Dear Chump Lady, My story is a bit screwed up. I was dating a guy a few years ago. We were taking it slow, because he was divorced and I have never been in “real” serious relationship before. But we both agreed that we would be brave when we started dating. But I never listend […]
Financial Infidelity
People who will screw around on you, will often screw you over financially as well. Are you in the dark about their affairs? You’re probably also in the dark about their credit card bills, secret bank account, and P.O. boxes. The entitlement thinking that cheaters are prone to often extends to who controls the money. Even in a […]
Dear Chump Lady, In our bed? WTF?
Dear Chump Lady, I would love to hear your take on this: When my former significant other (SO) was sneaking around behind my back having her affair, she would wait until I went out of town and then invite her affair partner (AP), (from another country!), to book a flight and spend time with her […]
Situational Truths
Here’s a hallmark of the hardcore cheater — situational truth. You may ask a straightforward question like “Did you really mean it when you said you loved me on my birthday?” And the cheater will reply, “Of course I meant it!” leaving unspoken that moments after those words were uttered, they left to go screw […]
Cheater Word Salad
Chump Lady used to be a think tank editor in her younger days. Think tanks are those marble buildings on K St. in Washington, D.C. where “policymakers” work — usually people with impressive credentials and colossal egos. Think tank publishing is mostly vanity publishing and not every book was stellar. But I learned an important […]
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