There’s an article over at HuffPo on how a cheater should tell their spouse they’ve been having an affair. There’s some discussion on tell versus …
One thing that surprises me about recently betrayed people (and frankly, surprised me about myself once) is how quick they are to accept a verbal …
Dear Chump Lady: I potentially have that mythical unicorn in my life. It shares its body with the original transformer that sadly still becomes my …
I think we should revisit the whole chump phenomenon of needing an apology from your cheater. It’s so galling. They broke this relationship, this family, …
Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 10 months (separated for almost two years) From my husband of 22 years. He cheated on me …
Dear Chump Lady, When asked my husband why he kept cheating, his reply was — he never thought he’d get caught. What would have been a better response? …
Given the news cycle this week, I thought it would be appropriate to have a little primer on Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse. GINR is full …
Dear Chump Lady, Why does he suck at showing remorse? I know what you’re going to say… “HE DOESN’T HAVE ANY,” and maybe that’s true, …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …
Dear Chump Lady, Long-time reader, first-time UBT submitter. I’m a gay man and was with my ex-boyfriend for about 7 years. I need some UBT …
Sorry seems to be the hardest word if you’re a cheater. Oh sure, they can say it, but for some reason they just can’t seem …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m in need of a situational bullshit translator. My story is long and ridiculous so I will do my best to give …
“What we want most is only to be held…and told…that everything (everything is a funny thing, is baby milk and Papa’s eyes, is roaring logs …
Dear Chump Lady, Please help, I feel so lost, I don’t know what to do. Earlier today I found my husband’s email open, it was …
Dear Chump Lady, I am a male chump. My marriage went to shit after my wife went through a midlife crisis empty nest menopausal revisit …
An alert chump recently sent me this dollop of crazy: “My Husband Learned the Hard Way Why Women Cheat” by Marina Pearson on HuffPo. Ostensibly, it’s …
Dear Chump Lady, Love your website and your no bullshit approach to this nightmare. I am currently an attempted unicorn, (although sometimes I feel like an ass …
Chumps, hopeful creatures that we are, are often so encouraged when their cheaters do therapy. It doesn’t matter if we had to beg, plead, consult their …
Dear Chump Lady, I just had a conversation with my sister about my cheating husband. I can’t seem to get it through her head that …
Dear Chump Lady Reading a recent Dear Chump Lady brought an old question to mind. In your article on 11/8, Thomas’s wife suddenly fessed up …