Category: Emotional affair

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Can I Leave for an Emotional Affair?

Stay or go? Dear Chump Lady, I’m not sure if I belong among your chump ranks. My husband of 11 years developed an ongoing emotional …

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Is This an Emotional Affair?

Dear Chump Lady, I had been with my husband for 17 years and married 11 of those years. I found him emotionally cheating three times …

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Jealousy and ‘Just Friends’

Dear Chump Lady, My wife and I were having issues. It got incredibly bad. I found evidence of something going on. I got suspicious when …

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Is an ‘Emotional Affair’ Reason Enough to Leave?

Dear Chump Lady, Can you tell me your theory about emotional affairs? My husband had an emotional affair two years ago. It lasted a couple …

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Are ‘Emotional Friendships’ with Other Women Cheating?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m eternally grateful to my friends for directing me to your site, even though it complicates most of the advice I’ve been …

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Dear Chump Lady, I apologized to him for cheating on me

Dear Chump Lady, Like all other Chumps, I never thought I would be here. I met the love of my life when I was 18 …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cheater or a muse?

Dear Chump Lady, I am am 51 year old male who has been married to his wife for 27 years. There have been four distinct …

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Dear Chump Lady, I have a young bitter heart

Hi Chump Lady, I am new here, however, I am not new to chumpdom. I am a young chump (just turned 30) and am going …

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Dear Chump Lady, Can I leave for an emotional affair?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m not sure if I belong among your chump ranks. My husband of 11 years developed an ongoing emotional affair with a …

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Dear Chump Lady, My wife kissed a coworker

Dear Chump Lady, My wife and I were good friends for 5 years, dated for almost another 5 and have been married for 8 years, …

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Dear Chump Lady, What if there was no sex?

Hi Chump Lady, What would you do if your husband did the following behaviors in an 11 year marriage (two early elementary kids)? He says …

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Emotional Affairs, Exit Affairs, and Ghosts

Dear Chump Lady, Can I still be in the CN club? Do I still get to hate my husband as much as everyone else here …

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UBT: 7 Reasons Your Husband Left You For His Emotional Affair Partner

I think family therapist Lisa Bahar might be trolling us. I’ve read some asinine relationship listicles in my day (HuffPo I’m talking to you), but …

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Dear Chump Lady, My husband is having an emotional affair with his HS girlfriend

Dear Chump Lady, I uncovered an emotional affair my husband was having that started before we began dating. They were “the ones who got away” …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I break through to her?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m at a loss about how to proceed with my marriage. Two years ago me, my wife and two kids were prepping …

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Dear Chump Lady, “I couldn’t forgive a mistake.”

Dear Chump Lady, Can you tell me your theory about emotional affairs? My husband had an emotional affair two years ago. It lasted a couple …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is there any way back from an emotional affair?

Dear Chump Lady, Is there any way back from a 13-month-long emotional affair? My husband and our insurance agent carried on behind my back, talking, …

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Dear Chump Lady, Reconciling from his emotional affair is not working

Hi Chump Lady, We’ve been married for 8 years and we were both working parents to 2 kids. I’ve always been the breadwinner and he …

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Dear Chump Lady, Can I destroy the OW, please?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband confessed on New Years Eve to an emotional affair with a subordinate. I spent 12 months suspecting, he spent 12 …

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Dear Chump Lady, Am I a chump for believing they were “just friends”?

Dear Chump Lady, My wife finally announced to me in early September that she was in love with a long standing friend of ours. He …

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