Category: Trust that they suck

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Busted by Doorbell Cam

If you’re going to cheat on your wife, probably best to turn the doorbell cam off first. On this viral TikTok video, @kaylie271 found her …

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I Love My ‘Wonderful’ Addicted Cheating Wife

Dear Chump Lady, This is the first time I have put our story out there into the infidelity community. We have been married 30 years. …

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He Apologized. Now What?

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 10 months (separated for almost two years) From my husband of 22 years. He cheated on me …

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Can I Break Grey Rock Just This Once, Please?

Dear Chump Lady, Divorce papers have been filed. Cheaterpants STBX moved out 7 months ago. Fill in the gaps with your stereotypical serial cheater husband, …

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Her Husband Wishes She Were More Porn-like

Dear Chump Lady, My husband of 20 years has been replaced by a terrible person. He has gaslighted me in the strictest sense — insisting …

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Signposts to Meh?

Friday Challenge by popular demand — how did you know you were getting to Meh? Were there signposts along the way? A certain point where …

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He Says ‘It’s Not What It Looks Like’

Dear Chump Lady, I feel crazy, that my mind can even be wavered, or try so hard to not believe what my eyes saw!! I …

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Dumped with ‘You Deserve Better’

Hi Chump Lady, New chump here. I’m about two months out from D-day and a ball of confusion. My ex-boyfriend and I had almost reached …

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Cheating Ex Wants a Character Reference

Hi CL, I was married for 25+ years to a serial cheater, liar, sex addict, abuser, manipulator (yeah, he was all that and a bag …

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Is Sexting Cheating?

Dear Chump Lady, My life is a dumpster fire. I have three children, ages 10, 3, and 1. I’ve been married to to my idiot …

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He’s Back After ‘Ending It’ with OW

Dear Chump Lady, I just heard from my mother that my soon-to-be-ex reached out to her pleading after I had made it clear I was …

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What If He Changes for the Next One?

Dear Chump Lady, I called off my wedding three months before the big day, after discovering that my fiance was sleeping around with multiple women, including his …

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She Wants Me to ‘Fight For Her’

Dear Chump Lady, I found out last week that my wife has started an affair right under my nose: she comes home one evening saying …

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Bitch Cookie: ‘He Doesn’t Blame Me’

Hi Chump Lady, Chump me is getting a divorce, after catching my husband cheating on me for the third time. It was a “three strikes, …

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How to Be Mighty at a Wedding

Dear Chump Lady, I appreciate your advice and wisdom. I read your blog every day. At almost two years from D-Day, I’m looking forward to …

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Why Do Affair Partners Stalk Chumps?

Hi Chump Lady, Life is good at five years post-divorce. I haven’t talked to or seen ex since the settlement signing/final appearance in front of …

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Your Best Detective Skills?

Not that we chumps want to give away trade secrets or anything, but if you’ve spent any time in the infidelity meat grinder, you probably …

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He Took the OW on Vacation

Dear Chump Lady My husband, a school principal, cheated on me with his secretary, we are trying to work things out. He took his lover …

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Is ‘Bum-Bum’ a Friend?

Hi Chump Lady. I just need some decent advice. I have been with my partner for 20 years next month! We have four gorgeous children. …

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Idolized, Devalued and Dumped

Dear Chump Lady, I’m a professionally successful gay man in his mid-thirties. I live and work in the U.K. as a doctor and am on …

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