Dear ChumpLady, My wife of 10 years, a stay at home mom (SAHM), developed chemistry with the father of my son’s buddy from school in …
If you’ve had the misfortune of breeding with a fucktard, you know that this misery just keeps paying dividends. You may successfully remove yourself from …
Dear Chump Lady, Married 16 years to what appeared to be a nice women. Three kids in the process. Marriage was not great all the …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m having a hard time with the concept of co-parenting and “what’s best for the children”. My STBX (would have been 21 …
Dear Chump Lady, I am new to your blog, and I can’t tell you how happy I am to have found it. I have been …
Dear Chump Lady, I only discovered your site a few days ago and you have made me feel SO MUCH BETTER about what I’m going …
While it’s not okay for cheaters to rely on the resilience of children and chumps — it is okay IMO for chumps to find comfort …
Here’s a familiar scenario: A chump, distraught over impending divorce, will worry about the kids. Invariably, the cheater blithely says, “Oh, don’t worry about the …
I have removed this letter at the request of the original poster. But have left the advice intact. For the record — do NOT send …
Dear Chump Lady, My ex-wife (married for 7 years, together for 10 total) was a stay-at-home mom to our 3-year old daughter, and I discovered …
I was reading Modern Love in the Sunday New York Times yesterday (one of life’s great pleasures). It was a story about a women in …
How do I protect my kids from my spouse’s affair partner(s)? How do I shield my kids deal from this new blended family that’s been …
Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for almost 17 years, together for 21 years. The first time I caught him cheating it was all …
Hi Chump Lady, In my local newspaper is an advice column called “Ex Etiquette.” The only thing this column inspires me to think is “what …
I got this letter sent to me after my last Huffington Post essay. Posting it to get your thoughts and provoke discussion. I did write …
Oh how I loathe articles about how divorce hurts children! And not only because they frequently use “impact” as a verb. And are full of …
Dear Chump Lady, My cheating ex-wife avoids me. We don’t speak on the phone. And she does not go to events with our kids if …
Dear Chump Lady, I tried to take the high road regarding my cheating ex-husband having my kids around the OW (who he had a long-term …
