Did anyone read the Modern Love column in this last Sunday’s New York Times– “Friends Without Benefits”? It’s the overwrought tale of loving an emotionally …
Dear Chump Lady, How does one define cheating? Obviously having sex with someone not your partner without your partner’s consent is infidelity. But on Huffpost …
As nice is it is getting new readers to Chump Lady each time I’m published on Huffington Post, I have to say I’m getting pretty …
Dear Chump Lady, My boyfriend and I dated and lived together from 1989 to 1994. I paid the house payment, utilities, groceries, etc. and not …
Dear Chump Lady, My husband and I have been married for 24 years. We both have been very happy until recently. We met …
Here’s a therapy mindfuck if ever I read one — after you’ve been cheated on and you want to reconcile the marriage — strive for …
You may have noticed something a little different about the layout of Chump Lady lately. I’ve opened a Cafe Press shop to hawk chump stuff. …
I got this letter sent to me after my last Huffington Post essay. Posting it to get your thoughts and provoke discussion. I did write …
Dear Chump Lady, You have done such a wonderful job describing the cheater. Can you please give me insight into the mind of the other …
People who will screw around on you, will often screw you over financially as well. Are you in the dark about their affairs? You’re probably also in …
Dear Chump Lady, Why on earth do chumps (or any of us who have found ourselves in a skein of fuckedupedness of any relational sort) …
God, I really can’t stand all the moralistic gobbledygook that you must forgive a cheater. According to one blogger over at HuffPo, Vicki Larson, it …
Dear Chump Lady, I have been in a serious committed relationship for two years now. We have had ups and downs, but mostly due to …
Dear Chump Lady, Okay, here is the situation. After 23 years together he has reconnected with an old girlfriend on Facebook and wants a divorce. After …
Recently Chump Lady got taken to task by a commentator on HuffPo for saying “fuck” too much. The person wrote to say that he himself …
Dear Chump Lady, First, let me just say that I love your blog! I just discovered it (via Huffington), and it came into my life just …
Dear Chump Lady, I would love to hear your take on this: When my former significant other (SO) was sneaking around behind my back having …
One submission that I get over and over again for “Stupid Shit Cheaters Say” is the cheater insists — you know, you’d really like the …
Dear Chump Lady, I have serious question that I have been wrestling with. I know my cheating ex-wife is a narcissist and tried to put …
The holidays can suck at the best of times, let me count the ways. Credit card debt, over eating, dysfunctional family get togethers, box store …