Category: Deception

Technology and Cheating

Eons ago, I studied at the London School of Economics and took a course entitled “The Ethics of War.” It was my favorite class, taught …

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Oh hey! I know that mindfuck!

I’m sorry… I’m still obsessed with Weiner gate. Yesterday the NY Post reported: Pressed for specifics, the prickly pol said, “I sought the help of …

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Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t he admit it?

Dear Chump Lady, What do you do when they will NEVER admit to the truth? Even after you have hired a Private Investigator who traced …

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Sure Doesn’t Look Like Love…

I got a letter this morning from an old college friend who found this site. Sadly, she had her own chump story to share. Her …

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Dear Chump Lady, He’s been two-timing me… and her

Dear Chump Lady, My story is a bit screwed up.  I was dating a guy a few years ago. We were taking it slow, because …

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Financial Infidelity

People who will screw around on you, will often screw you over financially as well. Are you in the dark about their affairs? You’re probably also in …

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Dear Chump Lady, In our bed? WTF?

Dear Chump Lady, I would love to hear your take on this: When my former significant other (SO) was sneaking around behind my back having …

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Situational Truths

Here’s a hallmark of the hardcore cheater — situational truth. You may ask a straightforward question like “Did you really mean it when you said …

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Cheater Word Salad

Chump Lady used to be a think tank editor in her younger days. Think tanks are those marble buildings on K St. in Washington, D.C. …

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