Chump Lady used to be a think tank editor in her younger days. Think tanks are those marble buildings on K St. in Washington, D.C. …
Well, I try not to blog about myself too much, because God, how narcissistic and dull. (Mommy blogging anyone? Does anyone want to know about …
Betrayed people get caught up a lot on the notion of forgiveness. Taking the high road. Turning the other cheek. Being the bigger person. Let’s …
And speaking of vengeance…. You want to read an inspiring revenge story? Read about South African Albie Sachs. Sachs was a lawyer on the wrong …
After that comes judgment Oh, and judgment will be swift You will be eliminated But here’s a parting gift Oh, if you die fearin’ God …
Dear Chump Lady, Can you comment on “revenge affairs”? The common cliche is that they are just as wrong. But, that simplistic analysis fails to …
Chump Lady was recently approached by a nice man Trevor, who sent a complimentary email introducing himself and his website, thinking we had much in …
Dear Chump Lady, You had tried reconciliation with your ex, and up until recently I too had hoped for that. In fact, three or so …
Wonder if I gave you diamonds Out of my own womb Would you feel the love in that Or ask why not the moon? One …
Dear Chump Lady, My cheating ex-wife avoids me. We don’t speak on the phone. And she does not go to events with our kids if …
One thing that got me through infidelity, and I’m sure it’s helped you too — having an awesome soundtrack. I started with Dayna Kurtz a …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m thinking about just going ahead and divorcing my cheating husband. Really, what is the point of wasting time in limbo? Everyone says …
One thing that baffles me about cheating is that people think it is “complicated.” There’s even a relationship designation for that on online dating sites …
Dear Chump Lady, It seems to me that a lot of betrayed spouses like to jump on the “my cheater has a sexual addiction” …
One thing that surprises me about recently betrayed people (and frankly, surprised me about myself once) is how quick they are to accept a verbal …
Hey, cheated-on peeps, this one goes out to you. Check out the most awesome Dayna Kurtz singing “I’m Not the Only Fool in Town.” Some …
One of the stupidest things cheaters say is: “It wasn’t about you.” This is both infuriating and true. It wasn’t about you. They were not …
Dear Chump Lady, I reconnected with a HS classmate on Facebook. Only one conversation was flirty and invested (it was 2 hours long). Other than …
Dear Chump Lady, I just found your blog today and I am really like your simple, no-nonsense style. I found out my husband was having …
