Category: Kinds of cheaters
Do Cheaters Disguise Themselves As Addicts?
Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump with a 7-year relationship full of deceit and cheating under my belt. It just ended last week and I’m …
Dear Chump Lady, Why is he copying me?
Dear Chump Lady, My ex cheated on me relentlessly, with a mind-boggling amount of women. We had four D-days before I had the strength to …
One Off Cheaters versus Serial Cheaters?
Dear Chump Lady, I was wondering about serial versus (presumably) one-off cheaters. I know they both suck. But it’s hard if your cheater only cheated …
When You’re the Parent in the Relationship
One common thread I see running through a lot of stories here is that the chump is takes a parental role in the relationship. Gah! …
Affair Enablers
Dear Chump Lady, How about a post on enablers, i.e., people who assist cheaters in their pursuit of The Most Magical Romance the Universe Has Ever …
Dear Chump Lady, What’s an exit affair?
Hi Chump Lady, What is an “exit affair?” I think I might be on the receiving end of this but I’m not sure. He left …
Affair Enablers
Dear Chump Lady, How about a post on enablers, i.e., people who assist cheaters in their pursuit of The Most Magical Romance the Universe Has Ever …
Cheaters and Misogyny/Misandry
A reader wrote in to suggest some discussion topics and one of them was: Is there a relationship between being a cheater and misogyny / …
Dear Chump Lady, What’s an exit affair?
Hi Chump Lady, What is an “exit affair?” I think I might be on the receiving end of this but I’m not sure. He left …
Are All Cheaters Created Equal?
In my last post, about How to Leave a Scary Person, a “smart ass Texan” raised a very good point. CL, learning of your story …
Types of Affair Partners
And while we’re on the subject of mistresses… (In case anyone missed it, a discussion on HuffPo live yesterday on the subject with me bleating …
Dear Chump Lady, Is She Just a Fuck Up?
Dear Chump Lady, My girlfriend and I have been together for five years. We have a four year old daughter together. We are both young, …
Dear Chump Lady, What about the one-time cheater?
Dear Chump Lady, Most of your blog and comments seem to be geared towards the serial cheater, the ones who have made cheating a habit. …
Dear Chump Lady, How do you define cheating?
Dear Chump Lady, How does one define cheating? Obviously having sex with someone not your partner without your partner’s consent is infidelity. But on Huffpost …
A Spectrum of Cheaters
At one end of the spectrum, you have the folks for whom this was a one off. A drunken, one-night stand at a conference …
