Hi Chump Lady, I found your blog shortly after D-day and it saved my sanity. Backstory, married for over 30 years. Marriage with ups and …
Dear Chump Lady/CN, First of all, thank you for curating this resource; it’s been invaluable to feel less alone throughout this incredibly isolating experience! FW …
Hey Chump Lady, My husband of 36 years was killed by a drunk driver. I discovered he was cheating on me. I plan to confront …
Dear Chump Lady, I had a long-distance thing with a guy who jerked me around for about a year. I thought we loved each other. …
Dear Chump Lady, My story isn’t a new one. In fact, it’s a classic. I’m just one more chump whose wife left him for the …
Dear Chump Lady, Thank you so much for this site. I’m a chump myself, now in a much better place having gotten to Tuesday and …
Dear Chump Lady, I am a fellow chump who 4 years ago was betrayed, gaslighted, emotionally abused, on and on, by my partner of 8 …
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve recently been pondering something that irks me, and would really appreciate your opinion. In various conversations with some friends over the …
Hi Chump Lady, Could you please offer some advice as to what to say on your dates regarding why you’re divorced? Like you, I’m twice …
Dear Chump Lady, I am 33 years old and two months post-discovery of my ex-fiance’s affair, which was two months long with a sleazy girl …
One of the lousier ways to find out you’re a chump is having the news sprung on you via the affair partner. There are worse …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband had an affair 4 years ago, which I recently found out about. They are no longer having a sexual relationship, …
Dear Chump Lady, My identical twin sister recently confessed to me that she has been cheating on her husband. We were out with two other …
Dear Chump Lady, Divorce papers have been filed. Cheaterpants STBX moved out 7 months ago. Fill in the gaps with your stereotypical serial cheater husband, …
So, following up from yesterday’s post about not going quietly, I thought a good Friday discussion would be about chumpdom disclosure. Who did you tell? …
Dear Chump Lady, I would love to read your opinion on Alice Evans and how she is handling her betrayal and divorce. I’m torn between …
Hi Chump Lady, I’m writing today because my 95-year-old-grandmother’s dementia is progressing and it has me thinking about the story of her life (and what …
Dear Chump Lady, December marks three years since D-Day with the 21-year-old babysitter (among others). We had been together for 5 years, married for 2. …
Dear Chump Lady, My children, 4 and 7, and I had a talk the other day. I asked my son why he thought his parents …
Dear Chump Lady, Plain and simple here is my question. After many, many years of suspecting my husband of adultery, he finally told me after …