Category: Meh
OW Taunting, Hard to Be ‘Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I won’t get into my entire chumped history (newly divorced, narcissistic FW lead open affair during my entire pregnancy last year, failed …
When Will I Feel Meh?
Dear Chump Lady, How I wish I had found your book and website before I read Shirley Glass’s sexist, apologist Not Just Friends with him …
The OW Left Him and I Don’t Know How I Feel
Dear Chump Lady, Will you please help me identify a new feeling of mine? Meh-be it’s meh but I don’t know!!! Yesterday (a Tuesday) I …
When You Need Cheater Twu Luv to Fail
We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater …
When Schmoopie Is a Public Figure
Dear Chump Lady, My story isn’t a new one. In fact, it’s a classic. I’m just one more chump whose wife left him for the …
Why Is the Cheater Living His Best Life And I Am Not?
Hi, Chump Lady, How do I get past the idea that somehow he and the affair partner are out there living a happy carefree life? …
Confronting a Divorce-Phobic Cheater
Hi Chump Lady! I work in retail, and today I ran into my soon-to-be-ex and his affair partner (ex’s best friend’s girlfriend) while on my break. We’d …
The OW Left Him and I Don’t Know How I Feel
Dear Chump Lady, Will you please help me identify a new feeling of mine? Meh-be it’s meh but I don’t know!!! Yesterday (a Tuesday) I …
What If I’m Never Meh?
Dear Chump Lady, I know that meh is the prize at the end of the rainbow for us chumps, but what if you’re not the …
Closure and Other Myths
It must be part of the part of the human condition to want closure. Either that or we’ve all watched too much Law & Order. …
Angry Feelings Still That She ‘Got Away with It’
Hey Chump Lady, Thank you so much for your site. Once I found it and discovered that I had my own agency and that my …
Signposts to Meh?
Friday Challenge by popular demand — how did you know you were getting to Meh? Were there signposts along the way? A certain point where …
What Meh Feels Like
Dear Chump Lady, Today I was out shopping with my daughters (young adults now) and we bumped into my ex-wife’s affair partner. He was with …
Rubberneckers and the Remarriage of an Ex
Dear Chump Lady, So, I found out through the grapevine that my ex is on his way to the altar with Schmoopie. And when family …
Years Later and No ‘Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I was married 20 years. It was around year 18 that my ex started the implosion, blaming me for his unhappiness for …
Ever Run Into Your Ex?
I know the interwebz are full of listicles on how to Clairvoyantly Uncouple for the Children. But they never include the kind of advice you …
Where’s My Justice?
Dear Chump Lady, Six months on from D-Day and I’m pissed. Where is my meh? Where is my happiness after the pain and trauma from …
‘He Brought His Girlfriend And I Lost My Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve done a ton of work on myself, I’m slowly reaching meh, and I’m practicing no contact as much as is possible …
When Will I Feel Indifferent?
Dear Chump Lady, How I wish I had found your book and website before I read Shirley Glass’s sexist, apologist Not Just Friends with him …
‘I Let Him Come Over with Pizza’
Hi Chump Lady, Your site is so important and has helped me find what I thought was my meh. D-Day was 4 years ago. Divorce …
