Reconciliation

Are you in limbo and trying to repair your marriage? Read critiques of the Reconciliation Industrial Complex here and why you can’t fix a cheater solo.

He Apologized to the Other Woman for Not Leaving Me
December 7, 2025December 7, 2025
Debunking Why Happy People Cheat
October 26, 2025October 26, 2025
Cheating Wife Needs a ‘Safe Space’
October 20, 2025October 20, 2025
The ‘Dual Accountability’ Therapy Fallacy
October 10, 2025October 10, 2025
Where’s the Data on Reconciliation?
October 7, 2025October 7, 2025
Did Brain Seizures Make Him Cheat?
September 16, 2025September 16, 2025
James Dobson RIC Quack Dies
September 3, 2025February 8, 2026
My Wife Won’t Go to Counseling
August 14, 2025February 8, 2026
I Stay to Protect My Son from the Other Woman
July 23, 2025July 23, 2025
Every Piece of Crappy Reconciliation Advice You Got
May 9, 2025May 9, 2025
Better the Devil You Know?
April 29, 2025April 29, 2025
Should I Trust Him Again?
April 7, 2025April 7, 2025
How Can We Challenge Blameshifting Therapists?
March 2, 2025February 6, 2026
Took Him Back and He Cheated Again
February 27, 2025February 28, 2025
Affairs Improve Marriage?
February 16, 2025February 16, 2025
Cheating Wife Says ‘You Don’t Need the Specifics’
December 23, 2024February 8, 2026
We Divorced and Now She Wants to Reconcile
December 21, 2024December 21, 2024
What Is Pain Shopping?
October 26, 2024October 27, 2024
The Unlikelihood of a Cheater’s Immediate Remorse
October 6, 2024October 6, 2024
Making the Marriage a ‘Good Place to Be’ and Other Reconciliation Blameshifting
October 2, 2024January 8, 2026
‘Why Do Reconciliation Bloggers Annoy Me?’
September 25, 2024September 24, 2024
Do You Need the Whole Truth of an Affair?
September 5, 2024February 6, 2026
Can He Leave Over ‘Circumstantial Evidence’ of Cheating?
July 29, 2024February 8, 2026
Should I Give Him Another Chance?
July 13, 2024July 13, 2024
She Won’t Leave Her Cheater
June 26, 2024May 12, 2025
Cheater Promises to Live Like a ‘Dog in a Cage’
June 18, 2024February 8, 2026
8 Lessons Cancer Taught Me About Infidelity and Reconciliation
May 8, 2024May 8, 2024
He ‘Can’t Remember’ Details About Cheating
April 4, 2024April 7, 2024
The Fallacy of ‘Unmet Needs’ and Affairs
February 29, 2024March 27, 2024
What Is Contempt in a Relationship?
January 26, 2024April 7, 2024
10 Questions to Ask Your Unfaithful Spouse
January 10, 2024March 27, 2024
UBT: Should An Affair Be Disclosed?
November 29, 2023April 28, 2024
Real Remorse? Or Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse?
November 26, 2023March 3, 2024
The Mid-Life Crisis Made Me Do It. Really?
November 14, 2023March 9, 2024
The Impossibility of the 180 and Other Reconciliation Advice
October 24, 2023May 4, 2024
Dad’s a Closeted Cheater and Mom Wants to Reconcile
August 9, 2023March 21, 2024
He ‘Lost the Moral High Ground’ When He Told About His Wife’s Affair
August 3, 2023April 7, 2024
Does Couples Therapy with Cheaters Work? An Interview with Andrew G. Marshall
July 11, 2023March 26, 2024
Divorced Him, Took Him Back — Am I a Unicorn?
June 22, 2023May 4, 2024
UBT: Tell Me How to Reconcile
May 31, 2023July 21, 2024
UBT: A Million Dollars to Reconcile
November 29, 2022November 29, 2022
How Do I Get My Cheating Wife to Reconcile with Me?
September 15, 2022April 7, 2024