Category: Limbo

Dear Chump Lady, Is there a middle path?

Dear Chump Lady, Is there a third way — between fully reconciling and divorce? I am a chump, more than two years past Dday, and …

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Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope

Dear Chump Lady, First I want to say I am so glad I found your site, it is beginning to counteract the damage all the …

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Dear Chump Lady, Hysterical bonding… WTF?!

Dear Chump Lady, Why hasn’t anyone mentioned hysterical bonding related to finding out about adultery? I am a recent chump. I found out 30 days …

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Dear Chump Lady, I know exactly what to do. I can’t seem to do it.

Dear Chump Lady, I do know exactly what to do. It’s just that it’s coming up on the first anniversary of the official DDay (it’s …

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Dear Chump Lady, Can “meh” exist for a unicorn?

Dear Chump Lady, Well, my husband and I are one of the Unicorns that reconciled last February of 2013. I was strong, kicked him out, …

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Dear Chump Lady, I can’t leave the cake eater

Dear Chump Lady, I am stuck. It has been 2 years since I discovered my common law partner of 20 years was cheating. I found …

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Dear Chump Lady, I Live in Limbo

Dear Chump Lady, I have been pouring over your blog for months now. I need advice! My husband of 18 years, had an affair in …

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Dear Chump Lady, Should I give him time to change?

Hello Chump Lady, I am currently in a situation where I am deciding whether or not to continue my marriage and could use some serious …

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Dear Chump Lady, My wife won’t go to counseling

Dear Chump Lady, My wife recently disclosed that she’d had a five-month affair with her former boss which ended two years ago. During the course …

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Dear Chump Lady, Sex with the STBX?

Dear Chump Lady, What do you think of sex with the STBX? I’ve lost weight and am looking pretty good. I want him to see …

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Dear Chump Lady, The dreaded unicorns are trying to pull me back

No, REALLY the comments should work now. Damn you Word Press! — CL   Hi Chump Lady, I’m struggling – and I should know better. …

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Dear Chump Lady, Am I an asshole for wanting to leave?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband cheated almost three years ago. Since that time he has been remorseful and been the husband that he was before …

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Living with Uncertainty

I remember once upon a time when my life was going to Hell, a friend wrote me a cheer up email and ended it with …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m afraid to tell him I want a divorce

Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t want a divorce, and he said that he wants to rebuild what we have. I’ve told him that I …

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Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for the spineless?

Dear Chump Lady, I too am a chump. I discovered my husband of four years, partner for nine total, had had several affairs during our …

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Dear Chump Lady, How long do I wait this out?

Dear Chump Lady, Okay, here is the situation. After 23 years together he has reconnected with an old girlfriend on Facebook and wants a divorce. After …

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Dear Chump Lady, Should I waste any more time in limbo?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m thinking about just going ahead and divorcing my cheating husband. Really, what is the point of wasting time in limbo? Everyone says …

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Dear Chump Lady, But I Took a VOW…

Dear Chump Lady, I’m on the fence about divorcing my cheating husband. But this is where I get stuck — I made a vow to …

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