Category: Dating

Welcome to the Dating Jungle

Today’s guest post is again by Luziana. It’s crazy, isn’t it? Here you sit with your broken picker wishing for adult connection, still aghast that …

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How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Not Fall in Love with the Bomb

While I’m taking a break, I’m featuring some of Chump Nation’s best commentators. Today’s guest post on post-chump life dating is by Luziana. Enjoy! — …

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Dear Chump Lady, How come my boyfriends suck?

Dear Chump Lady, I was married to my husband for six years. When our youngest was six months old I caught him cheating with his …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do I just like drama?

Dear Chump Lady, I contacted you back in September of last year when I had just discovered my ex-boyfriend from a year ago had found …

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Dear Chump Lady, I wish I didn’t care

Dear Chump Lady, I thank you for your blog it gives me some comfort. I am not sure I can claim to be “cheated on” …

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Dear Chump Lady, He started cheating the first month we dated

Dear Chump Lady, I Google’ed “I have been cheated on, now what?” and I came across your blog. We have been dating for roughly 6 …

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Dear Chump Lady, My fiancé is friends with a nest of cheaters

Dear Chump Lady, I found your blog recently and have been reading all about ego kibbles and cake and chumps, because of a fucked up …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m dating a ‘cheater apologist’

Hi Chump Lady, I’m very confused whether I should keep dating my boyfriend or not. He’s still in mid-20s and very close to his mom. I’m in …

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Dear Chump Lady, Are these red flags?

Dear Chump Lady, My question is to see if I’m about to get involved with a user and would be interested in what your experienced …

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How Do You Trust Again?

After our epic thread on Friday about how we all found out we were chumps, several folks asked for a post on trusting again. To …

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Why Women Cheat?

Anyone see this on HuffPo? Why do women cheat? A new survey from Victoria Milan — a dating site for married people seeking affairs — …

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Nice vs. Kind

There was an interesting side discussion the other day on Chump Lady about the difference between niceness and kindness. Many people noted that their cheaters …

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Dear Chump Lady, So what does a good relationship look like?

Dear Chump Lady, So after reading so much about dysfunctional relationships, and having lived through one for 30 years, I’m not sure I’d recognize a …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep them from picking me?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m in my early 20s, studying for a career, and have never had kids or been married. I am not bad-looking and …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I ever trust again?

Dear Chump Lady, My tragicomedy of chumpdom is well-known here, so I won’t waste space rehashing it. I’m pretty far out at this point: my …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump in the making

Dear Chump Lady, First I’d like to say that I’ve found reading your website to be very helpful. I’m not actually a chump. I’m a …

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Dear Chump Lady, I made a fool out of myself

Dear Chump Lady, Thank you so much for your articles. They have been immensely useful and have given me deeper insights about relationships. I was …

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Dear Chump Lady, I don’t want to be a bitter misogynist, but…

Dear Chump Lady, Today was the 30th day since my 2.5 year long divorce nightmare ended. And, tonight I’m feeling certain that I know a …

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Dear Chump Lady, Explain “poofing”

Dear Chump Lady, I’m interested in getting your take on the phenomenon of “poofing.” I was with the same man for 11 years. Lived together …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m ready to date. Now what?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m well into the “Meh” — two years past my ex walking out on me and two kids for some schmuck she …

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