Cheater Tactics

The common manipulation tactics cheaters use to maintain their position of advantage over chumps.

Why Do Cheaters Accuse You of Cheating?

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Love Bombed at Work and We Still Work Together

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He Says He Cheated to Protect Me

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He’s Stuck on His ‘Intentions’

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Way to Take Down a Cheater

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When I Ask Questions About His Affairs He Says I’m ‘Abusive’

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The I-Know-What-I-Did-Was-Wrong-But-I-Did-It-Anyway Manipulation

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Cheater Deflection Tactics

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He Says It’s ‘Just Sexting’. Evidence Says Otherwise

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‘Don’t Call It Snooping’

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He Says ‘It’s Not What It Looks Like’

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Best Hoovering Attempts to Win You Back?

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The Most Self-Pitying Message from a Cheater

Read More The Most Self-Pitying Message from a Cheater
4 Reasons Why Gaslighting Works

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He Says He Cheated With Men Because He ‘Resented’ Me

Read More He Says He Cheated With Men Because He ‘Resented’ Me
He Said His Cheating Was ‘Just a Game’

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He Says He Told Me Everything About His Cheating

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Why Do Cheaters Future Fake?

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Rejected Him and Now He’s Badmouthing Me

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If I Don’t Pretend to Be Friends with Ex He Gets Ugly

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Cheating As the ‘Least Worst Option’

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I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You

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He Doesn’t Hoover, He Rages

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What Can I Do About Her Smear Campaign?

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Did Your Cheater Regift Things?

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Dr. Orion Taraban: ‘Ladies’ Thank Your Men for Not Cheating

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Don’t Judge Me

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Tired of Being Cheater’s Conspirator Friend

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Why Didn’t You Fight for Me?

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I Let My Ex Bully Me

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Why Do Abusers Isolate You?

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He Cheated for ‘Validation’?

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She Doesn’t Think She Did Anything Wrong?

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Tired of Being the Villain

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He Thinks He’s Done Nothing Wrong Cheating

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He Posted His ‘Rules of Cheating’

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I Neglected Him Sexually and He Cheated

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Pansexual Husband Wants an Open Relationship

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The Pollyanna Blameshift

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6 Reasons People Act as Affair Enablers

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He Lies About Everything

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Character Assassination: 6 Ways to React to a False Narrative

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