Dear Chump Lady, I have been reading your blog for the past year and, while it has helped me tremendously, I have a nagging sense …
Dear Chump Lady, It has taken several D-days (yes, I’m a chumpy chump) to realize that my fiance is not going to change. Now I’m …
My cheating ex once gave me a tie-dyed license plate cover for Christmas after D-Day — because I’m a “hippy chick.” He proudly affixed it to …
Hi Chump Lady, I found your site recently, I love the support here. Can I make a request for a post for those of us …
Dear Chump Lady, Is it normal behavior for a man to be accused of cheating, and he denies it, yet continues to hide his phone? I started …
Following up on Vickie’s excellent financial advice, I thought I would devote today’s column to mediation debacles. Vickie had a great comment on chump/cheater power …
Anthony Weiner, that irrepressible mongoose, is at it again. In case you missed it, last Friday the disgraced former New York politico and underemployed stay-at-home dad …
Hi Chump Lady, First off I am gay and I’ve been married for over 2 years and been with this guy for 9 years. I …
Today’s little public service announcement is brought to you by the Broke Ass Divorced Losers United Council (BADLUC). (Cue bouncy tune…) Are you divorcing a …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I say goodbye? My soon-to-be-ex and I broke up about 8 months ago, which was the best decision of my life. …
Dear Chump Lady, Please help, I feel so lost, I don’t know what to do. Earlier today I found my husband’s email open, it was …
On yesterday’s post a thread broke out on what it took for chumps to finally leave their cheaters. Not surprisingly, we have quite a readership …
So assuming some of the newly minted chumps from the Ashley Madison data hack wash up on our shores, what advice would you give them? …
Today’s guest post is by J.C. You were one of the mighty chumps. With the universally understood truth that it is the cheater who should …
Hi Chump Lady, I have a question for you: how do you get through the middle of this leaving-your-cheater process, as in, not the terrible …
Boy, we really bled a vein with the last post here “Why Did You Stay?”! UniquelyMe had a good suggestion, which was to follow that …
I think chumps are often misunderstood as sore losers. People can be incredibly tone deaf about infidelity — she left you? Hey, it’s all for …
Who wouldn’t love a do-over? I’m sure a few of you navigated this shit perfectly right out of the starting gate, but most of us …
Folks, I don’t do a lot of guest blogging here, but today I’m making an exception to introduce you to financial planner Vickie Adams, CFP®, …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I tell a (potentially) violent cheater I want a divorce without getting the shit kicked out of me? My DDay …