Search Results for: three channels – Page 3

karma

The OW Left Him and I Don’t Know How I Feel

Dear Chump Lady, Will you please help me identify a new feeling of mine? Meh-be it’s meh but I don’t know!!! Yesterday (a Tuesday) I …

Read More
bitch is crazy

‘I Believe the Other Woman Is Psycho’

Dear Chump Lady, I found out my husband cheated on me about 2 months ago. How you ask? The woman he was sleeping with sent …

Read More

Shark Eyes and Dead Stares

In a recent post, a thread broke out on the shark eyes FWs give you when you confront them with their lies. What is that …

Read More
Narcissist Goldfish

Why Can’t He Be Happy for Me?

Dear Chump Lady, You’ve helped me more than I can say in the wake of D-day almost a year ago after the RIC threatened my …

Read More

UBT: ‘My Ex Owes Me Money’

Dear Chump Lady, I found out my 40-year-old ex-husband was cheating on me with a 19-year-old in Feb. 2018, shortly after found out she was …

Read More

Schadenfreude and the FW Whisperer

Dear Chump Lady, I know by now you think you’ve heard it all, but I’m going way out on a limb and guessing you haven’t …

Read More
leave a cheater

Is Breaking Up 4 Years After D-Day ‘Overreacting’?

Dear Chump Lady, I recently discovered your book and am about half way through it… D-Day was 4 years ago and I went through everything …

Read More
no contact

I Unfriended Him

Dear Chump Lady, I unfriended and unfollowed my cheating husband on Facebook and Instagram. Apparently, he just found out and sent me this text, “You …

Read More
mindfuck

Idolized, Devalued and Dumped

Dear Chump Lady, I’m a professionally successful gay man in his mid-thirties. I live and work in the U.K. as a doctor and am on …

Read More
Kane Mansir

3 Chumped Women Expose Army Lt. Col. with Double Life

Several alert chumps sent me the story this weekend of serial-cheater Army Lieutinent Colonel Richard Kane Mansir and his double life. Three chumped women  — his …

Read More
mindfuck

The ‘Only One Who Really Cares’?

Dear Chump Lady, I was married for 29 1/2 years to an amazing, dedicated, sweet husband. In 2009 we lost our teenage daughter after only …

Read More
Derrick Jaxn

Derrick Jaxn, The Latest Unicorn

The Reconciliation Industrial Complex has a new star — “self-love guru” now busted serial cheater, Derrick Jaxn. Seen here in a hostage video with his …

Read More
cyclops lonely

A ‘Fix Your Picker’ Refresher

Is this not your first time at the chump rodeo? Are you afraid you’ll wind up shackled to another person of dubious character? While I’ve …

Read More
mask

Chumped by Two Chumps

Dear Chump Lady, I guess you can say I’m a chump-variant in that I had a runaway cheater. Married over 24 years to someone I …

Read More
wayward

Did He Cheat Because He’s Depressed?

Dear Chump Lady, Please help me sort through this mess. Help me get angry! My husband and I were together for 6 years and married …

Read More
no contact

Struggling with No Contact

Dear Chump Lady, Holy crap, Chump Lady, I feel like hell today. This No Contact is killing me. I woke up with a sense of …

Read More
chasing unicorn

UBT: How Do I Get My Gay Cheating Husband to Reconcile?

Dear Chump Lady, Thank you for saving my life. I was suicidal when I read your posts and they knocked me back into reality. I …

Read More

The Family Next Door

I’ve gotten a few notes asking me if I’d seen the new Netflix documentary American Murder: The Family Next Door about the murder of Shan’ann …

Read More
word salad

Cheater Word Salad Attacks

Chump Lady used to be a think tank editor in her younger days. Think tank publishing is mostly vanity publishing and not every book was stellar. …

Read More
mindfuck

Sad Sausage Tales?

The sad sausage self-pity channel probably provokes more Stupid Shit Cheaters Say than the other two channels, rage and “charm.” It’s kind of absurd for …

Read More
>