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How to Leave a Cheater

May 30, 2012 by Chump Lady

leave a cheater

Leaving a cheater is an intimidating process. It’s not like you want to blurt out to everyone in your life, “Hey, Bob won’t quit cheating on me. Do you know a good divorce attorney?” And anyone close to you who knows, like your father, probably will not give the best advice. Mine would have preferred […]

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I just discovered I was cheated on. Now what?

May 22, 2012 by Chump Lady

Avoid feelings of paralysis

If you just discovered you’ve been cheated on, your job right now is to take very good care of yourself. You’re in shock. Most likely you either feel numb, like you’re having an out of body experience, or you feel searing emotional pain. (Sorry to say, you’re probably going to alternate between these two states […]

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What NOT to do

May 22, 2012 by Chump Lady

Muffin top

Very few people navigate this crap gracefully. Accept that you’re going to wobble and fail sometimes. It’s okay. The goal here, upon finding out that you’ve been cheated on, is to take back your power, maintain your dignity, and not do anything homicidal. 1. Do not confront your cheater until you’ve gathered evidence. Most cheaters […]

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