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Does Social Media Encourage Cheating?

February 8, 2021 by Chump Lady

mindfuck

Dear Chump Lady, First and foremost, thank you for writing Leave A Cheater, Gain a Life! It was immensely helpful, but I still can’t seem to shake the pain of what I’ve recently gone through. Although my ex and I were never married, I am a Chump who recently got dumped! Looking back, I feel […]

Filed Under: Character disorder, Dating, Deception, Gay cheating Tagged With: Fix your picker, love bombing, Narcissist, social media

When They Won’t Leave

November 6, 2020 by Chump Lady

raccoons

There is no hell like the hell of in-house separation. You’ve been a good spouse appliance. Why should those perks end? What’s for dinner? I know many of you have had the sort of cheater who flounces off after the Schoompie(s) and just goes. But others of us get the hardcore cake enthusiasts. The sort […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Gay cheating, How to leave a cheater Tagged With: cake eating

The LGBTQ+ Chump Perspective

June 17, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Your blog and book have been real lifesavers for me, and they’ve helped me both frame my own experience and describe it to others. I certainly have seen several other LGBTQ+ people who routinely comment on your posts and participate in the related discussion forums elsewhere. I, for one, appreciate that your […]

Filed Under: Chumps Decoded, Gay cheating Tagged With: LGBTQ+, Rainbow chumps

Is He Gay? A Lost Soul? A Sex Addict?

February 27, 2020 by Chump Lady

Untangling the skein of fuckupedness

Dear Chump Lady, I’m writing to you as I was forwarded your website by my therapist. I found myself in a shrink’s chair when I caught my husband out meeting a gay man he had found on Adam4Adam. My husband and I have been together for seven years, married for 2.3, separated since Valentines Day. […]

Filed Under: Gay cheating, Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: Blameshifting, Gay husband, Untangling the Skein

Dear Chump Lady, She’s a cake eater. And gay.

January 9, 2014 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, I am a lesbian and have been in a relationship with another woman since March of 2013. In June, I found out that this woman, “Sally,” is actually married and has been married since 2010. I confronted Sally about it and she told me that she married a good friend of hers […]

Filed Under: Ask Chump Lady, Cake Eating, Gay cheating

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