Category: Trust that they suck
Dear Chump Lady, It’s my D-Day Anniversary
Tracy, Wow. What a year. Yesterday was my D-Day anniversary. Watching her come home drunk, high, with another man all night and then watching her …
A ‘Trust That They Suck’ Refresher Course
“Trust that they suck” is a mantra that bears repeating. It’s so easy to fall for the propaganda, especially at the holiday season. You see …
Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for a new chump?
Dear Chump Lady, I am a new chump. As in my wound is so raw that I don’t think I’ve entered any significant stage of …
Love, the All-Purpose Spackle
Anyone else notice this phenomenon? On infidelity forums, you’ll read a thread describing a thousand horrors and humiliations and invariably it ends — “but I …
Dear Chump Lady, Why does it feel like he’s better than me?
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve written enough about my story, so you know my ex is a cheater, narcissist, nut job and creep of the highest …
Dear Chump Lady, But He’s Such a Nice Guy!
Dear Chump Lady, My husband of 25 years is a really good father/uncle/church member, who is friendly to everyone and is generally a very nice …
Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop comparing myself with the OW?
Dear Chump Lady, I am five months out from the last Dday. I did not do the pick me dance, I drew boundaries and protected …
Dear Chump Lady, Should I give him time to change?
Hello Chump Lady, I am currently in a situation where I am deciding whether or not to continue my marriage and could use some serious …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m second guessing myself
Dear Chump Lady, My husband has cheated on me with two different women over the course of the last year and a half. I found …
The Fear That They’re Going to Be Better for Someone Else
I get the same letter here at Chump Lady over and over again. It goes like this: I know he’s a liar and a cheat. …
Dear Chump Lady, He was my *best friend* — Now what?
Dear Chump Lady, I recently found out that my boyfriend of years, who I lived with, cheated on me with his friend’s ex-girlfriend. One day …
Being Thankful for Your Cheater
Should I be thankful I was cheated on? I’d like to think if God had some wisdom to impart, that He could find a better …
You Could Be Friends!
One submission that I get over and over again for “Stupid Shit Cheaters Say” is the cheater insists — you know, you’d really like the …
Very Evolved People Who Stay Friends
Did anyone see last week Sunday’s New York Time’s Modern Love? Here’s the link. The writer is one of those very evolved people who forgives …
Dear Chump Lady, I still love the stupid fuck. Help.
Dear Chump Lady, So, I have been divorced now for a month or so. My ex-husband and I separated in February and he had a …
Who’s Your Friend?
Chump Lady spoke on Huffington Post yesterday about who gets the friends after a divorce. If you don’t want to wade through the 25 minutes …
