Chumps Decoded

Signs Your Body Sensed You Were Being Cheated On?

June 30, 2023June 29, 2023

Untangling the Skein

May 11, 2023May 10, 2023

Trust That They Suck

May 2, 2023May 2, 2023

I’m Angry At Myself For Not Leaving Sooner

March 9, 2023March 9, 2023

‘Why Do I Miss Him?’

June 29, 2022

How Do I Stop Feeling Guilty?

December 20, 2021

Undervaluing Your Accomplishments

October 29, 2021

This Is Your Brain on Hopium

October 4, 2021October 2, 2021

Reframe It

June 24, 2021

You Might Be a Chump If…

March 19, 2021

Red Flags You Overlooked?

October 9, 2020October 9, 2020

The LGBTQ+ Chump Perspective

June 17, 2020

‘Other Chumps Infuriate Me’

April 13, 2020

Stupid Shit I Thought About Infidelity Until It Happened to Me

September 24, 2019September 24, 2019

Chump Lady Gets a Check

September 14, 2019September 14, 2019

Dear Chump Lady, I’m angry with myself for not leaving sooner

August 29, 2019

Devastating Writing on Making Your Needs Small

July 24, 2019July 24, 2019

When Men Are Cheated On

July 22, 2019July 22, 2019

The Silent Chumps

July 17, 2019

Dear Chump Lady, Am I the toxic one?

May 1, 2019May 1, 2019

Dear Chump Lady, How do I forgive myself?

April 10, 2019April 10, 2019

How Do I Fix My Picker?

January 31, 2019January 30, 2019

Join the International Academy for the Advancement of Chump Studies

December 27, 2018

You Might Be a Chump If..

December 7, 2018December 7, 2018

Dear Chump Lady, Why does he want to stay ‘friends’?

November 20, 2018

Dear Chump Lady, I drunk dialed

November 12, 2018

Owning Your Chumpiness

September 27, 2018September 23, 2018

Why blame the chump?

August 15, 2018

“Closure,” Don’t Do It.

August 8, 2018August 8, 2018

Nice vs. Kind

August 7, 2018

Entitlement Reinforcement

July 24, 2018

The Fear They’re Going to Be Better for Somebody Else

February 19, 2018February 19, 2018

Poor Nigel

February 5, 2018February 5, 2018

You might be a chump if…

October 2, 2017October 1, 2017

Who You Thought You Were, Who You Really Are

September 8, 2017September 8, 2017

Dear Chump Lady, Why blame the chump?

May 23, 2017May 23, 2017

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve got a problem with self-worth

May 10, 2017

5 Things That Keep You Stuck with a Cheater

May 3, 2017

Dear Chump Lady, Why am I thinking “If only…”?

March 13, 2017

Being the Marriage Police

July 12, 2016July 12, 2016

But I Love Her (Him)

June 27, 2016

UBT: “My husband has stopped cheating on me after 35 years.”

February 22, 2016February 22, 2016