …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do I stay for the kids?

Dear Chump Lady, He says he doesn’t want to lose his family, that he’ll do whatever it takes. This is the second time he’s been …

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Dear Chump Lady, He brought his girlfriend and I lost my meh

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve done a ton of work on myself, I’m slowly reaching meh, and I’m practising no contact as much as is possible …

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Dear Chump Lady, The court wants me to say she is a “good parent.” I can’t.

Dear Chump Lady, I’m coming to the end of things with a divorce hearing shortly, on money and children matters next month. As part of …

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Kids and Affair Partner(s). The Unavoidable Shit Sandwich.

How do I protect my kids from my spouse’s affair partner(s)? How do I shield my kids deal from this new blended family that’s been …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m afraid he’ll turn the kids against me

Dear Chump Lady, My covert good guy narc is killing me with his fake “I’m an awesome person and an awesome dad” act. Mine never …

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Dear Chump Lady, Am I responsible for the kids’ relationship with their dad?

Dear Chump Lady, Help me understand, am I responsible to repair the relationship my children (17 yrs., 21 yrs. and 22 yrs.) have with their …

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Dear Chump Lady, My husband says the children should not be told of his affair

Hi Chump Lady, I am in the midst of the hurt, pain, and sorrow of my husband having had an affair (with his secretary 12 …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I co-parent with an addict?

Hi Chump Lady, I was wondering if you have any advice for women who’ve endured the triple whammy of their marriages being blown apart by …

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Dear Chump Lady, Should my cheater be in the delivery room?

Dear Chump Lady, My ex cheated on me throughout the entire duration of our relationship, including through my pregnancy and the birth of our first …

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Cool. Bummer. Wow.

Dear Chump Lady, Please help! I do not know how to navigate this entire divorce mess with my two teenage daughters. My youngest sees her …

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Dear Chump Lady, Just divorced and my ex is introducing her affair partner to the kids

Dear Chump Lady, Here is my situation. I’m 6 months divorced from my wife of 15 years. We have 4 kids, ages 5,7,9, and 11 …

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