Category: Divorce
Dear Chump Lady, My ex is trying to bully me into 50/50 custody
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve been divorced for over a year, but I’m still healing my chump heart. I’m relatively new to your blog, but I …
Dear Chump Lady, Why should I agree to divorce him?
Hi Chump Lady, I want to ask about divorce as it’s a new year coming and with it brings new beginnings. It’s been an enlightening …
Dear Chump Lady, What happens to couple friends after divorce?
Dear Chump Lady, I am 6 months post divorce after discovering my ex-wife’s infidelity in September 2013. This holiday season my children (12, 8) are …
Dear Chump Lady, He’s moved on. I haven’t.
Dear Chump Lady, Despite two years of separation and impending divorce, I am still angry and upset. I want to smack this asshole upside his …
Dear Chump Lady, Seeing prostitutes makes for good parenting? WTF?
Dear Chump Lady, I left my cheater husband two years ago after learning he had been having sex with prostitutes intermittently throughout our relationship (pre- …
Dear Chump Lady, I cheated on my husband
Dear Chump Lady, I stumbled upon your site while looking for help, thought you might be able to give me some useful advice and now …
Dear Chump Lady, Am I selfish for wanting a divorce?
Hi Chump Lady, My husband cheated on me for 3 months and D-day was 6 months ago. He’s a doctor and OW is a patient’s …
Dear Chump Lady, Should I divorce his cheating, Mormon ass?
Dear Chump Lady, My story began last October when my husband of 11 years had a three week affair with random online girl. I found …
Dear Chump Lady, My fiancé is friends with a nest of cheaters
Dear Chump Lady, I found your blog recently and have been reading all about ego kibbles and cake and chumps, because of a fucked up …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m meeting his bitch-ass lawyer
Dear Chump Lady, I’m going tomorrow to meet with my ex, his bitch-ass lawyer (seriously, she’s evil), my lawyer (who might be too nice), and …
Dear Chump Lady, Did you take the drugs? Did they help?
Dearest Chump Lady, I need your help. First a little background…. I found out 2.5 years ago that my husband of 32 years had a …
Dear Chump Lady, I wish I’d filed
Hi Chump Lady, So I have dealt with this mess awhile as I have health issues and an idiot alcoholic. I am finally on Prozac, …
Gwyneth Paltrow Can Bite Me
I’m sorry. I’m just not done with hating “conscious uncoupling.” On the one hand, I’m thrilled this bit of word salad is getting the snark …
Dear Chump Lady, Son wants me to be friends with my ex
Dear Chump Lady, Looking for words of wisdom from you and Chump Nation about my relationship with my son. I split custody 50-50 with ex. …
Dear Chump Lady, I feel guilty for divorcing her
Dear Chump Lady, I want to thank you for what you are doing for us betrayed partners. The many other sites I that I have …
Chump Lady’s Conspiracy Theory on Divorce Shame
So… thinking some more about this divorce shame phenomena. And I’ve concluded that most of this divorce shame comes from cheaters. Yep. Cheaters and their …
Dear Chump Lady, What do I do with the presents?
Dear Chump Lady, I recently found out that my father has been having an affair for several months. My mother knows and they are in …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I make it through the holidays?
Dear Chump Lady, I am six months out from separation. Facing holidays alone with three grade school age boys. Friends all happily married (for the …
Enough with the Divorce Shame
So, I’ve been spending some time reading the writings of the Reconciliation Industrial Complex, and it’s been pissing me off. Specifically, I’ve been checking out …
How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?
Dear Chump Lady, Although he fits the readings, although the therapists tell you he is a narcissist, you don’t quite believe it. It isn’t quite …
