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Dear Chump Lady, I come to you as perplexed and heartbroken. When you think about how many people experience this kind of betrayal, it is …
Hello Chump Lady I am really struggling to cope with the end of my marriage because my partner has been unfaithful. My wife and I …
Dear Chump Lady, My question for you and perhaps more so, Chump Nation, is when, how long does it take before the pain goes away? …
Last week I got a letter from a physician, Kimberly, who told me part of her medical practice is dealing with the newly chumped. We …
Dear Chump Lady, Three weeks ago I got a DM on Instagram from the OW telling me, my boyfriend of 2 years (and father of …
Are your powers of premonition pretty lousy? Me too. I have no idea who is going to win the election or what the stock market …
I get a lot of sad letters at Chump Lady. Letters like: “I know I should leave him. But I am in pain, I really …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m a 36-year-old military wife who found out my husband was cheating early last month (February). It began as an emotional affair …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband has been having sex with the same person since before we got married in 1995 and I never knew it. …
Add to the list of Reconciliation Industrial Complex euphemisms I despise — “trickle truth.” I’ve ranted about “wayward” before and the “fog,” but it only recently …
Dear Chump Lady, My wife and I were good friends for 5 years, dated for almost another 5 and have been married for 8 years, …
Dear Chump Lady, I need some advice on what to do with cheater’s stuff. My partner of 16 years left me and our 9-year-old for …
Dear Chump Lady: My story is similar but somewhat different from the many I have read on your site. My husband and I were high …
After you’ve been cheated on, you’d think it’s a pretty simple decision tree — reconcile or divorce. Choose divorce, it doesn’t matter if your cheater …
I reckon I’ve read tens of thousands of infidelity stories to date. Maybe hundreds of thousands. (I should crunch the numbers.) And one common recitation …
The other week someone asked me to decode, “I haven’t been happy for a long time.” (Also sometimes expressed as “WE haven’t been happy for …
I was once approached online by a nice man Trevor, who sent a complimentary email introducing himself and his website, thinking we had much in …
(No, not really. I’m just trying to mess with Google Analytics today.) Many people tell me they wish they’d found Chump Lady sooner, before their ex …
Dear Chump Lady, I found your website after all the drama and trauma of my divorce was wrapping up. Your advice and the stories of …
I recently had to research a story on the modern phenomena of losing your job because of something you posted on social media. Back in …
