Category: Early days after discovery

Dear Chump Lady, He started cheating the first month we dated

Dear Chump Lady, I Google’ed “I have been cheated on, now what?” and I came across your blog. We have been dating for roughly 6 …

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Dear Chump Lady, Where’s the Karma?

Dear Chump Lady, Well as the song goes, ‘Yesterday it was my birthday, I hung one more year on the line.’ But this year was …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I get through today?

Dear Chump Lady,  My husband and I have been together for almost 6 years, married for about 2.5. For the last 3 months, we have …

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Over Sharing and Chumpdom

Over sharing seems to be endemic to the chump experience. In your shock and trauma, you’ll dump your bucket of emotional slop on anyone standing …

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How Did You Find Out?

So, I’m curious — how did you discover you’d been cheated on? Did you wake up in bed with another woman’s thong stuck to you? …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I survive day to day?

Dear Chump Lady, I found your site by accident some months ago when I was researching articles to send to myself and my (hopefully soon …

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Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for a new chump?

Dear Chump Lady, I am a new chump. As in my wound is so raw that I don’t think I’ve entered any significant stage of …

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The Futility of Confronting Affair Partners

Here’s a common chump mistake — confronting the affair partner(s). Maybe you did this. Maybe you agonized about doing this. Maybe you’re still waiting to …

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Dear Chump Lady, What do I do about the RAGE?

Dear Chump Lady, Hi. My name is Brian, I have visited your site a few times and I have noticed that most of your readings are …

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Dear Chump Lady, What else can I do?

Dear Chump Lady, My DDay was July 3 in NYC on a family vacation. He wouldn’t give up identity…I couldn’t let it go in 4 …

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Tinker, Tailor, Soldier… Oh just forget it

Chump Lady was recently approached by a nice man Trevor, who sent a complimentary email introducing himself and his website, thinking we had much in …

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