Author: Chump Lady

A Dinesh of a Mess

This just in. God must really love a hypocrite. Dinesh Dsouza, conservative Christian  “scholar” and filmmaker in the Obama bashing oeuvre is cheating on his …

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Dear Chump Lady, To Tell or Not to Tell

Dear Chump Lady, I have been thinking about telling the other person that her husband has been cheating on her with my wife — should …

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Dear Chump Lady, My boyfriend had an EA

Dear Chump Lady, I feel as if I narrowly escaped the total destruction of having a partner who was conducting an EA dressed as up …

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They’re Not “Wayward”

May I just take a moment to say that I hate the term “Wayward”? As in “wayward spouse,” (WS) or as it is known in …

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Marriage Counseling Quackery

When I read on infidelity boards, I’m always shocked to read about people’s shitty marriage counseling experiences. Not to diss all marriage counselors or the …

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A Reluctant Cheerleader for Divorce

I really never thought I’d be a cheerleader for divorce. Hell, if you’d asked me 25 years ago about divorce, I’d be horrified to discover …

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Arnold Being Arnold

Did anyone see the 60 minutes segment in which Arnold Schwartzenegger discusses his serial cheating and boinking the  housemaid? There’s a great smackdown of it …

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Who’s Your Friend?

Chump Lady spoke on Huffington Post yesterday about who gets the friends after a divorce. If you don’t want to wade through the 25 minutes …

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Chump Lady Appears on Huffington Post Live

Coming soon… Chump Lady IRL. Live on video having a bad hair day and dispensing opinions on friendship after divorce. I appear to have taken …

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“I, Cake Eater”

Recently someone named “The Affair Partner” wrote to Chump Lady. I thought the lengthy comment deserved its own post. Why? So I can dice it, …

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Cheater Word Salad

Chump Lady used to be a think tank editor in her younger days. Think tanks are those marble buildings on K St. in Washington, D.C. …

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Happy Birthday Chump Lady

Well, I try not to blog about myself too much, because God, how narcissistic and dull. (Mommy blogging anyone? Does anyone want to know about …

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Do You Have to Forgive a Cheater?

Betrayed people get caught up a lot on the notion of forgiveness. Taking the high road. Turning the other cheek. Being the bigger person. Let’s …

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Soft Vengeance

And speaking of vengeance…. You want to read an inspiring revenge story? Read about South African Albie Sachs. Sachs was a lawyer on the wrong …

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How to Get Revenge on a Cheater

After that comes judgment Oh, and judgment will be swift You will be eliminated But here’s a parting gift Oh, if you die fearin’ God …

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Dear Chump Lady, What do you think about revenge affairs?

Dear Chump Lady, Can you comment on “revenge affairs”? The common cliche is that they are just as wrong. But, that simplistic analysis fails to …

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Tinker, Tailor, Soldier… Oh just forget it

Chump Lady was recently approached by a nice man Trevor, who sent a complimentary email introducing himself and his website, thinking we had much in …

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“The Walls in Your House Sing Again”

This is a true story submitted to Chump Lady by her Aunt J. Ladies and Gentlemen (because men have cheating wives), life does get better …

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Dear Chump Lady, What if my cheating wife comes back?

Dear Chump Lady, You had tried reconciliation with your ex, and up until recently I too had hoped for that. In fact, three or so …

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Hate On Me, Hater

Wonder if I gave you diamonds Out of my own womb Would you feel the love in that Or ask why not the moon? One …

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