Category: Meh

Should You Warn the Next One?

About a year after my divorce from the cheater, I was driving past my old house. (Not an uncommon occurrence as it was on a main …

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The Promise Land of Meh Town

So the other day a little commentary broke out on a thread when Luziana pronounced herself the future “Mayor of Meh Town.” In the Kingdom of …

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Dear Chump Lady, What did you do on the anniversary of your D-Day?

Dear Chump Lady, I can hardly believe it, but February 6, 2015 is not so far off. For me, that day is the one-year anniversary …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m working with the OW

Hi Chump Lady, Thank you so much for all of your help! You gave me the backbone to go no contact 3 months ago. I …

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Dear Chump Lady, The OW signs my child support checks

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced from ex-shithead for five months now. We have two teenage daughters. I receive child support and alimony weekly …

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Dear Chump Lady, How did you experience the stages of grief?

Hi Chump Lady, I would like to know your take on the Stages of Grief. I know we have to work through all of them, …

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Dear Chump Lady, Got close to meh, and then… boom.

Hey CL, I’m a soon to be divorced dad with primary custody of my two adorable kids, 8 year old boy and 4 year old girl. …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over my envy?

Dear Chump Lady, D-Day was over a year go and I have since filed for divorce. I am the mother of two young kids and …

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Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain stop?

Dear Chump Lady, Tonight is a hard night for some reason. It has been 11 months since D-Day. And since then stories of other affairs …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I get to “meh” in a world full of cheaters?

Hi CL, Here’s my latest struggle: How to reach ‘Meh’ in a world full of cheaters? There are so many cheaters everywhere, it’s too much! …

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What Is This ‘Meh’ You Speak of?

What is meh? I get asked this a lot, and I don’t have a specific post on it, just a letter and a cartoon, so …

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Dear Chump Lady, Did I do a bad thing?

Dear Chump Lady, My ex got involved with my daughter’s hockey coach. It lasted a year. I discovered months of “I love you more and …

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A Message of Hope from a Fellow Chump

Hi guys, today’s my birthday, so I thought I’d run last year’s column, which was rather popular — here it is  — but then a …

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Musings on Giving a Shit

It stands to reason, that if you don’t like someone very much, they can’t hurt you very deeply. There just aren’t that many emotional sunk …

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Dear Chump Lady, Where’s my Meh?

Dear Chump Lady, I have worked really hard as seeing the STBX for what he really is. Gave up with the ego kibbles, stopped playing …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is “Meh” forgiveness?

Dear Chump Lady, I have been “stalking” your site for a few weeks now, gleaning a lot of wonderful advise from you and the terrific folks who …

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Dear Chump Lady, When does it stop hurting?

Hey CL, You mentioned in one of your comments that your DDay was in November of 2006 – how long did it take for you …

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