Category: Dating
Dear Chump Lady, I feel like I’m too available
Dear Chump Lady, I wish there were a few more posts about how to go about dating again. My recent experience was with a man …
Dear Chump Lady, Are these red flags?
Hi Chump Lady, I made some chumpy errors in my separation, but generally got it right; consistent with your philosophy. I found Chump Lady about 15 …
Dear Chump Lady, Where are all the single available men?
Dear Chump Lady, Please throw some light on the very stormy waters of the dating world out there. The last page of your book encourages …
Don’t Date This Person
Don’t you wish cheaters came with forehead stamps? Abandon Hope All Ye Who Date Me! Kibble Whore. Flaming Freak. But no. We’re left to our …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I fix my picker?
Dear Chump Lady, I have a question for the New Year — as we’re all thinking about new beginnings. It’s a simple question but I’m …
Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to date for dull to find decent?
Dear Chump Lady I am wondering if it’s normal to get totally depressed by the dating jungle? It’s been 18 months now since I kicked …
Welcome to the Dating Jungle
Today’s guest post is again by Luziana. It’s crazy, isn’t it? Here you sit with your broken picker wishing for adult connection, still aghast that …
How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Not Fall in Love with the Bomb
While I’m taking a break, I’m featuring some of Chump Nation’s best commentators. Today’s guest post on post-chump life dating is by Luziana. Enjoy! — …
Dear Chump Lady, How come my boyfriends suck?
Dear Chump Lady, I was married to my husband for six years. When our youngest was six months old I caught him cheating with his …
Dear Chump Lady, Do I just like drama?
Dear Chump Lady, I contacted you back in September of last year when I had just discovered my ex-boyfriend from a year ago had found …
Dear Chump Lady, I wish I didn’t care
Dear Chump Lady, I thank you for your blog it gives me some comfort. I am not sure I can claim to be “cheated on” …
Dear Chump Lady, He started cheating the first month we dated
Dear Chump Lady, I Google’ed “I have been cheated on, now what?” and I came across your blog. We have been dating for roughly 6 …
Dear Chump Lady, My fiancé is friends with a nest of cheaters
Dear Chump Lady, I found your blog recently and have been reading all about ego kibbles and cake and chumps, because of a fucked up …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m dating a ‘cheater apologist’
Hi Chump Lady, I’m very confused whether I should keep dating my boyfriend or not. He’s still in mid-20s and very close to his mom. I’m in …
Dear Chump Lady, Are these red flags?
Dear Chump Lady, My question is to see if I’m about to get involved with a user and would be interested in what your experienced …
How Do You Trust Again?
After our epic thread on Friday about how we all found out we were chumps, several folks asked for a post on trusting again. To …
Why Women Cheat?
Anyone see this on HuffPo? Why do women cheat? A new survey from Victoria Milan — a dating site for married people seeking affairs — …
Nice vs. Kind
There was an interesting side discussion the other day on Chump Lady about the difference between niceness and kindness. Many people noted that their cheaters …
Dear Chump Lady, So what does a good relationship look like?
Dear Chump Lady, So after reading so much about dysfunctional relationships, and having lived through one for 30 years, I’m not sure I’d recognize a …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep them from picking me?
Dear Chump Lady, I’m in my early 20s, studying for a career, and have never had kids or been married. I am not bad-looking and …
