Category: Other Man
Ever Run Into an Affair Partner?
Here’s an etiquette dilemma Emily Post completely skipped over — how do you handle Schmoopie encounters? Must you say anything at all? What about compulsory occasions …
Did the Affair Partner Tell You?
One of the lousier ways to find out you’re a chump is having the news sprung on you via the affair partner. There are worse …
The Other Man Wants to Come to Mom’s Funeral
Dear Chump Lady, My mother died suddenly last Friday. I’d started grieving her when out of the blue this bloke called her phone and asked …
When the Other Man Is Your Brother
Hi Chump Lady. My wife cheated on me five years ago with my older brother. We had been married for less than a year. I …
Why Cheaters Think You Could Be Friends with Their Affair Partner
One submission that I get over and over again for “Stupid Shit Cheaters Say” is the cheater insists — you know, you’d really like the …
All Those Times You Didn’t Cheat
If you believe the popular commentators on infidelity, unfaithfulness is an affliction that can happen to anyone anywhere anytime. All of our relationships are under …
The Futility of Confronting Affair Partners
Here’s a rookie chump mistake — confronting affair partners. Maybe you did this. Maybe you agonized about doing this. Maybe you’re still waiting to come …
Dear Chump Lady, I feel like she traded up
Dear Chump Lady, I’m a multiple D-Day chump. Like many of us chumps I regularly engaged in the pick-me dance for my cake eater—talk about …
Stupid Shit Affair Partners Say?
At Chump Nation, we’ve spent years lovingly curating “Stupid Shit Cheaters Say.” Classics like, “I wasn’t buying strippers, I was buying self-esteem…. You spend money …
Cheaters Never Trade Up — The Lola Doctrine
While I’m jetting towards Australia, I’m running a guest column today by CN member “Lola Granola.” Enjoy! — Tracy Too often when we are on …
The Futility in Confronting Affair Partners
Here’s a common chump mistake — confronting the affair partner(s). Maybe you did this. Maybe you agonized about doing this. Maybe you’re still waiting to come up with the perfect withering remark to deliver along with your poisoned umbrella tip. Let me spare you the trouble — don’t go there.
When Affair Partners Marry
The other day I was watching TV and this ad came on for glitzy, casino holidays in Oklahoma. God help the ad executives who were trying their darndest …
Close Encounters with Affair Partners
Here’s an etiquette dilemma Emily Post completely skipped over — what do you say to the homewrecker who fucked your spouse? Must you say anything …
Let Me Tell You All About Them!
One of the classic “Stupid Shit Cheaters Say” utterances is, “You know, if you met (the affair partner), you’d really like (him/her)! They’re a lot …
Dear Chump Lady, Is she prettier?
Dear Chump Lady, My husband cheated on me with some woman, but he won’t tell me who she is. I don’t know anything about her …
UBT: “Other Men” Explain Their Affairs
I found this obnoxious piece of dreck “17 ‘Other Men’ Explain What It’s Like To Have An Affair With A Married Woman” by Jessica Winters because …
Dear Chump Lady, My wife is a serial cheater.
Dear Chump Lady, November 19, 2014 I learned that my wife had slept with another man in our bed while I was away at a …
Close Encounters of the Affair Partner Kind
Here’s an etiquette dilemma Emily Post completely skipped over — what do you say to the homewrecker who fucked your spouse? Must you say anything …
Ugly Artifact Discovered in Innocent Shed
Chump Lady is in the process of creating a Chump Cave. Or really, in actual fact, I’m renovating a garden shed so I’ll have a …
