Category: Chumps Decoded

A Spectrum of Chumps

Just like there is a spectrum of cheaters, there is a spectrum of chumps. Those chumps for whom a shit sandwich is a new and …

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Unpredictable Love

Did anyone see this last Sunday’s New York Times piece “I Heart Unpredictable Love“? It’s this really interesting little essay on how the brain likes …

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The Power of Spackle

Do you ever wonder now what you ever saw in your cheater? Once they lit the moon, and now you’re mortified to recall your life …

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But what if the BS truly sucks?

It’s been interesting to read the comments on my article on Huffington Post recently. It’s pretty easy to hate cheaters and I find I have …

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Tinker, Tailor, Soldier… Oh just forget it

Chump Lady was recently approached by a nice man Trevor, who sent a complimentary email introducing himself and his website, thinking we had much in …

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Five Things That Keep You Stuck With a Cheater

Are you on the fence about leaving a cheater? Is this not their first rodeo? Here are some common traps that keep you stuck with …

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Untangling the Skein

Veronica Sawyer: Heather, why can’t you just be a friend? Why do you have to be such a mega-bitch? Heather Duke: Because I can be. …

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