Category: Fog

4 Reasons Affair Fog Is Not a Thing

The Fog. The Fog, the Fog, the Fog. She is deep in the Fog. Great update, it sounds like she’s finally coming out of the …

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Debunking ‘Affair Fog’

Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …

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The Fog Comes Softly on Little Cheater Feet

I was going to write a column today, but I realized this morning I was out of milk. And that meant no oat squares for …

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not a unicorn

“I’ve changed!” — The Chump Response

I reckon I’ve read tens of thousands of infidelity stories to date. Maybe hundreds of thousands. (I should crunch the numbers.) And one common recitation …

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The Unicorn of Reconciliation

Every Piece of Crappy Reconciliation Advice You Got

Raise your hands Amazon chumps! If you’re the sort of person who responds to crisis with research, how many reconciliation books did you buy? Is “When …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in affair fog?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is Affair Fog real?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …

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Oh the Places You’ll Go!

Yesterday a discussion broke out over the Places Cheaters Go. My partner told me about all the “places” he visits as well. The dark place, …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in “Affair Fog”?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …

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Being the Marriage Police

If you didn’t leave right after D-Day, you’ve probably spent some time in chump Police Academy. You know, those dark days of “trust but verify” …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I break through to her?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m at a loss about how to proceed with my marriage. Two years ago me, my wife and two kids were prepping …

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The Fog Comes Softly on Little Cheater Feet

I was going to write a column today, but I realized this morning I was out of milk. And that meant no oat squares for …

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Hurt People Hurt People and Other Bullshit

My cousin Mike as a child was a terrible bully. All the kids in town were terrified of him. I remember in the first grade …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in affair fog?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …

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Your Beautiful, Beautiful Brokenness

Here is a particularly toxic batch of spackle I see a lot. Making a virtue out of loving the “brokenness.” Maybe it’s because I once …

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Was Gonna Come Around… Really

One of the biggest mindfucks cake eaters play is this notion that gosh, they were going to be a properly repentant spouse, but you just …

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When the Cheater Has a Personal Epiphany

Did anyone see this article on HuffPo today — “Why I Cheated on my Husband”? It’s quite a masterful mindfuck. Really, I think my ex-husband …

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They’re Not “Wayward”

May I just take a moment to say that I hate the term “Wayward”? As in “wayward spouse,” (WS) or as it is known in …

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