Category: No contact

cheater manifesto

Can I Tell His Family He Cheated?

Dear Chump Lady, My STBX informed me two weeks before Quarantine Thanksgiving that we had to talk. I shut the lid of my laptop and …

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no contact

Struggling with No Contact

Dear Chump Lady, Holy crap, Chump Lady, I feel like hell today. This No Contact is killing me. I woke up with a sense of …

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promise bullshit

UBT: “I Made a List”

Dear Chump Lady: After my divorce from an abusive man, I didn’t date seriously until 4 years later when I met the SparkleD*ck. He was …

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cheater overlap

When You Discover Your Boyfriend Has a Married Girlfriend

Dear Chump Lady, Last week, I left my boyfriend of 11 months. I recently discovered that before meeting with me, he had been in a …

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ego kibbles

Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for Christmas

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 4 years now after going through an ugly divorce complete with 2 years of doing the pick …

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UBT: The Huggy Ex and the OW

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve had minimal contact with my ex until recently, when he started dropping round my house on a Tuesday while the kids …

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zombie

UBT: “I Would Like to Have a Final Conversation”

Dear Chump Lady, I am finally filing for divorce (with a 6 month processing time COVID wooo). I want some insight into my ex-spouse’s requests. …

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no contact

Returning to Caretake a Cheater Late in Life?

Dear Chump Lady, Yesterday I was speaking with a friend of mine who is now 82 and she mentioned she had moved to the nearby …

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Is This Jealousy?

Dear Chump Lady, CN support helped me avoid a mindfuck my husband was trying to impose on me. Thanks to CN, I got up from my …

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Hopium

Chump Won’t Stop Doing Her Ex Favors

Hello, Chump Lady. I am hoping that you and Chump Nation can help me help a chump. My cousin, who is like a sister to …

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zombie

Breaking No Contact: How’d That Go?

The fastest path to healing after being chumped is no contact. We say that here a lot, and yet, when you’re in the early stages …

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maintain your dignity

When Does the Pain Stop?

Dear Chump Lady, Tonight is a hard night for some reason. It has been 11 months since D-Day. And since then stories of other affairs …

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‘I Trolled the Other Woman’

Hello Chump Lady, I screwed up. I fed the beast. I know you say “If it feels good, don’t do it,” but I confronted my …

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When Is It Okay to Tell Someone STOP?

Hi Chump Lady! The question I have for you is, when is it okay to tell someone to stop with their hurtful behavior and when …

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He’ll Send Support If She’ll Send Naked Pictures

Hi Chump Lady, Thanks so much for your blog that always keeps me on track. I have been no contact for 6 months. The peace …

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no contact

‘My No Contact Stinks’

Dear Chump Lady, My no contact stinks. You have discussed no contact in your book and on your website. Many of the CN regulars speak …

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go away

‘I Lost My Meh’

Dear Chump Lady, I thought I was really close to meh, until I had a tough day with kids, and then ran into my XH …

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lysol ex

Best No Contact Strategies?

After yesterday’s hoovering post, I figured it was only proper to follow up Unwanted Intrusions from Unwanted People with another Friday Challenge of your best …

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bitter bunny

Do I Have to Be Friendly With My Ex?

Hi Chump Lady, My question is about whether I’m supposed to be friendly to my cheating ex-husband when around the children (14-year-old twin girls). We …

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butt face

When You Work With Your Ex

Dear Chump Lady I’m in the unfortunate position of having to continue to work in a business with my ex. I know this isn’t ideal, …

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