Category: Sociopathy

The Dead-Eyed Stare

So what about those dead-eyed stares, huh? It’s been discussed here, that void-nothing-state some of these freaks get when confronted. What is that look? Condescension? …

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Alan Dershowitz Is Human Garbage

I am completely obsessed with the Jeffrey Epstein story. And why wouldn’t I be? It’s the most operatic of Chump Lady topics — grotesque sexual …

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lies

Dear Chump Lady, The lies are crazy

Dear Chump Lady, I am 18 months out from D-day and 12 months from divorce. Your blog had helped keep my sanity in check and …

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Serial cheater

Get the F*ck Out Now

Hi Chump Lady! As a diagnosed “Perfectionist”, I have been traumatized over and over by the Reconciliation Industrial Complex gospel so awfully prevalent in society. …

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“Why do cheaters need to punish the chump?”

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve been separated about 8 months from my STBX cheater. We were married for 7 years when he began having an affair …

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Dear Chump Lady, I wish I would’ve pressed charges

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for several years. I found out during my marriage that my husband was a voyeur (taking secret video …

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Dear Chump Lady, He loves me, he’s worried about me… he left?

Dear Chump Lady, I don’t know why I feel so compelled to write a complete stranger at 3 a.m. about this. I pretty much know …

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Dear Chump Lady, My husband died. Then I discovered his double life.

Dear Chump Lady, My husband died unexpectedly about a month ago. I was devastated and my world fell apart completely. I thought he adored me. …

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Dear Chump Lady, I didn’t just discover cheating — he’s a criminal too

Dear Chump Lady, Any advice (beyond the obvious lawyering up) about the following scenario (which maybe isn’t all that uncommon, judging from my attorney’s reaction): …

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An Interview with Jen Waite, Author of “A Beautiful, Terrible Thing”

Jen Waite lived a nightmare we here at Chump Nation can all relate to — one terrible day she discovered her spouse had a double …

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UBT: There Is No Right or Wrong in the World

Dear Chump Lady, I am well on my way to meh after divorcing and dealing with texbook cheater speak for the last 5 years. The …

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Dear Chump Lady, He’s in the closet. How do I tell his wife?

Dear Chump Lady, A few months ago, I met a guy at a bar. We hit it off, and I invited him back to my …

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mindfuck

The “I Fail to Understand Your Hostility” Mindfuck

There is no mindfuck like the I Fail to Understand Your Hostility mindfuck. As mindfucks go, it’s Jedi-level mindfuckery. Oh sure your lesser manipulator can …

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Dear America, You’re in an abusive relationship

Dear America, You’re in an abusive relationship. And I should know… I’ve been there. Like you, I was infatuated at first. Swept off my feet …

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When Your Cheater Is Also a Sicko

So the other day, we had a discussion going in the comments about cheaters who do it in the marital bed, the family motorhome, the …

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UBT: Fred Armisen: Cheating “Is Just Something That Happens”

Apparently, comedian Fred Armisen (of SNL and Portlandia fame) enjoys some measure of renown as a douchebag. But like the characters he plays, he’s a nonchalant, …

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When Your Cheater Is Also a Predator

As any chump can tell you, the pain of betrayal is a motherfucker. That stomach lurching, heart stopping moment when you realize your partner was …

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Dear Chump Lady, My cheating husband won’t move out

Dear Chump Lady, Were it not for your blog I would have been struggling through the “pick me dance” and following the misguided self-destructive teachings …

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lies

Situational Truth

Stephen Colbert coined the awesome word “truthiness” — when referring to politicians who spin their own versions of reality. They seem so sure of themselves, …

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The Dead-Eyed Stare

So what about those dead-eyed stares, huh? The other day a thread broke out on the blank look cheaters give you when you confront them …

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