Category: Hopium

Hopium

Hope versus Hopium

I wrote once that chumps need to “bludgeon hope with a fencepost and operate with total lucidity.” Which doesn’t sound exactly hope friendly. But I …

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Hopium

Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope

Dear Chump Lady, First I want to say I am so glad I found your site, it is beginning to counteract the damage all the …

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Dear Chump Lady, Please kill my hope

Dear Chump Lady, Three years ago, I found out that my husband had had a three-year affair. When I found out, he told me I …

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Dear Chump Lady, I want to rescue my friend

Dear Chump Lady, Almost a decade ago, I lived with a man with NPD. I was fortunate: his sparkles ran out before he could cheat …

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