Category: How to leave a cheater

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Anthony Weiner Gets Catfished

Anthony Weiner, that irrepressible mongoose, is at it again. In case you missed it, last Friday the disgraced former New York politico and underemployed stay-at-home dad …

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Dear Chump Lady, My cheating husband wants me to sponsor his citizenship

Hi Chump Lady, First off I am gay and I’ve been married for over 2 years and been with this guy for 9 years. I …

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You Need a Lawyer

Today’s little public service announcement is brought to you by the Broke Ass Divorced Losers United Council (BADLUC). (Cue bouncy tune…) Are you divorcing a …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I say goodbye?

Dear Chump Lady, How do I say goodbye? My soon-to-be-ex and I broke up about 8 months ago, which was the best decision of my life. …

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Dear Chump Lady, He apologized to the OW for not leaving me

Dear Chump Lady, Please help, I feel so lost, I don’t know what to do. Earlier today I found my husband’s email open, it was …

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What Made You Leave a Cheater?

On yesterday’s post a thread broke out on what it took for chumps to finally leave their cheaters. Not surprisingly, we have quite a readership …

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Infidelity Advice for the Newly Chumped?

So assuming some of the newly minted chumps from the Ashley Madison data hack wash up on our shores, what advice would you give them? …

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When Escape Is Your Best Option

Today’s guest post is by J.C. You were one of the mighty chumps. With the universally understood truth that it is the cheater who should …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do you get through the middle of leaving?

Hi Chump Lady, I have a question for you: how do you get through the middle of this leaving-your-cheater process, as in, not the terrible …

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Why Did You Leave?

Boy, we really bled a vein with the last post here “Why Did You Stay?”! UniquelyMe had a good suggestion, which was to follow that …

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How To Leave Someone, How to Be Left

I think chumps are often misunderstood as sore losers. People can be incredibly tone deaf about infidelity — she left you? Hey, it’s all for …

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What Would You Tell Yourself at D-Day?

Who wouldn’t love a do-over? I’m sure a few of you navigated this shit perfectly right out of the starting gate, but most of us …

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Leveling the Financial Playing Field on Your Way Out the Door

Folks, I don’t do a lot of guest blogging here, but today I’m making an exception to introduce you to financial planner Vickie Adams, CFP®, …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I leave without him getting violent?

Dear Chump Lady, How do I tell a (potentially) violent cheater I want a divorce without getting the shit kicked out of me? My DDay …

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Dear Chump Lady, Am I divorcing too soon?

Dear Chump Lady: My husband of ten years admitted to me six weeks ago that he had begun an affair the previous month. It’s the …

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Dear Chump Lady, I suspect an affair

Hi Chump Lady, I stumbled across your site a while ago. I wonder what your thoughts are on a situation I find myself in. While …

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Dear Chump Lady, I wish I’d filed

Hi Chump Lady, So I have dealt with this mess awhile as I have health issues and an idiot alcoholic. I am finally on Prozac, …

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The Hail Mary Play for Kibbles

Yesterday’s post we were encouraging JJ to leave her husband (who really left her… anyway go back and read). She’s got a one-way ticket back …

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Dear Chump Lady, Can I pull a prank on the OW for revenge?

Dear Chump Lady, Your website is the first thing that has made me laugh since I found out about my husband and his “sweetie pie.” …

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Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just sexting

Dear Chump Lady, A few weeks ago, I discovered that my 63 year old husband of 25+ years had been having a texting/sexting relationship with …

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