Category: Meh

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The OW Left Him and I Don’t Know How I Feel

Dear Chump Lady, Will you please help me identify a new feeling of mine? Meh-be it’s meh but I don’t know!!! Yesterday (a Tuesday) I …

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What If I’m Never Meh?

Dear Chump Lady, I know that meh is the prize at the end of the rainbow for us chumps, but what if you’re not the …

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Closure and Other Myths

It must be part of the part of the human condition to want closure. Either that or we’ve all watched too much Law & Order. …

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Waiting for karma

Angry Feelings Still That She ‘Got Away with It’

Hey Chump Lady, Thank you so much for your site. Once I found it and discovered that I had my own agency and that my …

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Signposts to Meh?

Friday Challenge by popular demand — how did you know you were getting to Meh? Were there signposts along the way? A certain point where …

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What Meh Feels Like

Dear Chump Lady, Today I was out shopping with my daughters (young adults now) and we bumped into my ex-wife’s affair partner. He was with …

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Rubberneckers and the Remarriage of an Ex

Dear Chump Lady, So, I found out through the grapevine that my ex is on his way to the altar with Schmoopie. And when family …

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Years Later and No ‘Meh’

Dear Chump Lady, I was married 20 years. It was around year 18 that my ex started the implosion, blaming me for his unhappiness for …

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Ever Run Into Your Ex?

I know the interwebz are full of listicles on how to Clairvoyantly Uncouple for the Children. But they never include the kind of advice you …

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Where’s My Justice?

Dear Chump Lady, Six months on from D-Day and I’m pissed. Where is my meh? Where is my happiness after the pain and trauma from …

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‘He Brought His Girlfriend And I Lost My Meh’

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve done a ton of work on myself, I’m slowly reaching meh, and I’m practicing no contact as much as is possible …

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When Will I Feel Indifferent?

Dear Chump Lady, How I wish I had found your book and website before I read Shirley Glass’s sexist, apologist Not Just Friends with him …

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‘I Let Him Come Over with Pizza’

Hi Chump Lady, Your site is so important and has helped me find what I thought was my meh. D-Day was 4 years ago. Divorce …

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‘I Lost My Meh’

Dear Chump Lady, I thought I was really close to meh, until I had a tough day with kids, and then ran into my XH …

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I Thought That Meh Was a Unicorn

Hi Chump Lady, I wrote to you about 10 months ago and you published it. It was The OW has abs of steel. I just …

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Did You Out Them on Social Media?

I saw a discussion the other day on whether or not to out your ex on social media. The comments were in favor, reasoning, “If …

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Is This What Meh Looks Like?

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve wrestled with what Meh looks like for such a long time and I wonder if I’m starting to approach it now? …

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Dear Chump Lady, How can I hurt him to the core?

Hi Chump Lady, Do you have any tips on how I can hurt him to the core? We were together 10 years. No kids. He …

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Dear Chump Lady, The OW left him and I don’t know how I feel

Dear Chump Lady, Will you please help me identify a new feeling of mine? Meh-be it’s meh but I don’t know!!! Yesterday (a Tuesday) I …

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Meh Sightings?

Have you had a glimpse of the Promised Land? Are you Meh? “Meh” — that liberating place of acceptance — is where you no longer are …

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