Dear Chump Lady, My husband had an affair during our 19th year of marriage with a person in his graduate class. She sent me a …
Dear Chump Lady, Here’s my story and I’ll try to keep it short. I married my high school sweetheart and we’ve been married for almost 20 …
Dear Chump Lady, Married 31 years, chumped the last 2 (that I know of), 2 kids early 20s. I did it all, untangling the skein …
Dear Chump Lady, I married my husband in June of 2015 after being together for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever …
Dear Chump Lady, Is being alone worse than being with a cheater, if by alone you mean something like “alone for at least the next …
For today’s Friday challenge, I’m wondering about the long-suffering chumps out there and your hopium habits — what got you unstuck? I have some sympathy …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with the following situation? I work at the same organisation as my husband though in a different team. …
He’s a serial cheater and he won’t leave the home. Now he’s trying to pretend like nothing happened.
Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for almost 3 years and we have a one-year old. I discovered he was cheating with random strangers …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband of 15 years had been having an affair for over three years. Should I divorce him? I feel like our marriage …
Dear Chump Lady, Like all other Chumps, I never thought I would be here. I met the love of my life when I was 18 …
Dear Chump Lady, Do you think chumps should tell their family and friends that the reason they are separated from their spouse is because he/she …
Dear Chump Lady, Am I being unreasonable for having a problem with my husband’s ongoing relationship with a woman he tried unsuccessfully to seduce? One …
Dear Chump Lady, Tonight is a hard night for some reason. It has been 11 months since D-Day. And since then stories of other affairs …
Dear Chump Lady, Leaving my cheater has been a real struggle for me. I started going to a trauma therapist to get some help with …
Dear Chump Lady, I am very new to this site and honestly I’m just trying to wrap my head around if what is happening in …
Dear Chump Lady: I’ve read your advice and I want to divorce her. But that’s what she wants and she is manipulating me into being …
Dear Chump Lady D-Day for me was Aug 12, 3 weeks after our 20th anniversary. He admitted, after I basically squeezed it out of him, …
Dear Chump Lady, My wife and I were good friends for 5 years, dated for almost another 5 and have been married for 8 years, …
Dear Chump Lady, My D-day was August 27th, 2017. He just came up to me out-of-nowhere once the kids were in bed and said that …