Category: Reconciliation

The Futility of ‘Affair-Proofing’

Many chumps ask after they’ve been broad-sided by infidelity — What did I do wrong?  And how can I make sure this never, ever happens …

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The Trap of the False Equivalency

I was posting over at and someone, very conveniently, posted several tropes about reconciling that are false equivalencies. A false equivalency is a logical …

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Dear Chump Lady, As a unicorn, I am offended

Dear Chump Lady, I am writing on behalf of us unicorns. We exist, those people who reconcile (who you say are as rare as unicorns). …

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