Category: Reconciliation Industrial Complex

Universal Bullshit Translator

UBT: Your Cheating Spouse Is the Real Victim

Do I ever have a heaping pile o’ mindfuckery for you today. Introducing Reconciliation Industrial Complex therapist quack, Dr. Robert Huizenga. A chump on his …

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Andrew G Marshall

Does Couples Therapy with Cheaters Work? An Interview with Andrew G. Marshall

Today’s podcast — and blog fodder — is the interview Sarah Gorrell and I did with popular British therapist and author Andrew G. Marshall. We …

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Universal Bullshit Translator

UBT: The Most Common Mistakes Made by Betrayed Spouses in Recovering from an Affair

Hey chumps! You’re Doing It All WRONG! An alert chump sent me this appalling tripe from “Affair Resources and Advice” — a blog written by …

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Therapist Says Not to Tell People He Cheated

Dear Chump Lady, Do you think chumps should tell their family and friends that the reason they are separated from their spouse is because he/she …

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The Infidelity Fallacy of ‘Unmet Needs’

If I could wave my magic Chump Lady wand and rid the world of one founding principle of the Reconciliation Industrial Complex, it’s that affairs happen …

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James Craig

Cheating Dentist Poisons Wife

Cheating dentist poisons wife… Reconciliation Industrial Complex to blame? If I was playing a game of Clue, that’s what I’d guess. Not Colonel Mustard in …

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shrink

Every Bit of Lousy Reconciliation Advice

Hey Amazon chumps! You know who you are — sort of person who responds to a crisis with research. How many reconciliation books did you …

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Do You Believe in ‘Affair Fog’?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband had drunk sex with a woman who works for him when our little boy was 9 months old and we …

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unicorn problem

A Unicorn Ate My Facebook Page

Announcement: There’s a new private Chump Nation infidelity support Facebook page! Please join us! It’s got all sorts of bells and whistles. Zoom meet ups. …

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