Dear Chump Lady, Why did it take two months after D-Day for my husband of 19 years to come to me crying, apologizing and saying …
Dear Chump Lady: I potentially have that mythical unicorn in my life. It shares its body with the original transformer that sadly still becomes my …
Dear Chump Lady, This past May I uncovered an affair my wife had been having for the past two years (possible longer) with her co-worker. …
I know my message — “leave a cheater, gain a life” is not popular with cheaters. I mean, duh. At times, I’m asked do I mean …
So, yesterday I got to tangling with remorseful cheaters on an infidelity board (Talk About Marriage). Someone posted my article skewering that Victoria Milan survey …
Dear Chump Lady, I have experienced infidelity three times in my life. The first time happened when I was 12, I helped kick my father …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband and I are in our 40s with two young children. This past year, he started an affair with a 25-year …
Dear Chump Lady, I found the treasure trove of emails between my husband and his old girlfriend from 20 years ago. Some were of the …
I’m sure you all were waiting. In case you missed it, Rielle Hunter apologized today for her affair with John Edwards. “I behaved badly.” As …
As anyone who reads here knows, I’m not hopeful about reconciliation after infidelity. It’s not that I don’t believe successful reconciliations are possible — it’s …
Dear Chump Lady, My wife recently disclosed that she’d had a five-month affair with her former boss which ended two years ago. During the course …
So you’ve been chumped and you’re trying to decide if your cheater is truly sorry. Is it real remorse? Or is it genuine imitation Naugahyde …
There’s an article over at HuffPo today on how a cheater should tell their spouse they’ve been having an affair. There’s some discussion on tell …
Writing this blog, I get dismissed frequently as being bitter and rather pessimistic in my outlook about cheaters. Hey, everyone makes mistakes, we’re only human, …
Dear Chump Lady, Why on earth do chumps (or any of us who have found ourselves in a skein of fuckedupedness of any relational sort) …
Dear Cheaters, Apparently there is still some confusion out there that your extracurricular shenanigans are wrong. In the interest of members of the unsuspecting public …
Dear Chump Lady, You had tried reconciliation with your ex, and up until recently I too had hoped for that. In fact, three or so …
One thing that surprises me about recently betrayed people (and frankly, surprised me about myself once) is how quick they are to accept a verbal …
Dear Chump Lady, I discovered my husband of 25 years and two children has been having five-year long affair. After he admitted that he was …
Dear Chump Lady, My wife cheated on me for several years. She’s full of remorse now and says she sorry, and we’re trying to …
