Category: Dating

‘How Come All My Boyfriends Suck?’

Dear Chump Lady, I was married to my husband for six years. When our youngest was six months old I caught him cheating with his …

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cyclops lonely

Fix Your Picker Tips

Hey, it’s Friday and maybe you have a date this weekend. Or a bad rash just thinking about dating. Or maybe there’s still a cheater …

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Am I Going to Get Over This?

Hello Chump Lady, My name is Kimmy. I just came across your “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life“ book and I am absolutely in love …

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Serial cheater

He Cheated on Her Daughter. She Spackled.

Dear Chump Lady, I thought I was going crazy until I read your site about how cheaters think and how much they will lie and …

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Chumped by Dating, Still Heartbroken

Hello Chump Lady, I have a pretty straight forward situation. I was dating a man for about 8 months. I thought it was hands down …

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Feeling Too Available

Dear Chump Lady, I wish there were a few more posts about how to go about dating again. My recent experience was with a man …

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stitched heart

Sex After Divorce?

Hi Chump Lady, I’m pushing almost three years out now from the bomb my ex dropped on our marriage and by all accounts I am …

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stitched heart

Dear Chump Lady, I have a young bitter heart

Hi Chump Lady, I am new here, however, I am not new to chumpdom. I am a young chump (just turned 30) and am going …

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bitter bunny

Bitter Bunny Dating?

Okay, as promised, the Fun Friday dating profile challenge. Part of gaining a life is considering the sort of life you want. Which chumps don’t …

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cyclops lonely

Dear Chump Lady, Where are all the single, available men?

Dear Chump Lady, Please throw some light on the very stormy waters of the dating world out there. The last page of your book encourages …

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Rejection man

Dear Chump Lady, I can’t get my ex’s voice out of my head

Hi Chump Lady, I am heading toward the end of the divorce process for leaving my cheater. Overall things are progressing rather well for me. …

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sadz

When your ‘match’ is a married motivational speaker

Friend of this blog, and interior design blogger superstar herself, Laurel Bern, recently sent me a funny account of her dating travails. Sick and tired …

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The ‘Bitch Be Crazy’ Red Flag

Here’s a situation I’ve encountered many times among dating friends. Friend will swoon with excitement over new man in her life. Man is divorced. Being …

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How Do I Fix My Picker?

Dear Chump Lady, I have a question for the New Year — as we’re all thinking about new beginnings. It’s a simple question but I’m …

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Don’t Date This Person

Don’t you wish cheaters came with forehead stamps? Abandon Hope All Ye Who Date Me! Kibble Whore. Flaming Freak. But no. We’re left to our …

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cyclops lonely

Dear Chump Lady, I drunk dialed

Dear Chump Lady, I was in a six-year relationship with a compulsive liar, so I have really appreciated your articles. We broke up last year. …

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monkey love

How Do I Fix My Picker?

Dear Chump Lady, Do you have any advice on how to fix a broken picker? I’m nowhere near ready to date yet. Not even close. …

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mask

How did you spackle over the incompatibility?

After infidelity, I’m rather skeptical of the old adage “opposites attract.” I’d advise just the opposite really — find someone in your own values tribe. …

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broken heart

Dear Chump Lady, He says I’m not “the one”

Dear Chump Lady, I was dating a guy for a few months and he called me yesterday and said after a lot of praying that …

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planet narcissist

Dear Chump Lady, My ex-wife has some weird requests

Dear Chump Lady, It has been 4 years since we divorced. I found out she was on a dating site. She confessed she was dating …

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