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Galletillas de Ego

February 27, 2021 by Chump Lady

Galletillas de Ego

La infidelidad es un acto profundamente narcisista. (Por supuesto, los infieles no lo ven de esa manera. Generalmente lo ven como un acto desinteresado de liberar a alguien que esta oprimido con el vínculo de un matrimonio asexual con un imbécil…). Pero realmente la infidelidad se trata de una cosa: las galletillas de ego. Los […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, Espanol Tagged With: Galletillas de Ego, manipulación del tramposo Leave a Comment

Is He Going to Regret Choosing Her?

February 23, 2021 by Chump Lady

Ooh, pick me!

Dear Chump Lady, Once I found out my boyfriend cheated on me, I desperately searched for answers and came across your book. I tried to hang in there, but here I am 4 months later moving my stuff out. He has treated me terribly our entire relationship, between talking to other women, the lies, cheating, […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, Pick me dance Tagged With: Pick Me Dance 86 Comments

Jealous of the Other Woman

February 2, 2021 by Chump Lady

luggage

Dear Chump Lady, I am sure that my story is the same one that you have heard a hundred times, I have read versions of it on your site and others… married 9 years, together 18, one small daughter and poof! He is gone. Like emotionally gone. Except that he did not physically leave. My […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Ego kibbles, Pick me dance Tagged With: Jealous of OW, Trust That They Suck

Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for Christmas

November 24, 2020 by Chump Lady

A bag of narcissist ego chow

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 4 years now after going through an ugly divorce complete with 2 years of doing the pick me dance. We were together for 25 years with the last few years legally married (same sex marriage). My ex was having an affair and ultimately ended up moving in […]

Filed Under: Children and infidelity, Ego kibbles, No contact, Pick me dance Tagged With: Cake, No Contact, Triangulation

He Cheated… Everyone Feels Sorry for Him

July 6, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, It has been 9 months since D-Day #2 and today would have been our 9th anniversary. A few days ago my STBXH made a public social media post about his mental health — admitting contemplating suicide, being in counseling and on meds — even (and this made me sick) making a vague […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, Switzerland Friends, Telling people Tagged With: Sad sausage, Switzerland Friends

UBT: ‘My Life Is Rich and Full’…. That’s Why I’m Stalking You

May 13, 2020 by Chump Lady

A bag of narcissist ego chow

Dear Chump Lady, I got divorced several years ago, then remarried this last summer. I’m meh. Everything’s been great. I’ve been no contact for 3+ years… but then the other day my ex started following my current wife on Instagram (which she uses for her business) and she promptly sent me a screenshot. I probably […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, universal bullshit translator Tagged With: Universal Bullshit Translator

‘I Lost My Meh’

May 4, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I thought I was really close to meh, until I had a tough day with kids, and then ran into my XH and his howorker at a trailhead and ended up wishing my XH would “disappear or just go somewhere and never come back,” to his face. Worst part is that the […]

Filed Under: co-parenting with a fuckwit, Ego kibbles, Meh, No contact Tagged With: coparenting, Meh, No Contact

Coronavirus Hoovering?

April 16, 2020 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, Do you think that toxic relationships can be re-started — years later after both of you have had other partners and lived separate lives? So many of my exes are reaching out to me during this COVID time… I find it fascinating and traumatizing. What are your thoughts? Too Many Bad Options […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Hoovering, Trust That They Suck

Dear Chump Lady, He wants a character reference

September 30, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, I was married for 25+ years to a serial cheater, liar, sex addict, abuser, manipulator (yeah, he was all that and a bag of chips). I finally threw him out last summer and we were divorced last fall — best thing I ever did. We haven’t communicated much (a good thing), but […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Character reference, Trust That They Suck

How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?

August 14, 2019 by Chump Lady

Serial cheater

Dear Chump Lady, Although he fits the readings, although the therapists tell you he is a narcissist, you don’t quite believe it. It isn’t quite human. How can someone be this weird? I decided when I worked out that our “reconciliation” was actually emotional abuse, when I discovered I had descended into a bitter, hopeless, […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Ego kibbles, Narcissism, No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: divorce, Narcissist

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