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When You Work With Your Ex

March 26, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady I’m in the unfortunate position of having to continue to work in a business with my ex. I know this isn’t ideal, but we work on opposing days and most communication is via email and purely business related. I’m hoping that we can sell the business and finally go our separate ways […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Hopium, No contact Tagged With: No Contact, Working with ex

Should I Write the OW?

February 26, 2020 by Chump Lady

cheater manifesto

Dear Chump Lady, My husband left “temporarily” two years ago after my teenagers confronted him about his chronic emotional and verbal abuse. After a weird few weeks, he started accepting he had a problem and swore he wanted to get back together. He also swore the woman he moved in with was a lesbian roommate. […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, No contact, Pick me dance Tagged With: No Contact, Pick Me Dance

Hooker Habit Revealed, Cheater Threatens Suicide

December 10, 2019 by Chump Lady

no contact

Hello Chump Lady, I have lived with my husband for 8 years now and have been married for only 1.5 years. I recently noted odd behaviors (like always shaving his pubes suddenly), changing his passwords and not being as intimate with me… I decided to do a little digging and found that he was paying […]

Filed Under: No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Emotional blackmail, Prostitution, Suicide, Threats

His Family Says ‘I Should Be Happy for Him’

November 13, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My ex lives 12 hours behind me in the Philippines, with the “Only One True Love Of My Life”, (at least that’s how he described her to my family members within 2 weeks of meeting her online and parading her picture around). He moved out of our home with less than 12 […]

Filed Under: No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Meh, Schadenfreude

Dear Chump Lady, When does the pain go away?

October 23, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My question for you and perhaps more so, Chump Nation, is when, how long does it take before the pain goes away? How many days, months, years does it take until you wake up and go a day, few days, weeks without thinking about him? What are the experiences of your readers? […]

Filed Under: Abandonment, Early days after discovery, Gain a life, No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: No Contact, Pain, Tuesday

No Contact Fails — The Blooper Reel

October 11, 2019 by Chump Lady

maintain your dignity

This “Fun” Friday contest was suggested by an intrepid chump this week — no contact fails, the outtakes. If your chumpy existence was a Bloopers show — what mortifying episode would you highlight? That time you pet sat for her when she was in the Bahamas with the Other Man? Did you drunk text a booty […]

Filed Under: No contact Tagged With: No Contact

Dear Chump Lady, He wants a character reference

September 30, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, I was married for 25+ years to a serial cheater, liar, sex addict, abuser, manipulator (yeah, he was all that and a bag of chips). I finally threw him out last summer and we were divorced last fall — best thing I ever did. We haven’t communicated much (a good thing), but […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Character reference, Trust That They Suck

No Contact Wins

September 27, 2019 by Chump Lady

lysol ex

Freaks can fling some tasty bait at chumps. Why, just last Monday we read about the cheater who told everyone his chump ex was ISIS. Your Fun Friday Challenge is to share your no contact wins with CN. What provocation, insult, ridiculous rumor, bad tagged Facebook photo, withering slight did you NOT react to? What’s […]

Filed Under: No contact Tagged With: Boundaries, No Contact

Dear Chump Lady, I’m angry with myself for not leaving sooner

August 29, 2019 by Chump Lady

Mindfuck blender

Dear Chump Lady. I recently read your book, and it’s helped me a lot to not contact my ex-boyfriend (which had previously been very difficult), and to fully acknowledge his bullshit answers on evidence that never made sense. I first (yes, first…) discovered his cheating about three years ago. It came with the baggage of […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Chumps Decoded, No contact Tagged With: How to leave a cheater, Regrets

How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?

August 14, 2019 by Chump Lady

Serial cheater

Dear Chump Lady, Although he fits the readings, although the therapists tell you he is a narcissist, you don’t quite believe it. It isn’t quite human. How can someone be this weird? I decided when I worked out that our “reconciliation” was actually emotional abuse, when I discovered I had descended into a bitter, hopeless, […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Ego kibbles, Narcissism, No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: divorce, Narcissist

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