Category: Sociopathy

Dear Chump Lady, I’m a serial cheater

Dear Chump Lady: I was recently on your pages reading about cheaters without remorse. I am a serial cheater – at least four times with …

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UBT: “My handling of your situation is beyond fault.”

Dear Chump Lady, A family member is divorcing her serial cheater and is attempting no contact. Below is a recent email from her not-soon-enough-to-be-ex that …

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Dear Chump Lady, My wife is a serial cheater.

Dear Chump Lady, November 19, 2014 I learned that my wife had slept with another man in our bed while I was away at a …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I leave without him getting violent?

Dear Chump Lady, How do I tell a (potentially) violent cheater I want a divorce without getting the shit kicked out of me? My DDay …

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Dear Chump Lady, He fooled me, he fooled my daughter

Dear Chump Lady, I am so thankful for your web site and for your frank way of putting things. I thought I was going crazy …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m trying to divorce in India. What should I do?

Dear Chump Lady, I am a 40 year-old classic chump from India with a 14 year old son. I am a member of the Chump …

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A Serial Cheater’s Relationship “Advice”

People send me a lot of Crazy Cheaters in the News sort of stories. Not surprisingly, most of them are written by cheaters, trying to …

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Dear Chump Lady, Why did he come back if only to hurt me?

Dear Chump Lady, I found your blog a few weeks ago, after finding out I had been cheated on for the upteenth time in six …

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When Your Cheater Is a Sicko

So the other day, we had a discussion going in the comments about cheaters who do it in the marital bed, the family motorhome, the …

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My Cheater Is an Eagle Scout

Any frauds out there? Cheaters lead double lives, we know this. But some wing nuts, I’ve noticed, take hypocrisy to new levels. The Jesus cheaters …

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Dear Chump Lady, My friend is an OW

Dear Chump Lady: I first heard about your blog through a very close friend. Let’s call her “OWX3.” She is married and miserable. Has been, …

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Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just a “game”

Dear Chump Lady, My husband and I have been married over 30 years and for the last several years I could feel something terribly wrong …

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Dear Chump Lady, A home security system? WTF?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m in the middle of divorcing a serial cheater. Huge narcissist. I am living in the family home. STBX is living 3 …

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Dear Chump Lady, She cheated 49 days into our marriage. WTF?

Dear Chump Lady So thankful that I found your blog. My narcissistic, bipolar, bisexual, substance abusing, money spending wife cheated on me in 49 days …

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Brushes with Sociopaths

I don’t know if my ex is a sociopath. One of my lawyers (a right-wing ex-Marine from Alabama) said he was one. And he’s not …

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Infidelity *Is* Abuse

And a big hairy pox on those who think otherwise. Yes, the unicorns are at it again. Leading the sparkly unicorn brigade on HuffPo today …

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The Psychopath Test

I’ve got a great book to recommend and it’s not about infidelity per se — it’s about sociopaths — Jon Ronson’s “The Pyschopath Test.” (I …

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