Category: Sociopathy
UBT: Fred Armisen: Cheating “Is Just Something That Happens”
Apparently, comedian Fred Armisen (of SNL and Portlandia fame) enjoys some measure of renown as a douchebag. But like the characters he plays, he’s a nonchalant, …
When Your Cheater Is Also a Predator
As any chump can tell you, the pain of betrayal is a motherfucker. That stomach lurching, heart stopping moment when you realize your partner was …
Dear Chump Lady, My cheating husband won’t move out
Dear Chump Lady, Were it not for your blog I would have been struggling through the “pick me dance” and following the misguided self-destructive teachings …
Situational Truth
Stephen Colbert coined the awesome word “truthiness” — when referring to politicians who spin their own versions of reality. They seem so sure of themselves, …
The Dead-Eyed Stare
So what about those dead-eyed stares, huh? The other day a thread broke out on the blank look cheaters give you when you confront them …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m a serial cheater
Dear Chump Lady: I was recently on your pages reading about cheaters without remorse. I am a serial cheater – at least four times with …
UBT: “My handling of your situation is beyond fault.”
Dear Chump Lady, A family member is divorcing her serial cheater and is attempting no contact. Below is a recent email from her not-soon-enough-to-be-ex that …
Dear Chump Lady, My wife is a serial cheater.
Dear Chump Lady, November 19, 2014 I learned that my wife had slept with another man in our bed while I was away at a …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I leave without him getting violent?
Dear Chump Lady, How do I tell a (potentially) violent cheater I want a divorce without getting the shit kicked out of me? My DDay …
Dear Chump Lady, He fooled me, he fooled my daughter
Dear Chump Lady, I am so thankful for your web site and for your frank way of putting things. I thought I was going crazy …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m trying to divorce in India. What should I do?
Dear Chump Lady, I am a 40 year-old classic chump from India with a 14 year old son. I am a member of the Chump …
A Serial Cheater’s Relationship “Advice”
People send me a lot of Crazy Cheaters in the News sort of stories. Not surprisingly, most of them are written by cheaters, trying to …
Dear Chump Lady, Why did he come back if only to hurt me?
Dear Chump Lady, I found your blog a few weeks ago, after finding out I had been cheated on for the upteenth time in six …
When Your Cheater Is a Sicko
So the other day, we had a discussion going in the comments about cheaters who do it in the marital bed, the family motorhome, the …
My Cheater Is an Eagle Scout
Any frauds out there? Cheaters lead double lives, we know this. But some wing nuts, I’ve noticed, take hypocrisy to new levels. The Jesus cheaters …
Dear Chump Lady, My friend is an OW
Dear Chump Lady: I first heard about your blog through a very close friend. Let’s call her “OWX3.” She is married and miserable. Has been, …
Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just a “game”
Dear Chump Lady, My husband and I have been married over 30 years and for the last several years I could feel something terribly wrong …
Dear Chump Lady, A home security system? WTF?
Dear Chump Lady, I’m in the middle of divorcing a serial cheater. Huge narcissist. I am living in the family home. STBX is living 3 …
Dear Chump Lady, She cheated 49 days into our marriage. WTF?
Dear Chump Lady So thankful that I found your blog. My narcissistic, bipolar, bisexual, substance abusing, money spending wife cheated on me in 49 days …
Brushes with Sociopaths
I don’t know if my ex is a sociopath. One of my lawyers (a right-wing ex-Marine from Alabama) said he was one. And he’s not …
