Got a question for Chump Lady or something you’d like to feed to the Universal Bullshit Translator? Write to me at firstname.lastname@example.org
If you send a letter, create a screen name (or I will make one up for you). I review letters to publish them. If you do not want your letter posted, please make that clear. Alas, I get so much mail that I can’t personally respond to every letter. (Sometimes I do, but most often I do not.)
Most important — if I answer your letter, post a comment on your thread. People are taking time to offer their support, please take the time to acknowledge them.
A few caveats and disclaimers — I’m not a lawyer, I can’t give you legal advice. I’m a chump. My advice comes from lived experience and running this blog. I cannot accept payment to offer personal advice or be your life coach or anything else like that. (And isn’t the whole concept of a life coach kind of mortifying anyway?)
I publish letters so we can all benefit from one another’s hard-won wisdom. However, if you’d like to donate to the blog, that would be super awesome. (It costs quite a lot of money to operate the site. Not including my time.)
If you’ve got a super scary situation? Check out the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. (And clear your browser history!)
If you are the affair partner and wonder if you should tell the chump? (I get this same letter over and over and over…) YES, TELL. Provide some proof, if possible, and then let go of the outcome. Oh, and get some therapy. Thank you.