Category: Co-Parenting with a FW
Lawyer Thinks She Has an Anger Issue
Hello Chump Lady, My D-day was October 2019, I found you early and you have helped me keep sane. I have three children. At D-Day …
Why Does He Ignore My Co-Parenting Questions?
Dear Chump Lady, Unfortunately, I have to text my Cheater every couple of days regarding logistics with our son, and divorce issues. What’s up with …
STBX Wants to Come Over for the Holidays
Dear Chump Lady, I am seven months post d-day, which occurred about two days after my husband moved out to live with OW. For the …
‘He Brought His Girlfriend And I Lost My Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve done a ton of work on myself, I’m slowly reaching meh, and I’m practicing no contact as much as is possible …
‘I Can’t Talk to My Kids About Their Father’
Dear Chump Lady, I am having a problem. I was chumped 5 years ago this month. I am in a good place now, remarried, etc. …
UBT: You Will Use This to Illustrate Your Holiness
Hi Chump Lady, Could you translate this email that the ex sent me? We have been in the process of getting divorced for 5 years …
The Kid Calls the Felon OW ‘Mama’
Dear Chump Lady, I am divorced from a shitbag who decided to have an affair with a married coworker. Yes, I know, I should have …
When Is It Okay to Tell Someone STOP?
Hi Chump Lady! The question I have for you is, when is it okay to tell someone to stop with their hurtful behavior and when …
UBT: Let’s Put Aside ‘Our Differences’ for These Special Times in Our Kids’ Lives
Dear Chump Lady, Here is a very topical subject dealing with Covid, Kids, and Warped Reality. I’ve been Chumped 2x by my Soon To Be …
‘My No Contact Stinks’
Dear Chump Lady, My no contact stinks. You have discussed no contact in your book and on your website. Many of the CN regulars speak …
‘I Lost My Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I thought I was really close to meh, until I had a tough day with kids, and then ran into my XH …
Do I Have to Be Friendly With My Ex?
Hi Chump Lady, My question is about whether I’m supposed to be friendly to my cheating ex-husband when around the children (14-year-old twin girls). We …
Coronavirus and Co-Parenting with Fuckwits
Hello Chump Lady, I was married for 17 years, together 19. Left him in 2015, divorced 2016. I lived with him in a very remote …
Ex-MIL Thinks I Should Get Along with OW for My Son’s Sake
Dear Chump Lady, I have unresolved in-law issues it seems, and can’t make sense of how I react to them more than my ex-husband and …
‘Why Does My Ex Want to Be Friends?’
Dear Chump Lady, Can you please tell me why cheaters so badly want to remain friends? A little background information — my ex-husband and I …
UBT Responds to Ex Dictating Where Kids Can Open Presents
Dear Chump Lady, My ex, after a year and a half, thinks that we should still be buying joint gifts for the kids, and signing …
‘I Feel Guilty for Leaving Him’
Dear Chump Lady, I discovered in September 2018 that my husband of 3 years (together a total of 13 years) had been having a 2-year …
Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to organize their video chat?
Dear Chump Lady, Some backstory before I dive into my current issue: My ex-husband (as of July) told me he wanted to separate in January …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I protect my son’s heart?
Dear Chump Lady, My D-day was over 3 years ago now and the divorce has been final for over a year. I have taken your …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep the OW away from my kids?
Dear Chump Lady, I tried to take the high road regarding my cheating ex-husband having my kids around the OW (who he had a long-term …
